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How To Not Give A Fuck

October 12, 2019

How can you stop giving a f**k? By the way, from now on, I am not going to bleep that so if you’re offended by F-bombs, this might not be the video for you. That is a question that I get fairly often and many times, the person asking it has Tyler Durden in mind. He is the cool bad boy from Fight Club that has a not-giving-a-fuck ideal and I think it’s because when we watched Fight Club, so many of us feel like the narrator played by Edward Norton. Sometimes we’re afraid to ask for what we want. We should find a hotel. Ugh… what? You just had to ask, man. What are you talking about? Aw, god. Three pitchers of beer and you still can’t ask. What? You called me because you needed a place to stay. Oh, hey. No, no, no. I didn’t mean… Yes, you did. So just ask. Sometimes we avoid confrontation or spend days working up to it. …I saw you at Tuberculosis, I saw you at Testicular Cancer… I saw you practicing this. Practicing what? Telling me off. Is it going as well as you hoped? And sometimes we worry so much about what people think about us that we obsess over what our purchases communicate about us as people. …the Hovetrekke home exerbike or the Ohamshab sofa with the Strinne green stripe pattern. Even the Ryslampa wire lamps have environmentally-friendly unbleached paper. I’d flip through catalogues and wonder, “What kind of dining set defines me as a person?” And then we see Tyler Durden. He can’t be controlled by ads. He can’t be threatened because he’s not afraid of anything. Men follow his lead and Marla continues to hang around even when he treats her terribly. Tyler durden is a shining example of someone who has everything we want without seemingly even struggle for it. In his own words… …all the ways you wish you could be — that’s me. I look like you want to look, I fuck like you want to fuck, I’m smart, capable, and most importantly, I’m free in all the ways that you are not. And that freedom to not give a fuck about all those things that some part of us knows we shouldn’t care about but still do, that’s what we’re so desirous of. In fact, maybe you know someone that has the Tyler Durden DGAF thing going on in spades — that one guy who seems to get what he wants effortlessly who seems unafraid to do the things that maybe take you massive amounts of courage or preparation. He does what he wants — when he wants just because and it seems to work out perfectly for him. He just does not give a fuck. For instance, watch how unreactive Tyler is to the bar owner’s presence at Fight Club. Who told you motherfuckers that you could use my place? We have a deal with that with Herman. Now when most of us are confronted with someone in a suit or someone who owns the place or someone who is swearing at us telling us what to do, the truth is we probably have an immediate reaction to shrink physically to cover up — maybe your heart even starts to race and you’ll have a hard time speaking but not Tyler Durden. He remains completely exposed showing just how much he does not care. …broken collar bone. You don’t own this place. I do. How much money did you get paid for this? There is no money. Really? You’re free to owe. And at this point, most of us would be explaining ourselves quickly racing to say how we didn’t mean any harm and that we didn’t know we were breaking any rules but not Tyler Durden. In fact, he is so unfazed that rather than continuing to respond to loose questions, he redirects the conversation inviting Lou to join Fight Club. He is completely non-reactive to loose threats implied and really has no problem taking leadership over this conversation because of how comfortable he is. Now that doesn’t mean that none of those threats come true. You stupid fuck. I want everybody out of here right now. Hey, you should join our club. Did you hear what I just said? You and your friend. If you’re like I was in my younger years, you might even try to copy this person hoping to get some of their cool calm collectiveness in the face of pressure but if you do, you’ll quickly find that there’s an issue. Not giving a fuck about other people might make you cooler in certain situations. It might get your short-term advantages and it might even get you more of what you want but it also makes you an asshole. …right in everyone’s hostile little face. Yes, these are bruises from fighting. Yes, I’m comfortable with that. I am enlightened. We see it over and over again with Tyler Durden — he’s mean to Marla, he encourages people to start fights with strangers, he smashes into this guy’s car just so we can hit rock bottom, and he gets Bob killed. Despite all of that, he just doesn’t care. Bob is dead. They shot him in the head. If you want to make an omelet, you gotta break some eggs. So are we doomed? Do we have to choose between being a nice person who isn’t respected on the one hand and an asshole who gets heaps of respecting power on the other? Sometimes it can seem like it especially if you’ve got that guy in mind who treats people poorly and still comes out ahead all the time. But there is another way. In fact, we can see exactly what that way is if we explore Tyler Durden more carefully. When we watch the final scenes of Fight Club, we see that Tyler does give a fuck — just not about the same things as everybody else. In his case, he cares about the success of Project Mayhem. Crazy as it is, he has a vision for the future. The world I see you’re stalking elk through the damp canyon forests around the ruins of Rockefeller Center. You will wear leather clothes that last you the rest of your life. You will climb the wrist-thick kudzu vines that wrap the Sears Tower. This vision of the future is where the real superpower lies. If you want to develop the awesome ability to stay cool under pressure as Tyler Durden, the answer is not to give no fucks. It’s to care intensely about just a few things — so intensely that whenever there’s pressure to conform, you simply return your focus to the things that really do matter. When you have that kind of clarity, you’re less likely to be scared by rejection or failure. You’re less likely to worry about what other people may think. You’re less likely to feel like you have to justify yourself and more likely to be joined by like-minded people who see your example and get curious — we see a snippet of this in the movie. Notice here how Tyler makes no attempt to justify himself. His example is enough to inspire questions and that is when he lets people in on his life view. We were finding out more and more that we are not alone. A similar thing happened in my own life. When I ran around telling everyone that they had to read The 4-Hour Work Week and they had to quit their job, pretty much no one listened but since I’ve stop justifying and explaining and trying to convince and return to just living my life and sharing my experiences on Youtube without forcing anyone to watch, more and more people have gotten curious. More and more people have started asking questions and more and more people have followed soon. which brings me to the real reason that Tyler Durden is so magnetic. When the situation calls for it, he can articulate his life philosophy with conviction. …or just polishing the brass on the titanic. It’s all going down, man. Fuck off. Sofa units and Strinne green striped patterns. I say never be complete. I say stop being perfect. I say let’s evolved. Let the chips fall where they may. It’s those clear monologues that make Tyler Durden such a beacon for both the characters in the movie and those of us who are watching. He has a clear life philosophy and rather than telling strangers they need to get on board, he just lives it. When people either challenge him or get curious enough to follow him around asking him questions, he is able to succinctly explain his world view. It’s not that he gives zero fucks, it’s just that he knows what matters to him and, just as importantly, what doesn’t. You’re not your job. You’re not how much money you have in the bank. You’re not the car you drive. You’re not the contents of your wallet. You’re not your fucking khakis. Now, if all of this were just words, it wouldn’t be persuasive at all — there would be no following. But Tyler lives in integrity with his ideals which means that his actions and his words are in alignment. He refuses to pursue the things that he says don’t matter. That’s why he lives in a dilapidated house and has very few material possessions. For what it’s worth, I think Tyler Durden nails the problem of modern-day society on its head but his solution — destroy everything, hit rock bottom, pay little attention to how it affects others — doesn’t really work for me so here comes the actionable part of this video where you can start to get some of what Tyler Durden has in the right way. Start by watching this clip. …goddamnit, an entire generation pumping gas, waiting tables; slave in white collars; advertising education, cars and clothes; working jobs we hate so we can buy shit we don’t need. Let’s assume that you can relate to this. Chances are at least some part of you is caught up defining yourself by the brand or the job or the money in your bank or even the khakis. If you want to not give a fuck about those things and if you want to start to develop the magnetism of a Tyler Durden or maybe that guy you know, you have to first care more about something else. You have to have a life philosophy that you live proudly but that you don’t shove down people’s throats and you have to be able to articulate it when people ask you about it or even when they challenge it. So what is it going to be? What matters most to you? Is it music? Art? Pushing the limits of science forward, building a business or maybe just relaxing and enjoying life and your relationships? I encourage you to sit and actually write this out because if you don’t have a life philosophy, one will be given to you by people that are trying to sell you something. The things you own end up owning you. So write out your philosophy and I encourage you to share it in the comments below. Write out what matters, what doesn’t, and what choices you are going to make to live in integrity with those beliefs. After all, anyone can say that something is important to them but it means nothing if their actions don’t reflect that. Before you finish up that philosophy though, I want to share just one more thing that I really think deserves to make it into that life philosophy and that is other people. Now I don’t mean wearing clothes that other people think are cool or taking the job other people think is prestigious — that’s all just caring about fitting in. When I say other people, I mean caring about their well-being even when it is inconvenient. I mean sticking up for the person who is being bullied at your school or workplace. I mean being honest even when it’s to your detriment. And I mean giving even just a little to people who are really struggling. You see, when you only focus on yourself, it’s really easy to get caught up in rage and anger over everything that you don’t have — that’s Tyler Durden driving motivator and he’s not wrong. Tyler just has a narrow perspective. Broaden your view. Take other people into account especially those that are the worst off and when you do that, you’ll find that any anger you have at the unfairness of your own circumstances just disappears because what’s left at that point is gratitude and if you do go out of your way to help those people, that you get probably the most awesome feeling a human being can have which is fulfillment at participating in a purpose larger than yourself so right now, as you define your own life philosophy, I’m inviting you to include something that will give you both gratitude and fulfillment on top of the magnetism of Tyler Durden. I’m inviting you to give a fuck about other people because with the release of this video I’m going to be opening a fundraiser for Charity Water — it’s an organization that provides clean drinking water for people who don’t have it. These are people who get waterborne diseases or who can’t get educated because the amount of time they spent just hauling water back and forth — people who generally just have a really hard time getting one of the most basic requirements for life. So if this video resonated with you and if you’re thinking, “You know what? I could use a little bit more fulfillment in my life,” trust me, this is a decision that will brighten the rest of your day and potentially save someone else’s life. So there’s a link to Charity Waters fundraising page in the description that you can click now. I encourage you to give five bucks — one fuck about somebody else on the other side of the planet because it will help them, because you’ll feel happier for it, and because it would be pretty awesome to be part of something that could wind up literally saving hundreds of lives. Ben and I have each personally donated one thousand dollars this month and we will every single month for the rest of 2017 and I don’t know if it’s going to feel as awesome every single day for us but it feels like the right thing to do since your, guys, support of this YouTube channel has put me in a position where I can even afford to do something like that. So thank you so, so much for supporting the channel, for making my donation possible and I hope that you decide to give a fuck with us. Remember, you click that link in the description you give five bucks or more if you choose to and you’re getting someone clean drinking water. So I hope that you liked this video. I hope that you’re working out a life philosophy that makes you extremely proud and magnetic and I look forward to seeing you in the next video.

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  • Reply Polarcut 888 August 3, 2019 at 3:12 am

    I want to make my life better, and how am I gonna make it you ask? Is by constantly learning and experimenting

  • Reply Armen Wood August 3, 2019 at 6:18 am

    You decide who controls you.

  • Reply MrBoegela August 3, 2019 at 1:41 pm

    My life philosophy hinges on honesty. Stay honest, stay true to yourself and to others, even if it seems like that honesty will work against you, it wont. Dishonesty and lies destroy what and who you love.

  • Reply Kage naru mono August 4, 2019 at 10:19 pm

    Best video! LOL!

  • Reply rebel without a comma August 4, 2019 at 11:05 pm

    Why are people having children in those awful environments? More kids make it harder to be helped and help themselves. Africa has the highest birthrate per family in the world.

  • Reply Potato August 5, 2019 at 12:51 am

    Ricardo Rosello has entered the chat*

  • Reply lovely A August 5, 2019 at 1:07 am

    I have fallen into that materialistic trap, thinking "what would this item say about me to others? What would that other item say? Does it say what I want people to think about me?" When in reality it should be my actions, my words, my integrity that speaks for me on its own.
    The other day I went to this party and didnt know the dress code so I went looking very casual with jeans and a blouse, while everyone else was wearing night gowns and looking very formal. At first I was blaming myself and feeling inferior, thinking I looked terrible and should invest on a whole new wardrobe to wear in those situations to make me feel confident. But then I suddenly stopped myself and thought "I look good and I'm already here, I cant change how I look but how I feel and behave" and so I decided to not care and have a good time regardless of how I looked and honestly I think I enjoyed that party the most.

  • Reply evakatrina a August 5, 2019 at 1:36 am

    I take two approaches which are consistent with this:
    – Strong faith that this life is transitory and justice will eventually be done in the next life, and
    – momentary detachment (kind of like being two people..) to take a 3D view of what's going on and find the motives. It takes me out of the emotional, reactive moment. I can regain my balance and compartmentalise the issue realistically; e.g., not "omg what did I do to make this guy freak out like this?" but "interesting, this guy feels the need to push the boundaries of his territory and he's doing it aggressively and emotionally. Weak. What's he so afraid of?"

  • Reply Jose Saldivar August 5, 2019 at 12:15 pm

    My pro focus is to educate first my people to be freeer. My personal is to build my family with She .
    I have been doing it for several years, and some dislike it.
    Mostly do only what matters most, and share my resources with these who are needed.

  • Reply Life Searcher August 5, 2019 at 2:19 pm

    You forget one important point, this is a MOVIE !

  • Reply Janice Murphy August 5, 2019 at 8:10 pm

    Philosophy as a way of life not a way for everyone's life but it's for the person's personal philosophy. A W

  • Reply Captain Electro August 6, 2019 at 6:32 am

    My life philosophy is, sometimes violence IS the answer but like Mr. Miyagi says… "fighting no good! Somebody ALWAYS get hurt".
    Bullies must go down!

  • Reply Jessica Berry August 6, 2019 at 8:49 pm

    F the world because the world f..ed me that's been my philosophy lately because people always treat me like ish im done letting people walk all over me

  • Reply Jordan Rockwell August 6, 2019 at 11:35 pm

    Kindness, not niceness. Nice people get stepped on, Kind people don't.

  • Reply Turkey August 7, 2019 at 6:03 am

    This video makes me want to be a better Christian. Thanks, bro. I need to actually walk the walk before I talk the talk.

  • Reply steve p August 7, 2019 at 8:58 am

    Thats Jesus 100% ……look in to it…….

  • Reply joshua armstrong August 9, 2019 at 12:33 am

    what do we believe? solid friendship, no conditions, we see a person above all else, as long as you care about us and stand by us, be there, we couldnt care less, about what job you have, what programs you're apart of, your damn bank account, we see YOU, we give, without the thought of reward, out of the goodness of our own hearts, we dont demand anything from others, we let them live their lives as nature intended it, we laugh with you and tease you, as thats a second language in our home, but we NEVER intend to hurt you or your feelings, we also respect boundaries, and expect that in turn, its common sense to us, we treat you like a human being, respectful and kind, but we wont take crap from others, we listen to understand, not react, we seek knowledge, but understand our limitations, could go on and on, but…we wrote this down here, to be clear with others, and ourselves, friendship, isnt as word, its part of life, or it can be, surround yourself with positivity, but dont ignore the flaws, accept the flaws, see them, but dont let them define you, you are more than your situation or brand or any company you might work for, you are a person, and you have feelings, thoughts, opinions and desires, and its healthy to express those things, within legal boundaries, as long as you do that, harm none, do what you feel, be who YOU are, we respect that and wouldnt mind seeing your brand of humor, we listen and do so to understand, like we said, we may not agree on everything, but we wont devalue what you believe, thats not what we do, we arent here to convince others of anything, to believe how we do, do and believe what you want, its your life, now live it, while we do the same

  • Reply stephen chan August 9, 2019 at 6:20 am

    1. understand life through experiences
    2. be proud of who you are and the things you've been able to do
    3. its okay to not be the best at what you do – as long as you're making progress and trying your best to improve, that's the most important part
    4. I only care about the opinions of those who i love

  • Reply mr nobody August 9, 2019 at 2:20 pm

    help others, live life and have fun- whats the point in being miserable, try things, be uncomfortable, be honest

  • Reply Chump Change August 10, 2019 at 3:22 pm

    There is a lot of things to care about in this world. As I hit 60, I find one of my best rules is, " DO NOT compare yourself to anyone anywhere". Go your own way and what you should care about is family and friends.

  • Reply Adi August 10, 2019 at 4:30 pm

    1. Lebensraum

  • Reply BlueSteel August 10, 2019 at 7:39 pm

    Listen to Eminem

  • Reply Timothée Oliveau August 11, 2019 at 1:37 am

    In december 2017 : I have written the goal of my life : 

    "At the end of my life, I want to have had the most positive impact on the world, humanity, and Life overall." 

    I'm here talking about making projects that if successful, could change hundreds of millions of life for the drastically better.

    Feel free to steal it.

    To steal the goal of my life.

    Just say I'm awesome after that ??
    Timothée Oliveau.

  • Reply Clutch Jr. August 11, 2019 at 10:29 pm

    Create bonds and affect the world

  • Reply Karma Akabane August 12, 2019 at 4:47 am

    My favorite quote?
    "It's ok to fall. There is no shame in falling down. There is only shame in falling down, and not having the courage to get back up"

  • Reply Tylerx king18 August 12, 2019 at 7:45 pm

    Good approach

  • Reply Nermine NA August 13, 2019 at 6:45 pm


  • Reply Holly Rey August 14, 2019 at 3:19 am

    One and a half million views : less than one thousand dislikes

  • Reply Ambrus Németh August 14, 2019 at 10:37 am

    To be fair one of the most important point of Fight Club is that in the process of making an anarchistic free utopia Tyler turned into a rock hard dictator. Not a great role model if you think about it.

  • Reply tiger bend August 14, 2019 at 7:58 pm

    My phylosophy is simple:

    I want to be the kind of person that has the perseverence to turn dust into gold.

    The kinda guy that always has a purpose and will always take the action to get there

  • Reply the elderkingstation August 15, 2019 at 6:13 am

    Be yourself, don’t worry about how everybody perceive you. Don’t be the opinions they say about you, be the facts you know you are. Don’t be the man you fear, be the man you dream about when you think of yourself. And most importantly don’t worship the ego of a king, but admire the humbleness of his servant.

  • Reply the elderkingstation August 15, 2019 at 6:13 am

    Be yourself, don’t worry about how everybody perceive you. Don’t be the opinions they say about you, be the facts you know you are. Don’t be the man you fear, be the man you dream about when you think of yourself. And most importantly don’t worship the ego of a king, but admire the humbleness of his servant.

  • Reply Nina Weaver August 15, 2019 at 9:08 am


  • Reply Pirate of the pirate of cringy names August 15, 2019 at 4:00 pm

    Brits during WW2: The Expert

  • Reply Dan Johnston August 15, 2019 at 4:20 pm

    He does have an expensive wardrobe though

  • Reply Olivia Rugani August 16, 2019 at 2:43 am

    Read 'how not to give a f*ck' by Mark Manson. It has very similar opinions as this video, and it's pretty eye-opening

  • Reply GIwillo August 16, 2019 at 1:17 pm

    Great video; my purpose is to be happy with myself and others around me! Crafting and working with my own hands is so forfilling that i can forget anything else around me. The children smiles at the end were heartwarming 🙂

  • Reply MAXCOBRALAZERFACE August 16, 2019 at 5:13 pm

    Excellent video !! I’d say Life liberty and the pursuit of happiness

  • Reply D c August 16, 2019 at 8:56 pm

    I'm glad it makes you feel good to send money for water to Africa l think your a title prick who is using it as an promo fuckwit

  • Reply Quinn Jaeger August 17, 2019 at 4:43 am

    mines pretty simple
    to be the only one in my whole family to not underage drink

  • Reply Paul Hachimaki August 17, 2019 at 5:20 am

    What matters to me is to live, to live as if you knew you are like the ants who work for about 2 weeks before they die, life is to realise this and keep on living in the present, absent of memories of the past or hopes for the future, to live is to stop living, to live is to BE your own life. Now that wich doesn't matter to me is building sand castles hoping that it will last, for its not the building that bring us life, but the construction of the building itself, that fills you with LIFE.
    "He who has a why to live can bear almost any how" – Nietzsche
    Kinda hard to integrate beliefs of that might for any living person, but for i to truly live, it is important to be conscious of my own mistakes and things i do that bring me life, focus on not making the same mistakes again, and steer my destiny in alignment with things i'll do that'll bring life to my own being.

  • Reply heroherohero August 18, 2019 at 11:43 pm

    my philosophy: don't be a hypocrite

  • Reply Peter Mortimer August 20, 2019 at 12:00 am

    The things you own end up owning you. Tyler Durden is a bit of a Stoic

  • Reply hASBO96 August 23, 2019 at 3:20 am

    I want to live a life In which I give to others… I am a chef and I have a degree in a subject I want to teach in, I want to give either knowledge or an experience or both! My happiness and health matters above all else as pursuing these things will take it's toll as they involve a lot of graft, effort and time… What doesn't matter is fake, deviating people or things, such as false friends or material goods I don't really need… My life philosophy is that hard work and graft is worth it in the end and I will show that by achieving my goal of being someone who can give something to someone like noone else can

  • Reply Gustavo Kenzo Miyamoto August 23, 2019 at 1:41 pm

    Could you make a video on Harvey Specter (and on the other Suits characters Jessica, Donna, Louis..) ?

  • Reply Rose garden August 26, 2019 at 10:32 pm

    Here is your replay button 00:01

  • Reply ew August 28, 2019 at 4:53 pm

    my life philosophy is to live without any philosophy

  • Reply Joey Parker August 28, 2019 at 10:21 pm

    When I saw Taylor Durden in fight club I said this guy is gonna be my role model. 1:41 DAAAAAMN

  • Reply Merkava TV August 29, 2019 at 9:04 pm

    I have a simple life changing decision after watching this video. I will not care about things that I don't value in my life. What people thing about me? I don't care, because it doesn't mean anything to me.

  • Reply a collection of atoms August 29, 2019 at 10:05 pm

    My philosophy is the meaning of life is to give life meaning whatever that may be.
    Edit: I edited this comment because I can

  • Reply William Oakes August 31, 2019 at 8:59 am

    So keep your eyes on the prize and skip the unnecessary?

  • Reply William Oakes August 31, 2019 at 9:01 am

    Also this comment section feels extremely preachy or lofty

  • Reply stuart940 August 31, 2019 at 11:49 pm

    didnt watch this. does that count

  • Reply Michael Bier September 2, 2019 at 7:00 pm

    Roses are red,
    I'm done with my life
    Coz this video starts at 5:55

  • Reply Robert Svec September 4, 2019 at 4:22 am

    Maintaining curiosity and the thrust to learn through a mind numbing society is key to having unique thought

  • Reply 肇Tommyアアは September 5, 2019 at 3:42 am

    I gotta to rematch fight club, needs those adrenaline in today ‘s society

  • Reply Who Knows September 5, 2019 at 4:13 pm

    Why are you basing everything off a movie.. this makes no sense

  • Reply Basma Ben herrou September 6, 2019 at 5:19 pm

    At the end we will all die right?

  • Reply Nbd hhs September 7, 2019 at 2:07 am

    This is great advice

  • Reply KIRA September 7, 2019 at 3:38 pm

    My philosophy
    Do what i like when i like and how i like.
    Be independent thus be free

  • Reply Vishal Jakson September 7, 2019 at 7:23 pm

    Being authentic is beyond everything by being yourself without caring what others think that is me and I do u jus do the same nd see how awesome the life is.

  • Reply Dominique Lavalle September 8, 2019 at 11:15 pm

    Let me save you 15 min:
    STEP 1: Be Born French Parisian. Check! Thank you. Thank you very much!

  • Reply Strudel September 9, 2019 at 5:04 am

    In this simulation, only I matter

  • Reply Mads Harlev September 10, 2019 at 8:28 am

    Honesty, Sense

  • Reply Taj William September 10, 2019 at 3:28 pm

    Guys , were living in a matrix all this is fake and meant to control i know after I leave this earth something great will happen for me so I don’t care that much about anything that happens on earth I know it’s all fake –

  • Reply Simonne September 11, 2019 at 12:57 am

    Tyler Durden is how Angelina Jolie is in real life.

  • Reply Jack 1215 September 13, 2019 at 2:22 am

    Live with as little regret as possible. Love every moment, and find the silver lining. Don't think about consequences, do what's right regardless.

  • Reply D AN September 13, 2019 at 7:05 am

    Trouble is talking about the 4 hour week etc is meaningless when you have no choice but to work to pay all your bills just to survive…

  • Reply AnasAzad Anas September 13, 2019 at 11:45 am

    Music, Art, relationship and enjoy having [email protected] to me..
    doent matter to me-material

  • Reply You Wish September 14, 2019 at 3:25 pm

    Tyler durden was a fictional character within a fictional movie…

  • Reply Tone Swing September 16, 2019 at 7:57 pm

    Death is guaranteed but success isn’t. ¯_(ツ)_/¯ so roll those dice buddy

  • Reply Dalia Flora September 17, 2019 at 6:11 am

    Lol. Am i the only feminine girly girl who’s taking notes from this ? ??

  • Reply LonelyPianist September 18, 2019 at 1:30 pm

    We die for a job to buy sht we dont need

  • Reply Kahiau Kiyuna September 18, 2019 at 10:25 pm

    awesome thank you so much

  • Reply Rahul Chakraborty September 18, 2019 at 10:32 pm

    Here is 1 of my life philosophies:
    You are not your country of origin, ethnicity or your race. They do not define you. I'm not saying you don't have to be proud of your roots. But someone else actions who shares the same ethnicity, race or comes from the same designated section of land has nothing to do with you. If someone judges you based on some of these things, which are beyond your control, they do not deserve your company.

  • Reply LeVincent Truong September 19, 2019 at 1:49 am

    I like how he says to find your life "philosophy" as opposed to life "purpose," because philosophy is more freeing and less confining as it's a system of thinking and a collection of ideas and thoughts, as opposed to a well-defined purpose – it's easier to understand and digest but harder to obtain because any variances we have if we reach that purpose would more than often feel like settling because it isn't "exactly" what you defined it to be.

  • Reply Leslie Abegglen September 19, 2019 at 2:04 am

    Just wondering if you know that using F bombs is a good way to offend part of your prospective viewers. It lowers the "classy" educated image you want to project. I suspect you do want to command respect or people may not believe what you are saying. I know this particular video is supposed to teach people not to care about others' opinions, but your Charisma Channel should try to appeal to the widest audience possible. You are sabotaging yourself by using questionable language just so you can be like your friends — going along with the crowd. If you really do not care about what people think of your channel, ignore some constructive criticism. I notice some people managed to comment without using questionable language. It can be done if you are clever and you definitely are clever. I have enjoyed some of your other videos. You do have some good things to say

  • Reply Carmen Mülhens September 20, 2019 at 5:54 pm

    Most of the people that I care about are trying to push me out of their life. I clicked on this video to not care about people anymore. This didn’t do it for me

  • Reply asdfgh123 September 22, 2019 at 10:50 am

    should have said SPOILER ALERT

  • Reply asdfgh123 September 22, 2019 at 3:04 pm

    1K people were too low in iq

  • Reply SCL75 September 22, 2019 at 6:38 pm

    Tyler is not real. Or is he?

  • Reply Myree Gita September 23, 2019 at 6:01 am

    Life is like a roller coaster, you will have your ups and downs, rises and drops, and loopey-loops, but in the end you will have tons of fun NO MATTER WHAT.

  • Reply Richard Broski September 23, 2019 at 6:45 am

    Great video and you have a great life philosophy for helping people.

    My philosophy:
    Live life without fear and help those that need help.

  • Reply C.A.M Bros September 23, 2019 at 5:40 pm

    I want to inspire people with my food

  • Reply Chicken Draws Dogs September 23, 2019 at 5:40 pm

    Be like Keanu Reeves.

  • Reply Nelson Montana September 24, 2019 at 11:46 am

    Fight Club is a movie. It's make-believe. Everything works out the way the writer wants it to.

  • Reply Rudy Torres September 25, 2019 at 3:34 pm

    I struggle with this big time. I gained the nickname Superman because I’m strong and I care too much but I get tossed around like the nice guy and the only people who respect me are people who are older than me

  • Reply G Hagan September 25, 2019 at 11:19 pm

    Sounds like Trump.

  • Reply Tomaz Lovrin September 26, 2019 at 8:41 am

    The people with power survive, those without it, wither away. You either adapt or you simply perish.?

  • Reply Amel Omic September 26, 2019 at 10:35 am

    Its ey fuking movie he has problems as well in life

  • Reply trafficjon400 September 27, 2019 at 11:25 am

    Movies are story's

  • Reply Jorge Rafael September 29, 2019 at 5:42 pm

    My life philosophy is to care about myself, money and relationships.

  • Reply divine intervention of beanos September 30, 2019 at 2:30 am

    World domination here I come
    I will do what I please

  • Reply Persona Non Grata October 2, 2019 at 12:28 pm

    Tyler is a movie character. In real life, he'd be dead.

  • Reply Trey Elsey October 2, 2019 at 6:19 pm

    There's a subtle thing that happens while they're on the subway: this big, mean-looking guy carelessly bumps into one of them while walking by. This would cause a lot of guys to get pissed. Instead, he doesn't even seem to notice – not because he's afraid to confront the guy, but because he's so self confident and has nothing to prove.

  • Reply besbes racem October 2, 2019 at 7:59 pm

    My life philosophy is to aim to achieve the highest of goals in science cause if you're gonna do something that anyone else does than what's one person down life is just not worth it so if you're gonna live find a great goal and achieve it

  • Reply jacker willy October 4, 2019 at 8:03 pm

    Cant listen to this channel simply because I know that the dude who owns it and narrates the episode has no charisma whatsoever… despite what the name suggests

  • Reply فقط Nothing October 4, 2019 at 8:25 pm

    hyy dude it's movie it's not in real life

  • Reply GLOBIK October 10, 2019 at 9:01 am

    Great video! Thanks for the thought-provoking essay.

  • Reply Kyriethegoat October 11, 2019 at 6:25 am

    10:07 3 three things that has kobe bryant and why i admire him so much

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