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How To Find The Right Person To Date

October 12, 2019


– Best dating advice. Somebody tweeted out to me
and said what’s my top three pieces of dating advice? Well I’m no Doctor Phil,
but this is what I said. Number one, do not date
people that are not attracted to you. It’s a huge mistake. Attraction’s one of those things sometimes it grows on people you know. Sometimes people get married
and they say at first when they met there wasn’t attraction and so I agree with that. But if over time there’s
still no attraction you’re just beating a dead horse. If you’re in the friend
zone you might always be in the friend zone. (laid-back jazz music) What’s up? Look back this way, let’s see the form. Uh oh. – I’m ready. – [Male] Let’s see if you’re any good.

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100 Comments

  • Reply Chilli Soda June 3, 2017 at 5:14 pm

    Why is your lawyer cosplaying all the time?

  • Reply Juan Sanchez June 3, 2017 at 5:16 pm

    Real social dynamics for this one everyone!!!!

  • Reply lovelife02 June 3, 2017 at 5:21 pm

    I think Kate is your future wife like soul mates

  • Reply FacCa Flame June 3, 2017 at 5:26 pm

    I've been following you socials for so long now and this shi use less

  • Reply laib khaled June 3, 2017 at 5:32 pm

    when are you coming to dubai?

  • Reply Mouthyy June 3, 2017 at 5:37 pm

    damn Tie is awesome! I wish we could hang out someday that would be a blast

  • Reply Marcu Dan June 3, 2017 at 5:37 pm

    How to get any girl:
    Step 1: be Tai Lopez

  • Reply Big 3ye June 3, 2017 at 5:37 pm

    We tend to like people who are similar to ourselves because it validates our self concept and supports our ego. It also reduces uncertainty and anxiety about the unknown. When you are fond of someone, you tend to think that they are more similar to you. But when they behave in an offensive manner, you'll view them as more dissimilar— subconsciously distancing yourself from a negative self-concept. We maintain relationships until the cost outweighs the rewards. Once someone falls below you're minimum level of acceptability you will terminate the relationship. Comparison level of alternatives is another obvious factor because the more options we have, the more likely we are to move on. We also love to be around talented people because we think that their skills may rub off on us. We avoid people who are too talented because have some flaws reminds of ourselves. Avoiding perfect people protects our ego. People are very calculating and cold when it comes to forming relationships even if they don't know it!

  • Reply Enigma Ackerman June 3, 2017 at 5:41 pm

    1. Knowledge
    2. Be Funny
    3. Smell Good 😹✌

  • Reply Kuro June 3, 2017 at 5:48 pm

    Tip : have a fortune.

  • Reply swarnatama ganguli June 3, 2017 at 5:50 pm

    he's chutia no1 ….DNT listen to this moron… unwanted stuff…

  • Reply Superman June 3, 2017 at 5:59 pm

    Expose NASA

  • Reply Ajdani Tv June 3, 2017 at 6:14 pm

    seriously Tai?

  • Reply its_ theHuman June 3, 2017 at 6:24 pm

    wisdom goals . God bless you Tai .

  • Reply Lerroy007 June 3, 2017 at 6:27 pm

    Hey guys so Tai says mold your purpose around you strengths but I am in an interesting scenario where I need some advice…

    When I was a child my natural tendencies were to be introverted
    At 15 I decided I didn't want to be introverted and practiced being social. Now I am above average in terms of social skills and tend to have no problem even talking to random people and directing the conversations of small groups I just met on a good night.

    Would being extrovert and having people skills still be considered one of my strengths even if it wasn't my natural tendency? Even still on some days, I need to push myself out of my comfort zone. Should I mold my purpose around my people skills?

  • Reply prince perry June 3, 2017 at 6:42 pm

    thanks for the tips tai. 👍

  • Reply Jason Rougeau June 3, 2017 at 6:51 pm

    So it's better to get out and date than to just drink and complain, eh? Or it's just all a big joke and fuck it?

  • Reply justOnerandomguy June 3, 2017 at 6:58 pm

    Thought I heard Dino, but it was the AB remix.

  • Reply Aurel June 3, 2017 at 7:02 pm

    Wait. its sansa stark.

  • Reply Kathy June 3, 2017 at 7:24 pm

    what is the Song at the end?!

  • Reply SergioBelfort June 3, 2017 at 8:01 pm

    dude you mess with Action Bronson. that is amazing lol

  • Reply Omar Bortoli June 3, 2017 at 10:38 pm

    i am narcism….
    have make the test  …

  • Reply Zak R June 3, 2017 at 10:51 pm

    Whatever happened to staying humble Tai?

  • Reply Michael June 3, 2017 at 11:05 pm

    Tai, I want to talk to you for 10 minutes, I'll give you a billion dollar internet business idea and just want to enjoy your authenticity.

  • Reply TooReal4This June 3, 2017 at 11:31 pm

    That thumbnail looks cool as hell

  • Reply TexasTortuga June 3, 2017 at 11:34 pm

    Is that Terry?

  • Reply Gus DaCosta June 3, 2017 at 11:47 pm

    Tai love your business content, but I'm not sure you are ready to give dating advice.

  • Reply TheMatroid June 4, 2017 at 1:00 am

    I'm 14% narcissist 6% Machiavellist and 4% psychopath. I think I'm doing pretty alright

  • Reply Sweet June 4, 2017 at 1:32 am

    hope it's not disrespectful, can i just say

    Tai is getting some!

  • Reply francis F June 4, 2017 at 2:57 am

    if you are rich and have Lamborghini you can date any girl

  • Reply John Law June 4, 2017 at 4:12 am

    Money money and more money

  • Reply Penguins Are my favorite dinosaur June 4, 2017 at 7:52 am

    where's the creampie part?

  • Reply Mihirr June 4, 2017 at 11:17 am

    Tiege Hanley

  • Reply Elman Hamdi June 4, 2017 at 1:28 pm

    Hi @tailopez if you want ,I will edit your videos ,make a your own intro and other because I am a student at University and 1 year ago I'm going to Amerika with 'Work and Travel' proggramme and it want to money.

  • Reply Vlux Media June 4, 2017 at 3:30 pm

    Enjoyed the video. Make more content like this

  • Reply RockstarFlipper June 4, 2017 at 5:10 pm

    The thumbnail…..Rolls for the win..o wait guns lol

  • Reply warrenebuffett June 4, 2017 at 6:33 pm

    whats that crack on your forehead is the knawledge expanding dis much?

  • Reply Jimmy P June 4, 2017 at 6:49 pm

    was he a comedian this whole time?

  • Reply UpSideDown theory June 4, 2017 at 7:17 pm

    i dont if you belive in god .. but i think you really should work on that side 😀
    you wont just live and die … for sure . there gonna be somthing more out there .

  • Reply Frank Sch June 4, 2017 at 7:24 pm

    you want to know how to shot right.. pick a book and read it .. knowledge

  • Reply sunflower June 4, 2017 at 7:38 pm

    good luck Tai, don't choose too pretty cuz it will cause you headache… smart with money and kind first in my book…that goes for guys too 😉

  • Reply Dan Owens June 4, 2017 at 7:50 pm

    Tia man, You want some bowling lessons bro? lol

  • Reply VLONE TROOPER4 June 4, 2017 at 10:19 pm

    TAI piped that down 😂😂

  • Reply T 2 H June 4, 2017 at 11:31 pm

    Someone who tells me the name of the background songggggggggggg plssssssssss xdddd

  • Reply XB Jeffy June 4, 2017 at 11:54 pm

    I might just have to use that thumbnail as my wallpaper.

  • Reply Mauricio Davila June 5, 2017 at 12:48 am

    amazing girl

  • Reply Dylan-/Andy/ Anderson June 5, 2017 at 4:08 am

    Thanks tai that's good advice and knowledge.

  • Reply Tsepo Nkamba-Van Wyk June 5, 2017 at 8:29 am

    Action Bronson in the back 😀

  • Reply Neema Paxima June 5, 2017 at 12:51 pm

    What about Naaalij ?!

  • Reply The Magic of Keelan Wendorf June 5, 2017 at 3:58 pm

    Who else took the Dark Triad test???

  • Reply Joseph Kittel June 5, 2017 at 5:20 pm

    Love these soundtracks Tai. Very hip.

    Thank you Tai and Knowledge Society team for all that you guys do <3

  • Reply Jay_TP June 5, 2017 at 10:22 pm

    ill take the laptop

  • Reply Janek Balacha June 6, 2017 at 4:46 pm

    I love u Tai xD

  • Reply Gabriel Saloma Velázquez June 7, 2017 at 10:11 pm

    Hey Tai! Thanks for the tips. What about a tip for asking someone to do the test without her (him) to confirm so soon you are so unique? LoL

  • Reply Yevhenii Lisyak June 8, 2017 at 2:45 am

    good advices which makes thinking… 🙂

  • Reply gracious akunna June 8, 2017 at 10:30 am

    This is really helpful and inspiring… I really do appreciate

  • Reply Ramy Weriemy June 10, 2017 at 2:10 am

    I am from Tunisia North Africa, and you are my mentor even though we never met! Thanks for everything!

  • Reply Justin Z June 10, 2017 at 12:01 pm

    i hope i win the giveaway

  • Reply SuckYourBone June 11, 2017 at 9:01 pm

    2 narcisist
    2.2 machiavellist
    1.8 psychopath
    thats cool I suppose ]:>

  • Reply Alex Baker June 12, 2017 at 6:15 pm

    What action bronson song is playing in the back

  • Reply Shikhar KC June 13, 2017 at 2:53 am

    truth wons like you do 🙂 waiting for more better tips.

  • Reply Nodnarb June 17, 2017 at 2:57 am

    Damn this made me really wanna go to the gun range

  • Reply Danner Coburn June 18, 2017 at 7:49 pm

    She needs to work on her stance when shooting

  • Reply The5 Family414 June 19, 2017 at 3:29 am

    this guy is a true joke. lol

  • Reply Max Hero June 19, 2017 at 11:02 am

    What is the name of the BGM?

  • Reply Maverick Troiano June 23, 2017 at 10:58 pm

    Women just use you to get close to Zack tai

  • Reply James Winchester June 24, 2017 at 6:21 pm

    What is the outro song? I. Need. It.

  • Reply Suave House June 25, 2017 at 7:01 am

    Brother Tai if I'm feeling a girl and she think she's feeling me I put her through the TEST! Its like boot camp but boot camp on how much shit she will take to be your girl through the trenches and mud pits lol 😂 and if she made it through then you know for sure she's about you and not your money

  • Reply Tiyana Huggins July 8, 2017 at 1:23 pm

    There just needs to be honesty, attraction and a want of both parties wanting one another

  • Reply Robbobshiskabob Robboboscarpete July 10, 2017 at 2:20 pm

    Tai you should be teaching those lady's to lean into their shooting instead of leaning back. thank you for all the inspiration you give all of us!

  • Reply Jacob Tager July 11, 2017 at 12:26 pm

    ha I took the test I'm 50 percent darker than the population that funny (MWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA)

  • Reply Julian Chow July 13, 2017 at 7:26 am

    what is the name of the background track

  • Reply The Scourge July 19, 2017 at 9:56 am

    here in my garage, i have a ton of money, here i want to teach you how to make money, you guys cant make money so i give you some here and there, oh you guys cant pick up chicks, well here's some more shitty advice, lol

  • Reply Andrew Rice July 31, 2017 at 6:45 pm

    You attract what you are ;o

  • Reply 797ation August 10, 2017 at 8:08 pm

    Tai your a great guy. Theres a lot of toxic people going to come at you. Stay positive my friend!

  • Reply Quanrong Hu August 18, 2017 at 9:10 pm

    Name and birthday determines your personality.

  • Reply Ed Shalda August 23, 2017 at 1:45 am

    Love you Kate! Tai your cool to brah.

  • Reply Tristan Scorpio September 1, 2017 at 10:33 am

    Mr. Lopez. I just took that dark triad test. My results: "Shockingly Saintly" , saying how I'm a clink of light in a dark world and how I must walk on water and stuff… (I have jet skied on a lake at bible study camp, I have gone ice fishing, and I do snow ski…..I was on the alpine ski team in high school. lol… idk if that counts for walking on water…lol) Your the Best Mr. Lopez for sharing such super-cool-ness on how to choose healthy living conductivity. thank u

  • Reply Monster Vodka October 7, 2017 at 12:35 am

    In your case you pay them.

  • Reply Ian October 8, 2017 at 1:21 am

    Top 3? Don't bother, feminists killed the scene. Move along and go your own way.

  • Reply Avery Mote October 10, 2017 at 2:12 am

    What's the song in the beginning?

  • Reply BAT-TALK! October 17, 2017 at 5:02 pm

    Yeah they probably don't find him attractive they just like money

  • Reply alice hhh November 12, 2017 at 4:48 pm

    one question, does Tai sleep with all if the girls in his videos? 😂

  • Reply Stella The Sassy November 18, 2017 at 1:47 pm

    Let Nature take its course.

  • Reply Michael Hawkins November 22, 2017 at 1:09 am

    she leans back whe. she shoots lol are you trying to stay away from the gun? lol

  • Reply Patrick Private November 25, 2017 at 8:15 pm

    My best advice, don't listen to any advice. except this one.

  • Reply T Chen December 22, 2017 at 5:45 pm

    Date someone you are attracted to

  • Reply dzl lz January 11, 2018 at 3:48 pm

    Anyone know the music track? Sounds nice.

  • Reply awhatzable January 24, 2018 at 3:53 pm

    just did the test and I'm mostly a Psychopathy and a Machiavellianism. What the lol

  • Reply hhh March 10, 2018 at 8:02 am

    His girls looks 19.. Tai looks mid 40

  • Reply Based Jesus April 30, 2018 at 2:44 am

    Song?

  • Reply Julian May 30, 2018 at 12:57 pm

    KNALALAGE hahhahahhaah

  • Reply Zam Buki August 22, 2018 at 8:01 am

    Kate's ass matches her personality…. flat af… oh yeah Tai Lopez needs to die for the sake of human evolution

  • Reply 8 taca August 29, 2018 at 9:43 am

    I wouldn't date you. XD

  • Reply Eesnimi Perenimi October 31, 2018 at 10:58 am

    Flies always come to the shit

  • Reply Smart Sweet December 18, 2018 at 4:39 pm

    Date ??? Or do you mean to pay them for every move they make .

  • Reply Cameron Brown December 27, 2018 at 6:53 am

    that was a badass thumbnail

  • Reply Mateo March 5, 2019 at 2:54 pm

    Love you taz im not gay😄

  • Reply easeinbox March 22, 2019 at 2:26 pm

    shes not that hot. im poor and i get more.

  • Reply Gala August 3, 2019 at 3:12 am

    Tai no matter what guys, you will always date a trend.
    And the modern trend is:
    Full Spanish lips
    Cocasian blue eys
    Californian ten
    Hairless Asian skin
    Jamaican dance hall ass
    Swedish long legs
    Japanese small door
    Hips of 9 year old boy
    And tummy of a lesbian, owner of a gym…😃😃😃
    You will never follow uour true feelings guys as you have no freedome.
    All you have guys is your ego limitations.

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