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Why Women REALLY Reject You (even if she seemed to like you)

October 17, 2019

Tripp Kramer here from On today’s video we’re gonna be talking about why women reject
you. I pretty much sum this up into 3 different categories of why
they’re rejecting you, why they don’t want to be with you and you might be
falling into 1, 2 or possibly even 3 of these. Let’s get into it right
now. One, an obvious one that a lot of you guys always comment on in the YouTube
comments is that you’re not physically attractive to her. Now I’m gonna be very
specific here. You’re not physically attractive to her. Some women they just
have this idea in their head of a guy that they want to be with in terms of
what he looks like. That doesn’t necessarily mean that
that guy is even gonna get her because it’s more than just looks but still a
woman is like “no I want a guy to look like this. This is the type of guy that I’m looking for.
I want him to have blonde hair. I want him to be these color eyes. I want
him to have this face shape.” It’s even true that a lot of women are attracted
to guys that look like their father. Not exactly like it but resemble in terms of
how they’re built. Either way, she might be rejecting you right off the bat
because she knows that this is not a guy that I want to be with because she knows
that this is not the look that she’s going for. Now let’s move on to
number 2 really quickly because this is gonna all
connect together. Number 2 is that she is not attracted to your personality.
Basically she’s not emotionally and attracted to you. Now here’s the
thing, this is the one that’s most important because even though a guy
might be physically attractive to her and like I said some girls have a type
in their head. That doesn’t mean all girls have that type. They have an
idea but some girls are really keen on it. But either way, if you are the
physical type of hers but you don’t know how to get her emotionally attracted
it’s not gonna work. Where the reverse is actually true. Meaning that if you can
get her emotionally attracted but she’s not necessarily physically attracted
to you, she can become physically attracted to you
through the process of you emotionally attracting her. I spit out a lot of
words there. This might be confusing so let me just lay this all out for a
second. When you’re talking to a girl and you’re displaying your personality and
you’re displaying your behaviors, that goes farther than looks. That goes
farther than looks. I’ve worked with clients where I’ve taken
them out and helped them approach women and done phone coaching and things like
that and these guys were very handsome guys. Your typical good-looking guy,
but they’re still were not able to attract women. Why, because the common
denominator here the thing that is the most important is displaying the
behavioral traits. Those go further because women are wired to be attracted
to that. Do most women say they want to date a tall guy who’s fit? Yeah, they do
but how many couples have you seen where the girl’s taller than the guy? I don’t
know about you but I’ve seen it a lot. I’ve even seen girls say “if he was
good enough” in terms of like a good enough guy who emotionally
attracted her and he was shorter, she would still go for him. So just
understand that. Still here these are the two reasons why you might be getting
rejected is she’s not physically attracted to from the bat and you’re not
getting her emotionally attracted because you’re not displaying your
behavioral traits correctly. Let’s go to number 3. I’d say number 3 is the most
common one. Why you’re getting rejected and why she doesn’t
like you. It’s because you are being more reactive than proactive. Meaning
you’re going into an interaction or you’re meeting a girl and you’re
letting her take over. You’re maybe a little bit shy, you’re letting
her dictate the conversation, you’re asking questions so you’re giving all
the work to her to answer the questions and talk to you as you’re trying to get
to know her. You’re really putting it on her.
That’s being reactive. You’re more reactive to this situation instead of
taking control and being more proactive, being more dominant and leading the
interaction all the way to the date, to sex and beyond. You see, it’s your
job as a man to do that because that’s the masculine
trait that she’s attracted to and if she doesn’t see that, she’s gonna reject you.
Or she’s gonna put you in the friend zone which it’s pretty much the same
thing. Some guys will wait too long to initiate, some guys will wait too long to
ask her out, to move the interaction forward and that’s not gonna work
because she’s looking for the guy who’s fearless, who’s gonna take action, who’s
gonna do it. This is why she’s rejecting you. She’s not physically
attracted to you, you’re not making that emotional connection and you’re not
being proactive in the interactions where you are meeting women.
Guess what I have for you. Boom! Magnetic. My new book where it
teaches you how to optimize your appearance (that’s in Chapter 2 by
the way) and how to create that emotional connection (that’s the whole book we’re
talking about that) and also how to be more dominant and more proactive in your
interactions. If you don’t wanna get rejected anymore, I want you to check out
this book. The link is down below yes I wrote a book! It’s time for you to check
it out. It’s on Amazon and I want you to get it and it’s very reasonably priced
and it’s 168 pages teaching you again how to not get rejected. Like it says
here become rejection proof. Check it out! I want you to read it and I also want
you to leave a review on Amazon. Even if you hate it. I want to hear the
review. I want to hear from you so leave a comment down below. I want to hear from you there. Check out the book and remember the 3 things we talked about today
so you no longer get rejected by women and start working on those piece by
piece. See you on the next video.

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  • Reply Phumudzo Tshithavhana January 27, 2019 at 4:03 pm

    I need some advice I'm in a situation where 2 girls in my class like me but I like the 1 more than the other so I don't know what to do.

  • Reply MERP January 27, 2019 at 4:08 pm

    I’m getting the book 📖!!

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    oh yeah yeah

  • Reply Edmon Cruz January 27, 2019 at 4:11 pm

    Do you know fractionation? Can you explain it?

  • Reply Wild Sea January 27, 2019 at 4:19 pm

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  • Reply Tomas Pham January 27, 2019 at 4:33 pm

    copped it in audible

  • Reply Chris Clayton January 27, 2019 at 4:41 pm

    Looks matter guys. I'm a ugly SOB but Ive been with a handful of hot girls. Why? I make the most of what I've got. I get rejected a lot but I pull one that is hot. Women do care about looks just work with what you have and learn game. Get your shit together and go somewhere in life. Most of all above anything else get use to being rejected.

  • Reply UNLEASHING POTENTIAL - PSYCHOLOGY VIDEOS January 27, 2019 at 4:48 pm

    Women love to send mixed signals T_T

  • Reply FocusMrbjarke January 27, 2019 at 4:51 pm

    I bet she rejected me because she thought i didn't watch enough tripp advice videos

  • Reply electroboy January 27, 2019 at 5:06 pm

    I found out too late a girl rejected me cause she thought I'm too good for her. Christ, women stop that shit.

  • Reply Safa Youcef January 27, 2019 at 5:36 pm

    loved the vedio idea

  • Reply Novabow John Mivule January 27, 2019 at 5:50 pm

    What is thy secret technique of FRACTIONATION?

  • Reply Son of Meagher of the Sword January 27, 2019 at 6:27 pm

    Because of your face, even if you're 6'2 225lbs muscular at 10% body fat. Give it up, looks matter, especially face. PERIOD.

  • Reply Riadh Gaming January 27, 2019 at 7:10 pm

    90 % of girls who rejected me they did that because i don't have money for example:
    A girl said to me i don't like a man who make me walk i don't like to walk
    Another one said i like the man who dates me in expensive restaurant or cafeteria

  • Reply Anri Davids January 27, 2019 at 9:11 pm

    What's up bro!
    Physical attraction is definitely a significant factor to get girls. Creating attraction without this might take you sometime or even get rejected. Great tips bro! Thanks for sharing them. Keep it up.🙏

  • Reply Cooler Man January 27, 2019 at 9:33 pm

    I already gave up on getting a girl lmaooooo

  • Reply my love songs January 27, 2019 at 9:34 pm

    Because i have been quite unattractive for a long, long time. I had some work done, with Radio Frequency Skin Tightening during the beginning stages of our friendship. Maybe it made me look better? I don't know. I still was not looking good to most people, as the usual attack dogs, if you will, would go after me. Late in 2017, she even said, "you look different!" and she gave me a thumbs up. I started to regress, i guess, after having the Vampire Facial, hydrodermabrasion, microdermabrasion, and other procedures. In the last few months, i totally regressed. In October, before she decided i was "too ugly" to be friends with anymore, i had some sleep-deprivation going on. On the 17th of that month, she looked at me at dinner break at work, and she rolled her eyes. Later that night, about 9PM, we would enjoy our last moment as friends. I guess she was faking the smiles we shared at that break. By 12:20AM, i heard her tell someone that i was "very ugly". She actually picked a fight with me as an excuse to end our friendship. Nowdays, she laughs at me and verbally, within earshot, downgrades me with her friends. I have learned one thing in the aftermath of this tragedy. At the end of the day,, LOOKS MATTER! The procedures i had done in the past 12-15 months did something, where she maybe did not think i looked THAT bad, but since i had not had any skin procedures for like 4 months, i was starting to look really bad again. I have another Radio Frequency Skin Tightening procedure scheduled for next friday. I will schedule more and more, to try to improve. I am not getting back to trying to improve myself for her! Nooo way! We are done forever! Over! Kaput! I do owe it to myself to look as good as i can be. I do need to save enough to get cosmetic surgery, so i can permanently look better than i do now, as i am a walking disaster scene. I will look better!

  • Reply Tricksterize January 27, 2019 at 9:49 pm

    If you pass a womans looks threshold your in. Of course these dating coaches wont tell you that. And after reading the book you become rejection proof? What? Seriously?

  • Reply Maahir Lokhandwala January 27, 2019 at 10:21 pm

    Good video Tripp. Love from Mumbai city brother.

  • Reply allen wong January 27, 2019 at 10:50 pm

    Who else get the "I wish I could meet someone like you" from girls?

  • Reply Cahden Alpha Nerd January 27, 2019 at 10:52 pm

    A lot of getting rejected can be fixed by just bridging your knowledge gap and learning what not to do and how not to appear, the fundamentals are everything honestly

  • Reply l Rise January 28, 2019 at 12:10 am

    probly the best advice i heared

  • Reply Hum Dae January 28, 2019 at 2:23 am

    excellent video buddy

  • Reply Khaled Taliani January 28, 2019 at 4:02 am

    Every video man. You kill it.

  • Reply Ryan The Rock January 28, 2019 at 5:35 am

    How is the book different to your online course?

  • Reply Juan Alvarez January 28, 2019 at 7:19 am

    1. You're not Physically Attractive to her.
    2. She is not Emotionally Attracted to you.
    3. You are being Re-active instead of Pro-active.

  • Reply J K January 28, 2019 at 9:26 am

    I'm suffering from #3… but at the same time, when I get proactive, I appear too keen… goddamit!!

  • Reply Israel Cunha January 28, 2019 at 11:52 am

    Makes sense Tripp! I've been having this experience with some girls. Everything you are saying matches the reality and what I have been experiencing.

  • Reply Enrico Stimpson January 28, 2019 at 1:04 pm

    If she rejected me then That's okay because she's not the one to be my wife

  • Reply James Humphries January 28, 2019 at 3:50 pm

    I don’t want one night stands I only want a relationship at this point in my life. When on a date how can I tell if the girl is on the same page as me? Can I just ask are you looking for a relationship or is that something I shouldn’t bring up? I want to ask early so I don’t waste my time and money.

  • Reply dpstrial January 28, 2019 at 5:09 pm

    I never lower myself to engage emotionally with women. I am a free spirit and could not care less whether I get one or not. It is a satisfying place to be.

  • Reply Jan Tschierschky January 28, 2019 at 6:36 pm

    Well is a number game, guys who claim is about money is nonsense. I had women when I was broke. Is all about confidence, knowing how to read them. Thise video is just standard stuff.

  • Reply Eye Of The Thriver January 28, 2019 at 7:18 pm

    Someone give me the list please

  • Reply ShadowCatGambit January 28, 2019 at 9:04 pm

    Any hope for high functioning autistics? For guys whom are considered a 14 year old mentally by the women in his family?

  • Reply Lakota Robinson January 28, 2019 at 9:13 pm

    I didn’t know Andrew Garfield is making dating videos

  • Reply Tripp Advice January 28, 2019 at 9:28 pm

    Don’t forget to pick up my new book MAGNETIC which will transform your dating life:

  • Reply Mistah FTM 7394 January 29, 2019 at 1:22 am

    If Im rejected by women, its because ppl are attempting to sabatoge myself. Im not gay. Im only into women.

  • Reply Golden Dragon Gaming January 29, 2019 at 4:00 am

    The hell with all this mambo jambo shit no disrespect to Tripp coz I love the guy and he knows a lot but the real and most important fact is that The more you Work on improving yourself ,making money , working out and chasing your dreams to have a successful life the better , no doubt all beautiful women on this planet will fall at your feet begin to be with you ! Just the facts guys . Remember Don’t waste all your time chasing girls instead Focus all the energy on/in yourselves period😎

  • Reply Monaural $2.98 January 29, 2019 at 7:20 am

    I kicked the whole concept of "finding a match" to the curb in January of 2007, after so many years of rejections. Fact of the matter here is that life simply isn't about every last man "getting the cup" and winning the prize. You have to realize this or simply lose your sense of self….plus your sanity. And from what I'm hearing from the set that got taken to the cleaners in divorce, I realize I wound up with a very nice prize indeed, one that the media at large wants no spotlight on; Freedom. Cowboys or Clowns, you pay in one wretched form or another……

  • Reply Moses Emmet January 29, 2019 at 3:23 pm

    Great tips.. women are def complex and it’s not ALL about looks with them. You have to KNOW you’re attractive and be confident enough to put yourself out there and take chances…

  • Reply Ujjwal Sinha January 29, 2019 at 4:47 pm

    Bcz your fighting videos are like that only..

  • Reply Prettyboy Jc January 29, 2019 at 10:28 pm

    I don’t even know why I’m watching this I haven’t gotten rejected lmao

  • Reply Parker Rawson January 30, 2019 at 4:13 am

    There is this girl I’m dating and I really like her, she told me she just wants to be friends, but when we hang out she hard core flirts with me and touches me… I’m so confused what to do

  • Reply Lion 94 January 30, 2019 at 12:25 pm

    great video.

  • Reply Lion 94 January 30, 2019 at 12:29 pm

    i proposed a girl who donot like me lol.

  • Reply Joseph Cioe January 31, 2019 at 2:33 am

    Hey Tripp give me a genuine honest answer. So the videos I've have watched lately were you explaining how to be less boring. This is where I fall behind. Now I have very unusual interests. I don't watch sports I don't play video games I don't watch movies, I educate myself in philosophical subjects such as epistemology or political science. Is there anything I can do with this when it comes to women? Or do I need to find something more normal

  • Reply nuvigroovi January 31, 2019 at 7:02 pm

    Guys, it matters more if YOU are attracted to her! She will feel that and respond. Woman want to be wanted.

  • Reply Igor Hawkingz January 31, 2019 at 10:59 pm

    Kevin hart is short but rich and allegedly funny

  • Reply The Neckbearded Blizzfag February 1, 2019 at 4:45 am

    why is your beard a different color, perhaps you should try to grow an epic beard like mine

  • Reply Tejus Wadbudhe February 1, 2019 at 9:44 am

    Thank you

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  • Reply PriShah February 2, 2019 at 2:40 am

    Notice how he keeps saying STOP BEING REJECTED using that fear based marketing to get people to get the book. He didn't mention that women reject men many times because of not in the mood, Outside circumstances with other people. It just depends. Many have nothing to do with the guy.

  • Reply Toua Xiong February 2, 2019 at 3:21 pm

    The key to sleeping with any girls, is being yourself

  • Reply Faigornx February 2, 2019 at 7:13 pm

    You look like Sam Harris

  • Reply Bigbooty Shordy February 2, 2019 at 7:56 pm

    Top men’s dating coaches on Instagram that I’ve noticed are

  • Reply Elite Nation No. 1 February 3, 2019 at 3:57 am

    Tripp my issue I think is because she is afraid to say she likes me to her friends

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  • Reply Darmendra 21 February 6, 2019 at 7:02 am

    Maybe I'm into the 1st reason

  • Reply Darmendra 21 February 6, 2019 at 7:04 am

    I wait about 2½ years… this not gonna work tho…. *HOW IF SHE IS FROM DIFFERENT RACES?

  • Reply jag off February 7, 2019 at 9:34 pm

    What men need to do is start rejecting women. It knocks them off their pedistal and brings them down to reality. Its good for them. Say no to them. They except men to never reject them.

  • Reply Javier Santos February 10, 2019 at 9:12 pm

    It's kind of difficult to keep up a ralationship….🤔

  • Reply Ultimate Dead Pool gameplay February 19, 2019 at 8:51 am

    Make a god-damn video on how to attract girl emotionally

  • Reply Sture Berthammar February 19, 2019 at 12:26 pm

    Number 1 is for You. So TRIPADVICE You must have a GREAT personality….

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  • Reply Shawn Peterson February 19, 2019 at 10:51 pm

    about to your book, so stoked when I heard you have released a book.

  • Reply Jim Cooke February 20, 2019 at 5:31 pm

    A woman rejects a guy because she thinks she can do BETTER than him .
    It’s no more complicated than that

  • Reply djJames February 23, 2019 at 10:31 am

    Or because she's taken?

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  • Reply Fernando Lessa February 28, 2019 at 4:54 am

    i lost a huge oportunity with a gorgeous girl cause i take too long to try something! its a fraction of time that opens up for u to act! IF this fracation time was opened! once closed, hardly opened again!

  • Reply Abigayle B. February 28, 2019 at 6:54 am

    Interesting video, Tripp. And definitely true!

    I've spent 6 years with a guy who I wasn't physically attracted to in the beginning. But we connected so perfectly on an emotional level, that I fell for him anyway.

    What ultimately broke us up, was his reactive nature. He wasn't a leader in any way. He avoided discussions and conflict at all cost. And I could NOT live with that. I definitely need a guy who can walk with me, instead of just following along.

  • Reply bob rew March 3, 2019 at 3:05 pm

    sometimes women reject a guy that they think is BETTER than they are. because they are intimidated by him. That's not mentioned here…

  • Reply Trash Queen March 4, 2019 at 9:37 pm

    I’m sorry, but please don’t listen to anything this guy says. As a girl I can guarantee that 99% of the stuff this guy’s saying is bullshit. Every girl is different. Not everyone needs a super masculine guy. There’s no formula for dating women. Just be yourself and if it works, great. If not then she just doesn’t like you. That doesn’t mean she’s a bitch or that you did something wrong. It just means that it didn’t work out. It’s not that the girl is super shallow and only likes people for their looks. Maybe she doesn’t like your personality. Then that’s it. Don’t change yourself to be with a girl because that relationship isn’t going to last.

  • Reply Magnetman 3t March 10, 2019 at 4:23 am

    She has options your not the only one.

  • Reply Independent Vincent March 11, 2019 at 1:34 am

    There is a girl at my job who accepted a date with me or to meet up but wasn't into me. It hurt so much it's crazy. I wish she said no to my invitation.

  • Reply Osarenoma Harold Andrew March 25, 2019 at 6:30 pm

    Me she called me useless

  • Reply sydney schmidt July 7, 2019 at 6:01 am

    If women reject you, its because they aren’t interested. Trying to make them like you is manipulation and its creepy and wrong. Date someone who wants to be with you, not someone who you are twisting to stick around.

  • Reply Mike Cheatham August 27, 2019 at 1:10 pm

    I’m glad he didn’t mention the word CONFIDENT. People say that’s the 1st thing that women look for in a man. Which as absolutely nothing to do with getting a woman.

  • Reply Emily Greene September 8, 2019 at 8:14 pm

    There’s another option – a girl can like a guy physically and emotionally but reject him because she never was prepared to like the guy and she feels it’s superficial, when it’s not. Basically, if she’s unsure and messed up, even if she wants a relationship, she still will turn the guy down saying – Bad idea for both parties.

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