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January 15, 2020


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  • Reply KKuurus January 14, 2020 at 11:27 pm

    Oh boy a Geni in da house.

  • Reply starofelo January 14, 2020 at 11:30 pm

    "I love Claudica the most" Idk why but this made me want to cry. I love you two ToT

  • Reply Karlin Bennett January 14, 2020 at 11:39 pm

    I think you Jessie and Claud, would both be excellent mums! I love the both of you ever so much! My wife and I watch the both of you. As a disabled mom myself, my two boys’ are now 19 and 17! I love you both! Happy New Year! 💜

  • Reply GloriaJ123456 January 14, 2020 at 11:41 pm

    Baby slings are great and it’s just different when your holding a live thing as opposed to a cup or plate. Totally different thing. Especially because every instinct a Mother has is to protect her baby. You will do spectacularly. Also, I chose to have my baby instead I’d adopt. It’s less expensive, there is less uncertainty, and honestly I just wanted to see bits of myself in another person. You get that in a lot of ways with adoption too but there is a difference and it is totally valid and ok to want that experience. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

  • Reply Kasey Childress January 14, 2020 at 11:41 pm

    Psh Claudia is beautiful and I'd kill for her glowy clear skin

  • Reply Odd Sara January 14, 2020 at 11:45 pm

    To play Devil's advocate, i have a hard time expresssing or talking to new friends about my disability. One day a friend who genuinely wanted to help and understand asked and I almost cried in sweet relief.

  • Reply Lise Martino January 14, 2020 at 11:45 pm

    Claudia, you are stunning! You two are the most gorgeous couple, and I love it.

  • Reply sipos0 January 14, 2020 at 11:46 pm

    On Claud being offended about people asking why she doesn't wear makeup, when she does: I think, depending on the look you are going for, isn't people not being able to tell whether you are wearing makeup, or if that is just how your face naturally is, sometimes the goal? I think Claud should maybe take it as a compliment that someone couldn't tell she was wearing makeup.

  • Reply Kathy Kavanaugh January 14, 2020 at 11:53 pm

    Ladies…. I LOVE your video's. Jessica, have you ever been diagnosed with Usher's Syndrome? I know when you have a list of medical issues, the symptoms can overlap with others. Keep doing what you're doing!!!!

  • Reply Elizabeth January 14, 2020 at 11:57 pm

    i can't wait for you to have children ❤️ you're gonna be the best moms

  • Reply AB January 15, 2020 at 12:01 am

    Can we just take a moment to appreciate Jessica’s hair in a ponytail??? It’s so pretty!!

  • Reply sipos0 January 15, 2020 at 12:06 am

    One thing about adopting is that, although it is completely normal for kids to share a room, apparently you have to be able to provide a separate room for each child. It sounds harder than one might expect sometimes to qualify to adopt. I'm sure you'll be amazing parents, and it'll be great for whoever you adopt.

  • Reply SparklingGreenEyes317 January 15, 2020 at 12:15 am

    I dont mean to be rude but…. your accents are rather different from each other, where did you grow up?

  • Reply Jo Richner January 15, 2020 at 12:16 am

    My mom had obvious physical health issues but refused to call herself disabled she never applied for the sticker. Though she probably should have to have an easier time here in America where everyone drives. She wasn't supposed to have me but did anyway and it made all the things worse. So some guilt but what I wanted to say was she couldn't lift me and did fine I am sure you two will be amazing.

  • Reply K O'Flaherty January 15, 2020 at 12:18 am

    I'm very introverted and have problems with social anxiety and so, I have often gotten the lovely question, "do you talk?!" Like, yup, good job making me feel more comfortable 😂

  • Reply Clara P. Ovejero January 15, 2020 at 12:19 am

    Hi, Jessica! I just wanted to know about how does it feel differently to get asked personally about, i.e., "how you got blind" by a subscriber in a video to an irl conversation.

  • Reply raebla January 15, 2020 at 12:19 am

    I thought people not being able to tell you are wearing makeup was a goal/sign you are really skilled, if you weren't going for obvious dramatic styles?

  • Reply Ashyfaced Owl January 15, 2020 at 12:25 am

    cuteness overfloweth

  • Reply p. malfoy January 15, 2020 at 12:26 am

    Don't mean to be rude but where do I find a Claudia that'll kiss me to stop me nervously rambling?

  • Reply heathermarmal January 15, 2020 at 12:28 am

    "I love Claudica the most" ow my HEART.

    I'm a disabled mom and can 100% attest that children are perfectly fine knowing mom needs to rest, as long as the love is there (which, obviously it is with you two). It's honestly the perfect time to watch Disney movies and read books to each other. I think a big part of why my daughter is reading multiple levels above average is because we spent a lot of days in my bed reading everything we could find.

  • Reply Nina Ackerman January 15, 2020 at 12:30 am

    The rudest question I was asked was why do you talk like that, I have a speech impediment and have trouble with speaking and writing and had a speech therapy when I was younger

  • Reply Stephanie O'Regan January 15, 2020 at 12:30 am


    My amount of respect for you both just skyrocketed, you ladies are amazing!!

  • Reply lea martin January 15, 2020 at 12:31 am

    Claudia doesn't even need makeup. Shes stunning. You both are. Makeup or not.

  • Reply mightymia9 January 15, 2020 at 12:32 am

    Also, love the pony tail.

  • Reply User Name January 15, 2020 at 12:33 am

    yay I'm so happy one of my questions got answered! I asked so many. your answer was funny and cute. (the last question)

  • Reply angela chan January 15, 2020 at 12:34 am

    This video is absolutely adorable:)

  • Reply monkey93xf January 15, 2020 at 12:39 am

    Really though Claud, is ‘good’ makeup the style that you can TELL you’re wearing?

  • Reply Ana A January 15, 2020 at 12:43 am

    Claudia’s cute facial expressions and sounds she makes bring me joy ☀️

  • Reply monkey93xf January 15, 2020 at 12:45 am

    Subtitles said ‘I’m actually sad I haven’t kissed someone not 40…’ I went WHAT?! Then said it in a British accent until I got to OhHhHhh Claudia.

  • Reply Lucy Kunhardt January 15, 2020 at 12:46 am

    jessicas hair is amazing every vid im like 😱

  • Reply lea martin January 15, 2020 at 12:51 am

    I hate that people just think that because you're gay, that you should adopt. Nobody asks the straights why they aren't adopting instead of carrying a child.

  • Reply Sue R January 15, 2020 at 12:52 am

    What you described as your "sight" in the left eye perfectly describes my migraine aura I get.

  • Reply Bahiyyih4 January 15, 2020 at 12:53 am

    OMG, I want to see these 2 stay together, and be happy and well together for the rest of my life. I want to see them raise kids that leave the nest and also do well. Something beautiful to look forward to witnessing for the rest of my life, I hope

  • Reply Umm Carter January 15, 2020 at 12:58 am

    Claudica I like it.

  • Reply Ace Pixie January 15, 2020 at 1:01 am

    I agree that giving emotional stability is most important thing. I wasn't raised in the most emotionally stable environment but I still love my dad and I still love my family. But I get worried I won't be able to provide that for my own potential future kids…

  • Reply Gina January 15, 2020 at 1:02 am

    Jessica's laugh should be bottled and sold as an antidepressant…everytime I hear her laugh I can't help smiling ❤️❤️❤️

  • Reply Carrie Wright January 15, 2020 at 1:03 am

    I enjoyed the video. At least these weren't real rude…I mean asking u when u did it just being a perv but not rude.. I wouldn't ask about how deaf are u that one is not necessary… U two really are super cute together.. N as for being scared to have a baby u tell them no u will figure it out. I have dropped a baby and I'm not disabled accidents happen u will b fine..

  • Reply Dorothy C January 15, 2020 at 1:05 am

    Awww “the foundation of our love.”

  • Reply Brittney EC January 15, 2020 at 1:07 am

    Love this! I love how open you two are.i personally think you will be amazing parents and can't wait to see that journey (what you choose to share, anyway)! 😁

  • Reply Chronically Fabulous January 15, 2020 at 1:13 am

    For the record, Claudia, you are absolutely gorgeous without a drop of makeup, anyway and the natural-looking makeup you do wear enhances your gorgeous features, beautifully 😊💜 You don't have to wear makeup to be a real and worthy woman — that notion is such harmful BS. You are a stunning badass and to hell with anyone who thinks otherwise! 😜💜

  • Reply Gina January 15, 2020 at 1:15 am

    OMG I love you two ❤️❤️

  • Reply Tyne Baker January 15, 2020 at 1:16 am

    Aww, Claud should know she’s just so skilled at a natural look makeup that some people are fooled. Very good with making makeup choices that just enhance and showcase her beautiful face.

  • Reply lion man January 15, 2020 at 1:19 am

    please you guys are the cutest 😥😥😥😥

  • Reply Chronically Fabulous January 15, 2020 at 1:20 am

    Irt asking someone about their disability, I get approached on a regular basis by total strangers who, without so much as a "hi", say, "You're far too young to be using a walking stick! What's wrong with you, then??" o_0 Never stops being infuriating. Naturally, my go-to response is, "My medical history is none of your goddamn business."

  • Reply Marigold Liquid January 15, 2020 at 1:27 am

    I dont find it rude if someone ask about my hearing aid and how it affect my life. However it can be annoying at times at little that people are not educated about it because such as black people history are being teach in school, that's amazing, it actually a step forward into recognizing discrimination. But often time disabilities are not talked about even in schools where they hold them in way to support them. which creates a mystery for a lot of students. That has to change as well. Cuz it feel like we are immigrate but we arent.

  • Reply Beauty Beholder January 15, 2020 at 1:29 am

    You guys are so lovely! I really enjoy seeing how sweet and supportive you are to each other. You two are great role modals! And, will be great parents!

  • Reply madame ovaries January 15, 2020 at 1:36 am

    You two are so cute 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • Reply Carol B 1412 January 15, 2020 at 1:43 am

    I'm diabetic. I can't handle this much sweetness!! Happy New year to you both xx

  • Reply Gemma Bedford January 15, 2020 at 1:55 am

    I love your ponytail Jessica!

  • Reply Giulia Scardua January 15, 2020 at 1:58 am

    I LOVE YOU GUYS!! You're just so cuteeeee!
    Wish you a great 2020! 💙

  • Reply Ellie Rose McKee January 15, 2020 at 1:59 am

    Wait. There's a disabled card? Can you tell us more about that? Where do you get it?

  • Reply Betsy H January 15, 2020 at 2:01 am

    You two are adorable! 😍

  • Reply CloseUpBeauty January 15, 2020 at 2:14 am

    Hey, absolutely adore your videos! I think this may be the first time I've commented though o.O. I just wanted to tell you that I think you both are going to be excellent parents. I definitely think your personalities and love for one another will lend itself very well to having a child. And as a disabled mom myself, I understand the fear that comes along with wondering if you'll be capable of doing all the things that your child needs. Even on my absolute worst days, I find a way to take the best care of our little one. Sure, absolutely nothing else may be done, but his wellbeing is always taken care of. It's amazing what you can push your body to do when your child is involved. Also like you, I am extremely blessed to have a wonderful partner who shoulders so much for us. Anything that I physically have a hard time doing, my husband can and will do, and because of that, we make a wonderful team. Given the love and cooperation you two show for each other? I definitely think it'll be the same for you. Also, our little one has autism, and we've always felt like, for that reason, and so many more he was fated to be ours. I, as someone with disabilities, know what it's like to be different, and know what it's like to need extra help in a variety of areas. These lessons and more are so important because I know I'm uniquely equipped to help him in whatever way he'll need. I'm so sure it'll be the same for your child/children. Your disabilities have given you a unique perspective as has Claudia's experiences with you, and I think that's so important to raising children. So in a lot of ways I feel you both will be even better equipped to raise your children than a lot of other people out there.

  • Reply Kirstin McKeown January 15, 2020 at 2:20 am

    By the way, Claudia? I don't do makeup (except when I'm nervous or it's a special occasion). You are lovely and feminine, and can be so even with subtle makeup or none at all.

  • Reply Madison Hernandez January 15, 2020 at 2:24 am

    you guys are adorable

  • Reply Kirstin McKeown January 15, 2020 at 2:24 am

    And Jessica? You inspire me because I see what you can do, and it helps me believe that I can do something worthwhile despite a hodgepodge of diagnoses that I am struggling to figure out how to manage. I keep seeing all the things I'm not doing well-or at all- (job, housekeeping, activities with my daughter, getting dressed every day), and I'm starting to look more for the things I am doing, and can do.

  • Reply Cynthia Hardin January 15, 2020 at 2:32 am

    Claud, The makeup thing? Don't let it bother you. My wife has never worn make up. (to the dismay of her mother who had dreams of her daughter being a model.) I occasionally hold her down (I am 5'4 and she is ft. So that's a thing) attempt to tame the St Bernard eyebrows. But other than that, she is who she is.. A tomboy/butch woman who feels no need to mess with her face/hair.

  • Reply Shala Carter January 15, 2020 at 2:34 am

    I am fortunate because I do not inspire anyone.

    Jessica: for six months lol!

    Jessica, I love your "I Dream of Jeanie" look!!!! And Claudia, you are one of those annoying ppl who look fantastic with or without make-up.

    I follow #specialbooksbyspecialkids which is a YouTube channel where a former SPED teacher goes around interviewing ppl with disabilities to give them a platform. It's great. And everyone always says, "If you want to be friends, just say hello."

    In America, we have problems with Service Dogs. The law says you can only ask two questions: 1. Is that a Service Dog and 2. What tasks are they trained to do?

    I am with you, Claudia on not keeping to the rules. I suck!

    Ever since Jessica dislocated her hip when she was sitting cross-legged on the couch and bent down to pick something up off the floor; I have been wishing that she would teach at least one of the dogs to pick things up for her.

    I love Claudia's IG captions!!!!!!

    xo

  • Reply Suzanne MenuetTGB January 15, 2020 at 2:39 am

    Loving #Claudica 😂😂😂

  • Reply Nameless Hell January 15, 2020 at 2:48 am

    i need a tutorial on that hairstyle gosh its beautiful

  • Reply Shala Carter January 15, 2020 at 2:49 am

    Why yes, yes it does hurt my soul that I lost half of my hair over a year ago due to being bedridden.

  • Reply Zenovia Wiest January 15, 2020 at 3:02 am

    Just gotta say as someone who has on parent with a disability, it's only weird/sad/strange to other people and I wouldn't change a thing about my mom!

  • Reply Melina Marie January 15, 2020 at 3:04 am

    Claudia’s mixed feelings about makeup and being tomboyish and examining femininity are so relatable! If she was comfortable, exploring that would be so interesting.

  • Reply Camille Ball January 15, 2020 at 3:08 am

    Am I the only one who is just LIVING for Jessica's hair in this video?? Because her hair is always great, but there is just something about that ponytail!!!Cuteeeee❤

  • Reply gizmotheartsykitten January 15, 2020 at 3:23 am

    I have a problem with my right eye that makes it really difficult to read and it's pretty useless at seeing as well. luckily my left eye is incredibly dominant so I tend to just close my right eye 90% of the time.

  • Reply LERDerp January 15, 2020 at 3:26 am

    Not to be rude but…
    I want to ask out a girl and I have no idea how. I’ve never asked out anyone or been in a relationship, so I don’t know what to do.

  • Reply kim arnette January 15, 2020 at 3:39 am

    Hi from Colorado. Jessica, both you and Claudia, would be awesome Mothers. If you have love, everything else will work itself out. God bless.

  • Reply Amy Hull January 15, 2020 at 3:45 am

    I LOOOOVE you two being so adorable. It's the BEST.

  • Reply erinlovescheese January 15, 2020 at 3:58 am

    great video. 🙂
    i burst out laughing at the end. I am the pet parent that makes the rules and my fiance says "that's a great idea honey" and then breaks them all. lol we had a good laugh at that part.

  • Reply Mary January 15, 2020 at 4:07 am

    This video is one of the most beautiful things on the internet ❤️❤️❤️

  • Reply Bela Di Maio January 15, 2020 at 4:09 am

    Eu nem acredito que essas duas pessoas tão lindas se encontraram e se amam! Parecem duas princesas!

  • Reply Mother_ Hiker January 15, 2020 at 4:10 am

    Claudica ❤

  • Reply QueenPineapples January 15, 2020 at 4:15 am

    im living for the ponytail.. i just.. i love it.

  • Reply PlayWithMonsters January 15, 2020 at 4:19 am

    In my experience
    OK: can I ask why you're in a wheelchair?
    NOT OK: what did you do!? What's wrong with you!?!

  • Reply Laura D January 15, 2020 at 4:21 am

    Jessica just wear baby in a sling or baby carrier they’re safe if your arms go wonky. That’s just a single suggestion coming from a mom of 6, two of are all very high needs autistic and I just became disabled myself spring 2019. My kids range in age from currently 4-23 but the autistic boys (6 & 20) live w us and the teens are quite self sufficient. You adapt. Your KIDS adapt. If I’m in bed one day my little girl brings a bag with books, crayons & coloring, small simple things I can play with her from bed. She started doing this at age 2 when my pain was first acute- now chronic. My 6 year old adores the iPhone and only gets it for certain amounts of time. He loves to FaceTime me from the living room. I record videos of myself reading his fave books, and he loves watching those (the 6 year old) because he loathes standing still but will watch videos while rocking back and forth😉 Help from spouse other family so many different ways for people to adapt. It is a good question but I can wrap my head around it more now that I live it!

  • Reply Kumo no Iki January 15, 2020 at 4:22 am

    For no comprehensible reason a'tall, I just want to say: 💋😊

  • Reply Tan Tan January 15, 2020 at 4:57 am

    The rudest question I ever got was "What are those brown spots on your arm?" from a resident at a home. I had to explain to him that they were freckles and he had some as well! XD

  • Reply Megan Pace January 15, 2020 at 5:01 am

    I'm one step above being legally blind in my left eye 👁️; I was born with the issue. Because I've always had this issue, my brain learned primary use my right eye and 👓 glasses can't correct the issue anymore. I have the same issue where if I read 📖 or stare at a screen for too long, my vision will keep getting blurrier.

    You two are adorable ❤️

  • Reply Tondria Sanders January 15, 2020 at 5:17 am

    I love you two. I love you as individuals and a couple.
    And as a disabled parent, I can say that you will be excellent mommies. My kids spend a lot of time in bed with me. We read, we chat and on the days I have a lot of pain we just hold hands and watch TV. I have a lot of guilt about being ill and not doing the things I think I should do, but the most important thing is simply to be present with them and let them know they are loved.

  • Reply elektrischtree January 15, 2020 at 5:35 am

    I stopped to thumbs up literally for that best kiss story. "I just came to kiss you good night." 😭❤️

  • Reply Nazanin Heydarian January 15, 2020 at 5:38 am

    Y'all would be beautiful parents in any kind of parenting situation. I especially love the idea of you fostering lgbtq+ youth. Your relationship as an example is a great gift to give to your future children ❤

  • Reply xylene January 15, 2020 at 5:42 am

    You two are so adorable! Ah, if I ever fell for someone the way you two have for each other, I'd want to spend every minute with them too. 🙂

  • Reply Kyla B January 15, 2020 at 5:53 am

    Would wearing a patch or something to block light help with the migraines? Not all the time, but when you’re reading or tired, like you mentioned.

  • Reply Gen Eventide January 15, 2020 at 5:57 am

    Love this video!

  • Reply MK D January 15, 2020 at 6:00 am

    My wife and I also prefer each other’s company over anyone else. Watching ya’ll makes us smile as only people who live it get it.

  • Reply M.S Richardson January 15, 2020 at 6:02 am

    "so you're bald, does that hurt your soul?" I adore you both so much, always informative and amusing when you two make videos <3

  • Reply Glenn Lovell January 15, 2020 at 6:10 am

    Hi .. I’m new around here. This is only the second video of yours that I’ve seen. The first being when you two swapped makeup and clothes. I just wanted to say how nice and joyful it is to see such a fun and loving couple. You’re so cute together. I look forward to seeing more of you.

  • Reply Roblynmaz January 15, 2020 at 6:16 am

    Claudia has a more natural makeup style. She looks great, it just doesn’t show as clearly on camera.

    Have you decided what you want your kids to call you? I imagine both being “Mummy” would be challenging. Maybe one of you would prefer “Mama” or something?
    My sister’s MIL & our mom are both “Nana” for the grands & it’s a bit troublesome.

  • Reply Jennifer Reyes January 15, 2020 at 6:27 am

    Saw the post on instagram as YouTube refuses to notify me

  • Reply Braundzign January 15, 2020 at 6:30 am

    I don’t know what to call it, but I love the high-up ponytail on you.

  • Reply Manella Lodde January 15, 2020 at 6:44 am

    Hi, my rudest/most awkward question was when I was 12 and my grandmother (who had severe dementia) asked me if I had any cigarettes.

    And I wonder, is using the pre question "do you mind if I ask a curiosity question about ….?" A better way to ask about a disability? But also to remember to accept a no.

  • Reply Megan Wilder January 15, 2020 at 7:19 am

    You two are an inspiration for relationships. (from another disabled person)

  • Reply kirasthebest January 15, 2020 at 7:20 am

    I just love your guys love so much!

  • Reply silkrysal January 15, 2020 at 7:23 am

    I am from Rome!
    If you girls need any tips get in touch, I'd love to help!!
    I'm silkrysal on IG, if you want to dm me .. I promise I won't come stalker you, just be happy if you enjoyed my city all right!

  • Reply Brooke Holder January 15, 2020 at 7:29 am

    I adore how much you love each other. hugs

  • Reply Minks Rule January 15, 2020 at 7:40 am

    Claudica 😄

  • Reply Lucy In The Middle January 15, 2020 at 7:47 am

    I just want to put a bit of perspective on the 'there are tons of kids waiting to be adopted' narrative. In the UK we actually have quite a lot of adopters compared to the number of children who are in foster care waiting for adoption. There's a really significant need for foster carers but less of a pressing need for adopters. Also most children waiting for adoption are not tiny babies and most have been in foster care for a while and have experienced complex trauma and attachment challenges…it's not just like an equal alternative to having your own child and it shouldn't be looked at that way.

  • Reply mlewolf January 15, 2020 at 8:05 am

    I love your love

  • Reply Clockwork5quirrel January 15, 2020 at 8:36 am

    When they started talking about deafness, did they edit in tinnitus noise or is that just me?

  • Reply Anne Wagner January 15, 2020 at 9:16 am

    God you guys are relationship goals and my favourite couple on YouTube. ❤️

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