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You are Lucky then if an INFJ Loves You

October 10, 2019

You are Lucky then if an INFJ Loves You As one of the 16 personalities of the MBTI
types, INFJ is considered as the more changeable personality among others. Perhaps, the INFJs may seem stable, confident,
and intelligent at first, but it doesn’t take too long to see their real thoughts and
feelings. That’s the reason why they seem hard to
find their romantic partners. However, they will keep their commitment until
the end once they find a partner who can appreciate their complexities. In this video, I’m going to share with you
some reasons why you are so lucky when an INFJ loves you. Before we jump to the lists, make sure to
like this video and subscribe to our channel, so you won’t miss any of our interesting updates
in the future. So, here are the reasons why you are lucky
when your lover is an INFJ #1 – INFJs are intuitive They tend to rely the situation on their strong
intuition. Mostly they can accurately predict the result
of certain situation or certain characteristics of a person. They can sense your feelings and mood and
find a way to always love you. #2 – INFJs are self aware. They have the most updated version of self
awareness as they can be reactionary to the energy of their circumstance. #3 – INFJs are goal oriented. They are dedicated to follow up their commitments. As the empathetic individuals, INFJs will
always find a solution to most of their problems. #4 – INFJs creatively shine. Creativity is a default feature of INFJ. They will always find a unique way to show
their affection to you, whether it is found in a gift, a date, or even a compliment. #5 – INFJs will always find a way to communicate
with you. As they find it hard to meet their romantic
partner, they tend to keep their relationship no matter what. You will be their priority once they think
that you are the most appropriate partner for them. #6 – INFJs will openly receive you as you
come and willingly forgive you. Possibly, it is considered as the most precious
quality that INFJs have. Their ability to forgive other people as easy
as they forgive themselves is rarely found on other people personality. Besides, as they fall in love with you, they
would never think about your flaws. All in all, that’s the reasons why you are
lucky when your lover is an INFJ. Really cool information isn’t it! Please share your thoughts and experiences
in the comments below! Don’t forget to subscribe to our channel and
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  • Reply Manas Bhushan December 26, 2017 at 9:02 am

    Thanks for the video!

  • Reply DIY Solar Homestead December 26, 2017 at 9:34 am

    Happy Holidays

  • Reply Michelle Oliver December 26, 2017 at 11:58 am

    Thanks. Unless the infj door slams you, you are lucky indeed.😉

  • Reply Rosy lavender December 26, 2017 at 12:23 pm

    Hye,, can u make any video abt ISFJ ? Thank u

  • Reply Kent Nauman December 26, 2017 at 6:18 pm

    I am an INFJ 67-year-old MGTOW monk when I was young all I had to do to infuriate any young lady was to ask her out to dinner. I stopped asking because I had enough enemies already. God bless you in the name of my Lord Jesus Christ, Kent J. Nauman ex-MD (axis I schizophrenia (chronic))

  • Reply Bampa Maddog December 27, 2017 at 12:32 am

    Luck ? Bullshit.

  • Reply MsMessenger1 December 27, 2017 at 10:41 pm

    Disclaimer: You're only lucky to have a INFJ love you IF THEY ARE HEALTHY!!! If they are not healthy (emotionally and mentally), run away very quickly from them and don't look back. Advice from personal experience. (me: INFP)

  • Reply Aaron Wolfenbarger January 7, 2018 at 6:05 am

    So I'm lucky if a self delusional person that thinks they have special powers loves me? Someone that assumes to know what is going on inside of me as if my freedom of choice doesn't matter compared to what they want to be true? I don't know, that seems an awful lot like taking up my souls ass and I don't take it up the ass in any sense of the word so if an INFJ was to "love" me I do believe Id beat the fucking shit out of her if she came at me with THAT strap on! Just sayin Just sayin.

  • Reply Aaron Wolfenbarger January 7, 2018 at 6:12 am

    They cant find romantic partners because their basic belief is to disrespect and violate the free moral agencies of other human beings. Nobody likes that! That's BIG FUCKING NO NO! Wars have been fought over this very same issue! Great we have a bunch of wanna be Popes running around out their trying to invent their own version of cannon law and take away common law from people Why call it INFJ at all why not just call it POPE instead? Its the same thing, trials without evidence and based soely on what some crazy fuck says is goin on inside of someone else. If she floats she is a witch and we burn her if she drowns she is innocent but just as dead. What the fuck is wrong with you? You don't deserve love because your cowards and your thinking is rapey and perverted and unhealthy. Someone in the comments section said ONLY if they are healthy but there is nothing healthy about such a person! I want to put a bullet in each and everyone of you who thinks to tell me who I am and define MY being, and I am RIGHT to want to do that! Its the correct and healthy response to such an evil insidious set of beliefs!

  • Reply Shhdun January 8, 2018 at 8:41 am

    I'm INFP but my best friend is INFJ

  • Reply Ms Yolskii January 8, 2018 at 11:11 pm

    But is it really bad to be one??

  • Reply Yaki Tok January 12, 2018 at 1:03 pm

    These freaking voices are shitt

  • Reply ******* January 15, 2018 at 12:53 pm

    Karma plays important role.What you will give, you will recieve.And it applies to all personality types.Even INFJ forgives you ,the other person still bearer of his own karma. INFJ forgive you Because they don't want to face same situation in future and they see biger picture beyond worldy matters.

    second, Time is very powerfull in comparison to any situatons and cercumtances .

  • Reply D. Peiris January 19, 2018 at 4:21 pm

    i don't forgive cheaters though.

  • Reply Genesis Von Keglar January 22, 2018 at 3:39 am

    How long has this INFJ craze been going on? Is it a cult or something? Or is it a way for misunderstood people to stroke their ego a bit? Idk, much of this information is insightful indeed, but it is also a rabbit hole into morbid self analysis or self obsession, especially if you are a supposed INFJ.

  • Reply jasvinder singh kwatra January 22, 2018 at 4:24 am

    I am infj, but finding someone is very hard, i we got someone we tend be em no matter what.

  • Reply Shahmir Jilani January 23, 2018 at 4:05 am

    I'm a pure INFJ and I love you !

  • Reply Amber Boutilier January 27, 2018 at 8:32 pm

    Type bashing is unhealthy for everyone.

  • Reply iwantoutofhere iwantoutofhere February 7, 2018 at 5:00 am

    I'd love to know the difference between infj and an infp.

  • Reply because aliens February 8, 2018 at 5:50 pm

    I'm a 34 year old male, who just recently took the Meyer Briggs test to find out why I'm so fucking weird and why I just think so much different than others. The INFJ described me to the T and has helped me tremendously. Come to find out my mother wanted to know the same thing so she took me to a psychologist and to get an IQ test at age 7. She's known the whole time and said I scored a 136. So at least I was smart at one point!!!

  • Reply andrew del prado February 16, 2018 at 11:19 am

    Infjs are so cool

  • Reply 70s Child March 2, 2018 at 5:45 pm

    I don’t easily forgive. 😡

  • Reply Valerie M March 2, 2018 at 9:40 pm

    My crush is lucky🙄😘

  • Reply Dustin Terwilliger March 9, 2018 at 9:20 pm

    I have never met an infj before

  • Reply A Beautiful Perfect Dove March 13, 2018 at 11:05 pm

    I'm noticing a lot of pride from INFJs in the comments that I didn't expect to see. It seems they need an excessive amount of reassurance to feel good. I hope I'm wrong

  • Reply Mustafa Ahmed March 30, 2018 at 9:09 pm

    I forgive people no matter what 😶

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  • Reply J U May 18, 2018 at 8:37 pm

    As INFJ absorbs all emotions from his surrounding, he can actually emit his emotion to other people without action too. Which means, if you are an INFJ who always faces a one-sided love, whether your partner even liked you first or not, during the relationship, you need to know that your partner will love you forever if you believe so. Your ideal becomes your reality if you really believe – you already know that.

  • Reply Jeremy Smith May 22, 2018 at 6:25 am

    Really cool information isn't it – annoying robot

  • Reply Anton Ohvo June 17, 2018 at 9:47 am

    I don't feel lucky at all. Couldn't understand why she was so kind and clingy, I thought she was a dork. Then she suddenly made sense to me – because she found someone else! After years of suppressed and unspoken love 🙁

  • Reply Elvis Gonzalez July 8, 2018 at 9:21 pm

    If only my girlfriend and friends appreciated me lol, it's all good. MBTI is great for knowing your strengths and weaknesses, but be careful to not become over analytical and obsessed! There is no such thing as a perfect match (my ex girlfriend was an ENFP for that sake too, my "perfect" match), you've gotta make it work by being adaptable.

  • Reply charmaine684 July 11, 2018 at 5:10 am

    I drive my enfp crazy.

  • Reply Ve Vee July 27, 2018 at 12:32 am

    Yea I’m an INFJ too. We know when those we love are deceiving. Once trust is lost it’s hard to gain back. We always are very sensitive to energies of people places or things. We know when something is wrong with anyone we are close to. Especially with our loved ones. At times this can be a curse too cause we need truth so we know how to deal with the problems and we try to fix things or we express how we feel which we don’t do to well unless it’s in writing. We see a certain future with our loved one that they used to share and when they change it’s hard for us to accept. We tend to thrive on positivity but when a loved one keeps only seeing the negatives and points only that out we believe them most of the times and end up feeling that we failed or are failures Sadly we are easily hurt and tend to internalize it and try to take blame or we assume it’s our fault something didn’t work out right and of course we try to fix it and the other person may not want to be fixed. We live in secret torment that can lead to self doubt and depression. We are the type of all or nothing in relationships at times. We are dreamers. Artists. Writers or in a field that is a help to others. We tend to look how we can better others lives. It’s either people animals, or other things that cause an positive impact and forgetting about ourselves We have intuition of things and may see or know things that others find weird or freak out about. We have been called weirdos freaks strange stupid awkward stupid or people may think cause we are so sensitive and just KNOW then we could even be called psychic or worse So we hold our thoughts and feelings close to our hearts. A little about me. I had been a massage therapist. Poetry writer with some published. A painter. And in wild animal rehabilitation for many years. No matter what job I had I was always the best. And it’s because we strive for perfection in our line of work. Not bragging but fact. But when we feel like we fail it’s devastating. It can cause us to isolate ourselves so much that it’s unhealthy. Especially if it’s a relationship. Then we end up being too hard on ourselves and can sink to sever depression DOING NOTHING because of thinking what’s the use. We seem to want all or nothing. We only have but a few close friends if that. The main friends is our family. Of course we only want what best cause we can tell ahead of time what’s going to end up happening. Or we just have a feeling of that reality that might happen. We are very very protective of the ones we care about and we can be worse than a momma bear. And we get emotionally hurt we hurt to the heart. It’s hard to heal. But then again we are always understanding to the point we blame ourselves and just want to completely disappear into nothingness and not to continue in this life cause we may think that’s it’s been our fault and everyone would be better off if we weren’t here at all. That’s the dangerous side of this personality cause it may end up being our flawed thinking. We may think that’s the only way things would be better for everyone we didn’t exist. Life is so stressful. We won’t share our deepest secrets with anyone unless it’s a person who listens and has our trust. There’s that all or nothing concept and we may try to apply that flawed reasoning to ourselves and it could end up disastrous to our wellbeing. And yes I can be very frustrating for our loved ones to understand EXACTLY what’s going on with us cause we are complicated emotional people. And others may never understand what makes us tick or take the time to find out cause if they ask us for our opinion we will tend to avoid the answer if not flattering to the other person. And if we do decide to give them our opinions we could easily be rejected for having it. At times I know I feel like I’m walking on eggshells or I isolate myself to a void drama. Sorry for writing a book on this lol. Take care

  • Reply Andrew Skinner September 1, 2018 at 10:33 am

    You must be joking

  • Reply Thomas White September 24, 2018 at 1:26 am

    As an INFJ, I have tried to relax my standards. Once I do commit, it is for life… unless she cheats, or purposely says something that can never be forgiven.

  • Reply Yvonne Campbell September 27, 2018 at 9:41 pm

    They may seem intelligent at first, hahaha!

  • Reply Kodak237 September 28, 2018 at 10:58 pm

    ***still gets friend zoned***

  • Reply Jamey Somers September 30, 2018 at 9:03 pm

    Well, I can totally relate to this. When I commit to someone – it is to the end, one way or another. Sometimes I was blinded by this fact, but still would change the way I think…it works for me and I am very honest about it. Being empathic can work for or against you, but there is a sincerity about my approach that generally works very well. When I love, its with all my heart. I don't go halfway.

  • Reply Jamey Somers September 30, 2018 at 9:07 pm

    hahahahha I reread this and made a typo – "I still woundn't change the way I think… INFJS are not the best typists…..

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  • Reply keep_thedream_alive December 2, 2018 at 9:28 pm

    I took a Briggs myers personality test, on and my personality type was "The Advocate" (INFJ-A), this was the first time I ever heard about INFJ and what it means, I was astonished to find out that people with INFJ personalities are rare, so just to make sure I took the test three times and got the same result everytime, but as I tried to read more about it, I found people bragging about INFJ and how rare and unique they're, I think these people are just satisfying their ego, it's not true that you're superior just because you've a rare personality, it's important to see that in this process you're not dividing yourself and considering yourself as unique from rest of the humanity…
    Much love form 🇮🇳

  • Reply RenkinFesti December 5, 2018 at 12:51 am

    I’m an INFJ and I’m petty af lol it’d take me years to forgive someone

  • Reply Muhammad Sahil December 5, 2018 at 2:34 pm

    Its suck being like this

  • Reply That white Guy December 26, 2018 at 3:24 pm

    You forgot to mention that we're like a Jedi master in the bedroom. The force is strong with us Haha

  • Reply Aneesh Ani January 11, 2019 at 7:05 pm

    But nobody loves an INFJ ..

  • Reply TheLeastPoliticallyCorrect January 24, 2019 at 5:46 am

    Buy. A. Microphone.

  • Reply Jo-ann Louw March 2, 2019 at 7:02 pm

    I agree 100% 😊🖒🖒

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  • Reply Rami Yako May 5, 2019 at 9:26 pm

    Absolutely. But because we can forgive so easily is the reason we hold out for the one that won't take advantage of our kindness no matter how long the wait is… 1 year 2, 3, ..8…maybe to death

  • Reply Jennifer M May 28, 2019 at 7:27 am

    Can't stand to listen to these horrible robot voiced videos.

  • Reply Jennifer M May 28, 2019 at 7:27 am

    Can't stand to listen to these horrible robot voiced videos.

  • Reply Libra Lady July 8, 2019 at 12:14 pm

    O my word. Yep.

  • Reply Libra Lady July 8, 2019 at 12:14 pm

    & wow , wow , wow! Who knew?

  • Reply Rami Sen July 14, 2019 at 7:22 pm

    Accepting the flaws huf
    N encouraging them to be the best version of themselves

  • Reply Capricorn Emperor July 20, 2019 at 10:38 pm

    We never forgive betrayal and we specialize in seeing thier flaws and trying to fix those flaws. But we do bring up thier flaws if they make us get so angry at them. There are actually two types of INFJ maybe an INFJ-A wont bring up the flaws in their partner because there more passive but an INFJ-T will they take action and don't stand still.

  • Reply jester2007 July 23, 2019 at 4:11 pm

    It is true. And we stay too long when things don't work out. I was with the ungrateful bitch like 2-3 years longer than I should be, cause I loved her. But she didn't care and now I don't care

  • Reply Jacob Alexander July 25, 2019 at 5:43 pm

    INFJs dont get lucky in the first place. it is so tough to find some one who can love you back. isolated souls.
    speaking from personal experience

  • Reply A nonymity July 28, 2019 at 3:45 pm

    I'm one. But "lucky" I think it's flattering but a bit too much. But I take it. I never get compliments so I'll take it 🙂

  • Reply Tom Ly August 11, 2019 at 6:50 pm

    cheaters, manipulators, INFJs can smell them out easily and avoid them like the plague.

  • Reply Jackson Mclees September 23, 2019 at 1:51 am

    Thanks for the video you hit it right on the nail 👍

  • Reply Vivian Qitong September 30, 2019 at 3:04 am

    I don't forgive guys who bully my sister

  • Reply HangDuong September 30, 2019 at 4:09 am

    My partner is INFJ -A and I'm INFJ-T. Anyone have this mix with your partner? I read another comment somewhere with the same mix and they're like so happy, so are mine. It's a complete trust 😀

  • Reply ThePro October 6, 2019 at 5:03 am

    So my ex was lucky, shame on her.

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