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Gay Men Answer Sexuality Questions You’re Afraid To Ask

October 4, 2019

(whimsical music) – No.
– Oh yeah. (laughing) Never? – No. – I’d see straight guys I’d
like to do all the time. – Yes. – Whew, man. – 1000% like, a lot. – Ah, it’s my curse. I fall in love with
straight men every day. – Uh, yeah. – Yeah, but not necessarily
because they’re straight? – No. – It’s more if they’re hot. – I’ve never like, (gasping) he’s straight. It’s taboo. That makes him hotter to me. – Yeah. – It’s just like, I’m
attracted to all men. – If a straight guy is hot, even if they were gay, they’d still be hot. – Over time, I’ve figured out
that if somebody is straight, it’s actually a turn off for me? I kinda lose sexual desire for somebody if our sexualities aren’t compatible. – Surely you’ve had a straight guy friend where you’re like, yeah, I’d hit that. – Yeah, he’s sort of attractive. Ah, dude, you’re trying
to poison me over here. I guess, okay, yeah. – I’m just trying to get
the truth out of you. – I guess I look at straight men the same way I look at women. Like I can appreciate your beauty, but I don’t really wanna do anything. (whimsical music) – Hell, yes, I’ve been attracted to women. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve realized that I’m
attracted to a manly man, and like a cute, feminine women. – I like a curvy lady. – Even now, I look at women, I’m like, yeah, I think
I could get on board. – As a kid, i was like, I’m the gayest thing on Earth. And now, as an adult, I’m like, I’m hanging out
with my girlfriends alone, and it’s making me feel like
I wanna kiss you right now, and I’m very confused. – Nope. – Jennifer Lopez. – You’d do J-Lo? – No, I wasn’t sexually attracted. Oh, okay. – I thought Britney Spears was hot. I’ve never wanted to
have sex with a woman. – Britney Spears. I had a whole wall of photos of her, and I started to grow up, and I was like, I think it’s just that I wanted to be them,
not that I want them. – Definitely always
appreciated women’s beauty. I’ve never been sexually attracted. – And I think girls are attractive. I’ll definitely check some out, and be like, oh, damn, like she’s gorgeous. I never look at them
sexually and was like, damn. – You never want to go to there. – Yeah. (whimsical music) 8th grade, for a week. I did like her, but then she told me
she was only dating me because she wanted my
best friend, and so, yeah. – I have dated a woman before. – I had a fake two week relationship with a girl in 8th grade, and it was bad. – I went on a couple dates with a girl my freshman year of college. It seemed like the thing to do. – The thing to do. (laughing) College, you gotta go
on a date with a girl. (whimsical music) – No, I don’t watch straight porn. – No. – Yeah. – Yes, as a joke. – On accident, when it pops up as a pop up on my gay porn. – Occasionally, I will
indulge in a straight porn, or a threesome. – Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I’ve been there. – 10% of my porn watching
might be straight. – Might? Why? – Sometimes the guy’s really hot. – I mean, I’ve maybe watched a couple for a specific guy, to see what he’s up to. – I can appreciate the storyline. – There’s a really
funny comment thread on, I think it was Reddit. What’s the one thing you
would take out of porn, and all the guys said, the shot of the dude’s
butthole in straight porn. I guess they’re doggy style. The camera goes behind the guy, and shoots him from behind, but all you see is a butthole and balls, and I guess the straight men of Reddit were not impressed, and didn’t want that. (upbeat music) – I’ve never had sex with a woman, and I don’t think I want to. – I’ve never had sex with a woman, no. – I’m a gold star gay. – Gold star gay. – 100% gold star gay. Will it happen, though? I don’t know. Maybe. – Yes, I’ve had sex with a woman. It feels good, and also, sex with men feels good, too. – No. The closest I ever was to a vagina was when I was born. (upbeat music) – No. – No. You can’t wake up one day and be like, my gay past is dead. – You can maybe find a girl that you have attraction to, and for some reason, it just works, and you are so convinced
that you were just into guys, but to turn fully, like all of a sudden, I woke up tomorrow, and I just want girls now? No. – Your sexuality can change naturally. You can’t force a change in sexuality. That doesn’t work. – I don’t think that
conversions of any type are legit or healthy, or right. If they happen to explore
other types of sex, I think that that’s perfectly fine, as long as it is in sync
with what they’re feeling. – Yeah, I would have to agree, because I would say that
when I first came out, I was like, I’m gay. I like men. That’s it. In the 15 years that I’ve been out, my sexual preferences have changed, and I’ve actually have found myself attracted to women, more so than when I
think I first came out. – I don’t think someone
can make you turn straight. It has to flow with taste. One day you might be into
carne asada burritos, and then you might want a burger. I don’t know. I don’t know. – You and these food analogies. – Yeah. (whimsical music) – Oh, yes, I have. Flashbacks in my mind. (laughing) holy shi — – I lost my virginity to a straight guy. – Oh, right. – I’ve never hooked up
with a straight dude. – I have not. I am not one of those guys that can be like, oh hey, straight boy, straight boy, straight boy, kiss me. You know, I’m like, hi. Yeah, I have no game. – Quite a few times, I’ve had guys tell me, in secrecy, that they liked me, or had some sort of attraction to me, but I don’t know, man, like I’ve never felt about a guy this way, and like, I don’t know, it’s like confusing me, man, and blah, blah, blah, and I was like, all right, but I didn’t do anything with them. A couple times I did, but sometimes I was like. (laughing) A couple times I did. – Not have full on, penetrative
sex with a straight man, but I’ve definitely explored
with them other ways. – It happened once. – Tell me all a bout it. – It was fine. – Was he just like, let’s fuck, but I’m not into guys? – I think he wanted to experiment, to see what it was like, and I was like, okay. Did it. It was nice. But I think at the end of it, he was like, oh, I don’t know, like, I tried it. – I had a curious fellow once, and he, halfway through, decided nope, this was not for me. – It was a lot of responsibility though. – Right. Am I giving him the full
gay experience right? – I think it’s important for everyone just to explore what you like sexually. – Mm-hmm. – I think that’s what
your early 20s are for, is just like to try different things. – Or your late 30s. – Yeah. – Whenever you want to try something, I say try it. – And that’s the only way to know what you actually like. – And that’s how the cookie crumbles. (whimsical music) – Guys always say, gay guys give better head. (whimsical music)

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    6:03 my son said 🤸🏽‍♀️

  • Reply Sonny Dd June 8, 2019 at 8:47 pm

    Why are you gay?

  • Reply amber June 10, 2019 at 3:35 pm

    people always say that guys aren’t as likely to be bisexual as women but it reality it’s just that women are more open to the idea of bisexuality. if a man even kisses another dude everyone automatically thinks he’s gay and he can’t possibly be also into women, but it’s a thing !! a lot of the reason why bi men are seen as ‘not as common’ is because they falsely identify as gay or straight depending on who they may have a stronger preference for as well as availability

  • Reply Don't Read my Profile Pic June 11, 2019 at 7:09 am

    0:34 the guy on the left reminds me of a youtuber I watched before…

  • Reply Angel Carleton June 12, 2019 at 1:07 am

    I'm gay and love this

  • Reply anel kal June 12, 2019 at 1:53 am

    Some of them don't attract to straight men but attract to women and they call themselves "gay"!!

  • Reply Eric Quirarte June 12, 2019 at 4:55 am

    Hahahahaha I think he’s gay tahhh

  • Reply midwest pride June 12, 2019 at 8:55 pm

    I have a str8 ripped friend thats ripped and his personality is really nice. He knows i have a crush on him he doesnt care

  • Reply Lucas Scott Boi June 13, 2019 at 6:53 am


  • Reply Patrick Wilde June 13, 2019 at 1:11 pm

    am still in the closet at 19 dont blame me I live in Uganda

  • Reply Vxltage June 13, 2019 at 4:43 pm

    Nah chief this ain’t it any straight guy that says he wants to “experiment” is not straight idgaf what anyone tells me.

  • Reply Philippa Cork June 17, 2019 at 5:25 pm

    Why does he look like Dustin from Stranger Things??? 😂❤️

  • Reply Miriam Elle June 18, 2019 at 11:43 am

    I think that a lot of people in the gay and lesbian community could be bisexual with a huge preference for one gender versus the other. Hence why they consider themselves to be gay. But homosexuality is a monosexuality, in which the monosexual person feels attraction only toward a gender… If someone feels attracted to two genders even having preference towards one, they can't be monosexual.

  • Reply Shrigga 69420 June 20, 2019 at 2:00 pm

    guys… i think they're gay

  • Reply Moody Prick C: June 23, 2019 at 2:25 am

    I think they might be…

    Bi, Bi, Bi!

  • Reply Moody Prick C: June 23, 2019 at 2:28 am

    I'm in between Bi and Pan C:

    But some days I'm asexual and some days I'm lesbian, and some days i'm straight. It's so confusing ;c

  • Reply Fabs June 23, 2019 at 2:43 pm

    I watch straight porn a lot. But I'm not interested in the girls is more the situation or the way they are "get it". Make me think I really would like to be in her place.

  • Reply Homosexuality is In June 24, 2019 at 5:31 pm

    Psst…mom guess what…I am lesbian

  • Reply o iDreaM o June 25, 2019 at 8:48 pm

    I’m gay but I haven’t told anyone not even my parents because I’m scared, my family are all for gays but my friends aren’t, they’re really nice people but they just don’t understand it and I blame their families for having that influence on them

  • Reply DrewsTurbo June 27, 2019 at 8:08 am

    Bryan is gorgeous. 😍

  • Reply Loch121 July 6, 2019 at 2:06 pm

    why do they even do the behind the dude angle in straight porn

  • Reply Master Sergeant July 7, 2019 at 1:08 am

    Being Gay is all about being obsessed with sex. That’s it. There is much more to life than trying to find a place to put your dick. It’s a shallow person who wants to tell others what they do in the privacy of their bedroom. When you say your Gay, you just told me what you do. Who cares what you do? What kind of person feels the need to tell others what type of sex you do? It’s the shallow kind. It’s none of anyone’s business, but Gays feel the need to tell others because their shallow. And it’s about as unhealthy sex as can be. The anus is a one way street meant to push out poop, downward. It’s not designed to have anything go up. That’s how you damage it and prolapse the lining. But we’re not supposed to tell anyone that are we? Keep your sexuality to yourself. It isn’t anyone’s business. Remember, it’s not WHO you are it’s WHAT you do with your dick.

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  • Reply tanmay gupta July 11, 2019 at 12:09 pm

    Came out to my parents yesterday!!!
    I feel belonged, I feel free and I feel at peace!
    Try it guys, it feels amazing ❣️🎉🥰

  • Reply Jon Anthony July 13, 2019 at 7:20 pm

    everyone sins differently~ Buy this is gross

  • Reply Samara July 14, 2019 at 7:08 am

    this is gay

  • Reply Connor Anderson July 15, 2019 at 2:57 pm

    "I'm attracted to all men"
    N O

  • Reply Sharothi Gitagama July 16, 2019 at 5:16 pm

    Or your late thirtees 😅

  • Reply Manuel Cedillo July 18, 2019 at 9:30 pm

    I thought Matt & Bryan were cute. Personality and looks wise. Just simply cute.

  • Reply mo Gabriel July 18, 2019 at 9:30 pm

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  • Reply Amarutsu July 19, 2019 at 9:38 am

    Guys, you can still be gay and find women attractive. For me, some women are just aesthetically pleasing to look at, but when it comes to sexual attraction, it ain’t there. Don’t be afraid of not fitting into categories, everyone is different and you don’t always need to put a label on yourself.

  • Reply Nature Kit July 22, 2019 at 6:03 pm

    Bruh…. I thought gay guys literally couldn’t have sex with a woman. Well they could but they would spend 1 hour+ trying to get anything going
    Because it’s not sexual preference, it’s sexual attraction.
    And if you grow up and figure out you’re bisexual. You didn’t become bisexual. You where always bisexual. You just found out about it a little late, which is nothing to be ashamed of. It’s part of life. We learn more and more about ourselves as we grow and live with ourselves.

  • Reply Logan Derb July 23, 2019 at 6:52 am

    If a guy has sex with another guy he’s not straight… this is how it works I don’t care if he’s in denial he’s not straight

  • Reply AnotherYasuo Main July 29, 2019 at 11:00 pm

    Dude im literally straight and im watching this why

  • Reply John Grove July 31, 2019 at 11:51 pm

    I have no attraction to men whatsoever.. But I do find myself drifting to beautiful feminine trans. But, in my deepest heart emotions…… Still not as good as a woman in terms of sex… However, I may connect with them much more stronger.. Just my honest, humble opinion.

  • Reply joel serrahn August 3, 2019 at 9:31 pm

    ALL sex of ANY kind is totally disgusting!

  • Reply Michael Russell August 5, 2019 at 5:31 pm

    I 28 and came out recently. I'm a dad of two.

    Nothing worse then being called daddy. It's disturbing. Please stop it.

  • Reply Girl Queen August 12, 2019 at 11:37 pm

    I think a curse we gay people have is that we all fall in love with a straight person at least once…..

  • Reply ChanMan 2802 August 13, 2019 at 4:58 pm

    I literally search "I'm gay Idubbbz" on YouTube for the meme, and what do I get at the FIRST result?? More gay liberal propaganda…. Seriously, don't you asshats have anything better to do then telling us what to believe? Jesus, no wonder trump won.

  • Reply Its Thomas August 13, 2019 at 11:10 pm

    Before I knew I was gay and I thought I was straight, I saw this guy in my class and I was was like “OMG you are everything but also I’m not gay what is happening to me!?!?” And that’s how I started to notice something that I might me gay. You know what I mean?

  • Reply James Conley August 18, 2019 at 7:57 am

    Sexual orientation and race are both made up concepts that vary with culture and time period.

    Flannel dude is hot af.

  • Reply Xtra Delite August 19, 2019 at 2:30 am

    Straight guys can be a better bottom than gay guys…….For me, no spectrum exists. I’m a 100% gay male, attracted to men only.

  • Reply Maia 235 August 19, 2019 at 2:53 am

    Haha relatable

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    I will probably be the person who ends up murdering you all. That is just my nature

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    Bike is Bk

  • Reply Anonymous Sender August 22, 2019 at 4:47 pm

    bisexual happens a lot, people experiment too, preferences change also. I think sexuality is fluid, some desires change also depends speaking from experience I can say for me it changes depending on how I feel. Right or wrong it is what it is. I heard these dudes saying it in the beginning maybe there desires for women are less intense than others, sex should be fun, consensual, sensual, etc. etc. I don't advocate forced sex obviously. Not sure if conversion therapy works never tried it, just acceptance

  • Reply BANANAH SPREAD August 24, 2019 at 10:11 pm

    Gay is bad

  • Reply Kinga Jackson August 25, 2019 at 5:56 pm

    I'm bisexual but I'm scared of my sexuality changing for some reason?

  • Reply Neptune August 26, 2019 at 9:10 am

    well gay guys really have obssesion with britney spears

  • Reply Audrey Rose September 1, 2019 at 6:38 pm

    I’m only gay for my Lord Jesus Christ he can do me anytime I Love you JC Amen

  • Reply Someone? Who?? September 8, 2019 at 2:37 am

    Ok so none of them are gay, goddamn liers!!!!!!! >:(

  • Reply Sam B September 11, 2019 at 2:51 am

    I was born via cesarean- i am not even gold star, i am platinum star 😎✨

  • Reply Joyce A September 14, 2019 at 5:33 am

    In my childhood I was in a homosexual female relationship and even in my adult years I am attracted to female that have big or bigger booty thin or skinny waist and medium size boobs or bigger and long length hair on there head and if even vagina hair big vagina or bigger.

  • Reply Joyce A September 14, 2019 at 5:34 am

    We don't see much in Lowell, Massachusetts

  • Reply Joyce A September 14, 2019 at 5:35 am

    Joyce A-deg-bo-ye-ga loves sex toys.

  • Reply Joyce A September 14, 2019 at 5:37 am

    I have not found her somebody pray for me.

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  • Reply justnickk September 20, 2019 at 7:20 pm

    "I can appreciate the storyline" lmaooo

  • Reply G-ana Hernandez September 21, 2019 at 4:25 am

    Shane I appreciate curvy woman 😂😂😂😂👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • Reply Rose September 24, 2019 at 1:48 am

    I don't like the term "gold star" for gay and lesbian folk. As a lesbian who has had sex with men, I just think it's a weird kind of gatekeeping. I'm not any less gay because of it and "gold star" gays are not any better than me. Idk, maybe that's just me

  • Reply Madhatter September 30, 2019 at 11:13 pm

    No it’s not ok to be gay

  • Reply Cedar Poplar October 3, 2019 at 1:59 am

    You young folks are very weird

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