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August 28, 2019

– ENTJ girlfriend. That is what we’re talking about today. What’s up my name is
Franklin Jamerson III, and you’re here at another
MBTI girlfriend video. So we’ve been talking
about what personality type is gonna make the best girlfriend
for an INFJ guy like me. So we’re gonna take a
look today at the ENTJ. I hope that’s what I said earlier. Now look INFJs are
supposedly the rarest type. ENTJs are the second rarest. So they say. So to get an idea of what kind
of lady I’m looking at here, who are some famous ENTJ females? Okay so we’ve got Adele. Very cool, I could be dating Adele man. I think after this video, let’s see if we can make it happen. Princess Leia? C’mon man, very cool. Margaret Thatcher, the Iron Lady. now who wouldn’t want
that as a girlfriend? I said that like, who wouldn’t want that? And FDR. FDR is a very good ENTJ girlfriend. Potentially. Now first as always,
we’ve gotta take a look at and
see what the strengths and weaknesses are of the ENTJ, especially when it comes to relationships, ’cause I don’t wanna go in without knowing the risk. “ENTJ strengths: verbally fluent.” This is one of the most
important things that I need in a girlfriend. Is she fluent? Can she speak? Does she have a vocabulary
above 200 words? Does she know how to use
the future perfect tense? “Able to leave relationships
without looking back.” Very good to know. Very good to know. Good to know that you’ll
leave me without looking back. (sad piano music) “Able to turn conflict situations
into positive lessons.” That kind of sounds like she’ll just talk down to me all the time and be like, “You see what happens, “you see this argument we’re having about “whether I’m right or you’re right? “Really this is a learning
experience for you, Frank James. “The lesson is don’t argue with me.” “Able to dole out discipline.” (laughs) Why is that? Why is that in the relationship section? Oh, well I guess. Okay, enough of the strengths. Sometimes it’s better to
know the weaknesses going in. “Their enthusiasm for verbal debates can “make them appear argumentative.” Well, I’ve got news for you. If you like to engage in debates, you are argumentative. You are literally engaging, in an argument, if you’re debating. Am I right? Am I right? I’m debating this point right here. Ah, she’ll probably win anyway. “Tendency to be challenging
and confrontational.” It’s sort of like, they appear argumentative, which would seem to indicate they’re not, but then the next line is they’re challenging
and confrontational. “May have difficulty
expressing love and affection, “sometimes seeming
awkward or inappropriate.” That is actually something
that I would appreciate. Someone who doesn’t really want to express affection very much cause it’s like, this is awkward. Do we have to do this? Do I have to hold your hand? This is kind of weird. “Can be overpowering and
intimidating to others.” Well, as you know, I like
an intimidating lady. “Tendency to make hasty decisions.” Well, I hope they make a hasty decision to date me. Okay, what does have to say? All right, so we’ve got this chick. She’s looking, she’s pointing at a board. She’s like, “You guys,
you gotta go to that dot. (intense orchestral music) “You gotta blow it up and
you gotta go into that dot, “kill everyone who’s there.” And here’s a date idea
for your ENTJ lady friend. Take her on a rowboat, wear a pirate hat, or is that like a pharaoh’s hat? I can’t really tell. Yeah, the fish will be smiling, they’ll be singing along with you. You could grab one out of the water. “Here’s dinner honey.” Man, Carrie Fisher was,
she was good-looking man. Should we see if YouTube wants
to take a commercial break? All right, of course the truth is often told in humor, so what we’ve gotta do is head over to MBTI memes, on Reddit, and we’ve gotta see what those people, what the memesters, have
to say about ENTJ’s. In the mind of an ENTJ. Extroverted thinking:
Be even more efficient. Introverted intuition: We are
already at peak efficiency. Extroverted thinking:
Find a way or make one. Extroverted sensing: I’m going, I’m going. TE: No FI is allowed here. Do not feel. This is what I like about the ENTJ’s. No feeling is allowed
here just don’t do it. Instead, smash a chair. Smash like on this video. Grow a handlebar mustache. That might be a deal breaker. I think I’ve discovered one
of my deal breakers guys. No women who aren’t fluent, no women with a handlebar mustache. I’m really, I’m really, narrowing it down. Someone posted: “Give me some ENTJ memes. “Thanks in advance.” “We’re all too afraid to.” “He told us to do it though.” The intimidation just comes through in these few words and that enough is intimidating just knowing an ENTJ’s fury was behind it and that
if you posted a meme that he didn’t like, or she, it’s probably a woman,
probably my future girlfriend. Probably would come down on you with the force of Thor’s hammer. INFP: I’m depressed. ENTJ: Then stop. My goodness, what an idea. Why didn’t I think if that? You know, I think it would
be good for me to have someone around to just say, just stop. You don’t feel good, just stop. Someone: You’re wrong becau. TJ: Are you delusional? Wait no, Dr. Phil. Are you delusional? Do you suffer from a mental illness? Was that a good Dr. Phil? Probably not. You are stupid. Now look, you are stupid
and you need to go to the ranch. When you’re an ENTJ and you
haven’t told anyone about your 10 year business
plan in 3.657 seconds. Man, look at those veins. Yeah, I think that’s another deal breaker. I think, this has been a
very elucidating experience because if a girl has a really veiny head, call me shallow but. Now to really get to the bottom of this we’ve gotta look at the
ENTJ girlfriend meme, by Holly Hayes, we’ve
just gotta look at it. But first, let me tell
you really quick about these subscriptions
boxes they got on Amazon. Really cool, 25% off your first box. This one is jumping out to me. The Premium Adventurer Box. Do you like to get eat? Get this box 25% off your first order. Check it out, link in the description. So first of all, the ENTJ girlfriend, she is pretty plainly dressed. She’s in all brown. It’s like a brown
palette, favorite color is probably brown, that’s
what I’m getting from this. “I went to my job interview today “and for some reason I
ended up hiring them.” This. (laughs) She is so domineering. She just goes in there and
they’re like, they ask her, “What are your strengths and weaknesses?” and she’s like, “Actually,
I was gonna ask you “a bunch of questions. “What are you doing
here with this business? “What is your plan? “What would you say?” “Voldemort did nothing wrong.” Someone had to say it. So what? He killed some people, he gave a little baby
a scar on the forehead. What’s the big deal? “Forces unwanted help
and life advice on you. “Gets mad because you didn’t follow “their unasked for instructions.” The ENTJ, they’re gonna
wanna just tell you, this is how life is. This is what you gotta do but look, you’re doing it wrong, let me help you figure things out because clearly, you are mentally deficient
and you need someone to help you. You basically need a caregiver. I’m it. You know when Voldemort
killed all those people, or whatever, cause I haven’t
really read Harry Potter so I don’t know. It was probably because he was trying to give them advice. They didn’t care. He was trying to tell Harry, “Hey yo, “yo Harry, yo buddy let me give
you some advice about life.” And you’re like, “No I don’t want it.” Bam. Scar on the forehead. Lighting bolt scar in the forehead. “Being a feminist doesn’t
mean that I have to actually “get along with other women, silly.” Yeah, I can imagine an ENTJ girlfriend is gonna be so combative
that the other ladies, they’re not really gonna
enjoy being around her. So, then I get her all to myself. You see how it works? It works out fine. “There’s no i in teamwork,
but there is a me, “and that’s exactly who
you’re going to listen to “if you value your miserable experience.” Smiley face. Yeah, but there’s really only a me if you kind of like,
take a couple letters out and rearrange them. She is so advanced intellectually, that she can do these anagrams like that. “Oh, anon. “That’s not how this works. “That’s not how any of this works. “I don’t call you daddy. “You call me daddy.” Okay, okay, I see how it’s going here. I see how it’s gonna be. “I couldn’t help but notice
that my lack of affection “makes you sad, so I out together “this PowerPoint presentation “to explain why I love you, anon.” Well, it’s a bit academic,
but I’ll allow it. Especially if the
presentation has some cool animations and stuff. Some typewriter sound effects
as the text is coming up. Man. That is very impressive. I learn so much better with
a PowerPoint presentation. The knowledge retention and comprehension is through the roof when I’ve got a wall of text in front of me, while someone reads it in a dead voice. Frank do you have something
against PowerPoints? No, I don’t I love them. “Resting b-word face intensifies.” Yeah, look at that face. That is. (laughs) So there’s that, thanks for watching. If you wanna see a whole playlist
of MBTI girlfriend videos, click or tap the screen right there. To see my last video, click right here. Make sure you subscribe,
hit the bell button, all that good stuff. ‘Til next time, stay cool and attractive. (calming electronic music)

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  • Reply Frank James March 22, 2019 at 5:55 am

    which 👏 one 👏 next 👏

  • Reply Libra Hoshino June 24, 2019 at 4:55 pm

    My ENTJ ex was SO ENTJ, he broke up with me over the phone after 8 years together (engaged 4 of those years) when we'd only seen each other the day before. He did make a point many times that to him emotions were a sign of weakness to him though so, I guess he did the best he could. (He probably viewed me as weak, which just amplifies how I'm better off without.) He wasn't too concerned about how his cowardice would scar me for life as a result but hey, we INFJs are tough cookies.

    Lessons learned…
    Never ignore your gut if you think something's awry.
    Don't accept all the blame when a relationship fails, because it takes two to tango.
    Emotions are not a sign of weakness. They help us communicate. Some of us worse than others.

  • Reply ilkldme June 25, 2019 at 1:01 pm

    Mallory Archer – best ENTJ ever.

  • Reply Marisa Bond June 26, 2019 at 2:20 am

    When they say, “you’re so sexy and hot, i just want to cuddle with you!”

    Me depending on the man, I’m just trying to be nice: (in my awkward voice) “oh yeah….me too…”…..😬…I feel insanely weird/funny just even talking like that…


    When I’m already annoyed from that kind of talking and I’m in that DGAF attitude, “okay uh yeah we don’t need to talk about it, let’s just wait till we see each other and we’ll do all that what you just said…” 😂😂😂

  • Reply Erin Laemmle June 26, 2019 at 4:27 am

    We're getting so focused on the details here meanwhile mankind is going extinct! With the bad environment! 😂

  • Reply keikan0407 June 27, 2019 at 1:40 pm

    The dating scene looks like the one in The Little Mermaid animated movie, with singing fishes.

  • Reply crashedwin July 2, 2019 at 10:38 pm

    Dont do it FJ. She looks awesome from the outside, but you will be her bitch.

    My ENTJ ex called me her girlfriend and told me she had a bigger dick than me. She was right

  • Reply sky peters July 3, 2019 at 3:07 am

    I fluctuate between ENTJ and ESTJ and it drives me crazy because I don’t know which videos to watch. I think of relationships and there will be lists involved

  • Reply Savannah B. July 3, 2019 at 2:39 pm

    Is this why its so damn hard for me to keep friends and relationships? Fuckk lmao

  • Reply Melissa Phillis July 4, 2019 at 11:28 pm

    Infj, and I have an entj husband. Other than being extremely aware of where he will be in 5 years (So therefore I will be too), and a little micromanaging, and having a surgery scheduled to remove his phone from his hand and ear (just kidding, I would have scheduled that for him) he's a really beautiful soul. No bad intentions reside in this man, he truly is a wonderful person, just has a hard time with my feeling perspective. If you can learn to break issues down into logical conclusions, put information into very short pockets of time so you can be heard,and be a very independent person, ENTJ men can be great for us. But,you do need a higher Faith,because you will never feel completely heard or understood, but the reliability of them always coming home to you is real.

  • Reply artistmind09 July 10, 2019 at 5:27 am

    Crazy because I am at the cusp between entj and enfj. In the professional world and in my career I am definitely an entj. But in my relationship I am an enfj lol

  • Reply Gabe Y. Youngblood July 16, 2019 at 2:49 am

    You mean you're an INFJ and haven't read harry potter. I smell a mistype

  • Reply Fia Royy July 16, 2019 at 9:27 am

    My dad is an extreme ENTJ. Yes, he ALWAYS give some advices that I don't need and gets angry whenever I didn't do his advices. The difference is, my dad's feeling is easily hurt after debating, like any topic, with me. Well, it's very hard to talk with him. Surprisingly, when I took MTBI test last month, and I got ENTJ too (-_-). Yeah, I understand now why we never get along as a parent and child. ENTJ-ENTJ: bad companion…

  • Reply Ravi Singh July 17, 2019 at 9:11 pm

    next – estj.

  • Reply Linda Sun July 18, 2019 at 5:31 pm

    Another hilarious video! I LOLed many times while watching it.

  • Reply Christina Aldana July 18, 2019 at 11:26 pm

    Thanks for the awesome content, and thank you for having a great sense of humor! I relate on so many levels on many of your videos. Good to know I’m not alone on feeling like an alien

  • Reply Edixa SanchezPacheco July 19, 2019 at 9:18 am

    Your videos are very informative and funny. I binge on your videos!

  • Reply pinkglazed police July 19, 2019 at 3:39 pm

    what’s that intimidating about us? that’s stupid. if I get angry at someone I’ll make it obvious. and when I say I’m not angry I really mean it 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • Reply Dona 4 Him July 20, 2019 at 4:17 am

    At 0:59 FDR as a "girlfriend"?! Are you bisexual?

  • Reply Stacey Bee July 20, 2019 at 7:22 pm

    Nope. Debate is to help stretch mental muscles and improve a thought process. ENTJ here and love to debate because I love for others to give me another perspective.

  • Reply Pedro Felipe July 21, 2019 at 3:00 pm

    Perfectly accurate

  • Reply Aude Seynt Martin July 22, 2019 at 4:03 pm

    What about the Iit work the same. I hope not. Carry is an absolute nightmare of a ball breaker. Do you guys over the Atlantic need so much world domination. As you say Frank stay cool and attractive. Need more of that over there

  • Reply Sarah Khan July 24, 2019 at 5:22 am

    I took the personality test and ended up as a ENTJ but I’m not as aggressive as it sounds. Yes I take control in my career but in a relationship I’m not over powering and controlling. ENTJ really only applies to my goals in life. Everything else I’m easy going and flexible with.

    I’m getting the impression that I’m a mixture of a few types of personalities 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • Reply Dune July 27, 2019 at 3:10 pm

    Typewriting sound effects 🤣🙌🏽

  • Reply Batsy's Gone Bats! July 27, 2019 at 5:45 pm

    As an ENTJ i would date the hell out of you

  • Reply shortstuff 64 July 31, 2019 at 10:15 pm

    ENTJ here and agree with most of what you said!! Too freaking funny 😂🤣 🤘.. Thought it was just my hot Italian temper!!

  • Reply Amy Hagen August 1, 2019 at 12:22 am

    ENTJ here 👋🏻

  • Reply BikesNight August 1, 2019 at 4:21 pm

    cant figure her out

  • Reply Kari Castañeda August 1, 2019 at 11:12 pm

    Damnn, spot on, one of my friends is an entj woman, and i love her to death, but her "lack of feelings" gives me the cringee. Also i love Holly Hayes, she makes so many insights!! Every time she realizes about something new she post it on the enfp & intj fb group,and tumblr for what i see. Have you tried the infj groups on fb? They 're cool!. – enfp.

  • Reply Here To Make Friends August 3, 2019 at 4:33 am

    Not really sure where Frank landed on this as fas as being either for or against this match. I've found it to be my most successful pairing with any personality type. I'm an ENTJ woman who is happily engaged to an INFJ man. We've lived together for 4.5 years. And yeah, I am usually the one opting for the more rational ideas, but it totally works for us overall. I help bring him out of his shell, and he calms me down and brings me down to earth. Loving my INFJ dude and how incredibly intellectual he is too.

  • Reply Cheryl Jeffali August 3, 2019 at 8:51 pm

    INFJ here with ENTJ husband.
    I really don't like to think about money…or even care about it except I have to eat and wear some kind of clothes and air-conditioning is nice.
    He takes care of that, so that's nice.
    It helps that I can take criticism, because yes, you will have alot of things that they think needs fixing and you will never really live up to their high standards. Do you care? There will be days you care, but is it something you are willing to cope with?
    You won't win a fight… Or debate unless you are right and they have triple checked that your right. it just won't happen that often. Let that go, just go pray or meditate or something ,it will work out.
    Let them be right but enjoy those interesting thinking conversations and debates and if they trigger you just go to your inner world to lick your wounds. They did not take it personally.
    They "show" you they love you instead of saying it which is kind of reassuring. If you have a good self esteem, it should not be a problem, ok so, honestly, it bites sometimes. But, they take care of alot for you, so you can do your thing and they give you the time and space to do that. My guy does have some feeling tendencies, and I have some thinking tendencies,so that helps. He can be occasionally tender, but when he is in working and acheiving mode, that thinking side takes over.
    Over all it's not a bad match. I like his honesty, trustworthyness and consistency. And finally, if you like to be dominated in the bedroom, an ENTJ is for you. Makes up for the criticism…just sayin 😋.

  • Reply Vivian Madeline August 4, 2019 at 7:55 am

    My ENTJ mom birthed an INFJ me and it’s been excruciating err.. I mean it’s been a lifelong learning process

  • Reply Ismael Tejeda August 5, 2019 at 12:44 am

    "I can't help but notice that my lack of affection makes you sad, so i put together this powerpoint presentation to explain why i love you, anon"

    I know a girl who did this to her boyfriend, she is no longer my friend for obvious reasons.

  • Reply Kiesha Spencer August 5, 2019 at 9:40 pm

    I'm an INFJ and I do not like ENTJ's. 😅

  • Reply Meagan Reid August 9, 2019 at 1:07 am

    Based on this video, I am now pretty convinced that my last ex boyfriend was an ENTJ. He was constantly looking for an argument, but would insist he just enjoyed "stimulating conversation," he would make little comments about things he didn't like about me as if he expected a change, and he would absolutely blow up when he got stressed out or if the place was a bit messy.

    I'm not saying y'all are terrible, but as an INFJ, that shit was a bad match 😂

  • Reply Karolina Sowinska August 9, 2019 at 10:57 pm

    I'm an ENTJ, and my boyfriend is an INFJ. If you're wondering how it might work for an INFJ: they feel like they are helping someone to achieve their goals with emotional support, they have someone who gets their ideas via Ni – Ni connection (but they might not have the full ENTJ's attention/they might be rushed by an ENTJ in a conversation to get to the point). I guess ultimately, they are with someone who can take care of themselves (and of the INFJ too)… Now from an ENTJ woman's standpoint, INFJs are just so kind and loyal – it's good to have someone like that after a long day of trying to conquer the world 🙂

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  • Reply BotRazmic August 10, 2019 at 11:05 pm

    'Verbally fluent'

    I laughed so hard XD

  • Reply A.Krishna August 11, 2019 at 5:12 pm

    im intj….dad is entj….can u imagine our arguments…

  • Reply Larissa Ashton August 13, 2019 at 8:22 pm

    I am an ENTJ girl with an INFP girlfriend and it's the funniest thing because she always wants to talk about her feelings and stuff so that we can "have good communication".

    I still love her anyway ❤️

  • Reply Kiedyś to było August 14, 2019 at 9:44 pm

    I wish there was a place where people can meet other people based on MBTI personality types. As an ENTJ female I always wanted to have a debate with other ENTJ female. Imagine having a discussion with yourself…

  • Reply Rokaya Ahmed August 16, 2019 at 1:11 am

    Y'all need to chillax, us entjs are human just like you. I'm very affectionate, and I express love in many ways unlike how people stereotype us. It's really simple, because mbti is a very vague way to classify someone's personality so yall could calm down with the "entj are cold, heartless creatures that the one word that isn't in their vocabulary is emotions" that is very untrue and lemme tell you, I'm a soft Bubba and I love being a caregiver to almost everyone I know. If y'all need someone to help you out hit me up anytime, of course after finishing your argument of whether entj can feel or not.

  • Reply Cyn Ho August 19, 2019 at 1:06 am

    Nooooow wait a cotton picker minute! You said in the last video you shouldn’t let MBTI gage who you date and in this one you say you don’t want to go in without knowing the risks! WHICH IS IT? 🧐

  • Reply Cyn Ho August 19, 2019 at 1:07 am

    Noooo, debates are discussions not arguments. Debates are fun. They sharpen your thinking. Arguments cause stress / anxiety.

  • Reply Cyn Ho August 19, 2019 at 1:10 am

    ENTJ don’t like emotion from anyone but those in their family, but they love it when people are open and brutally honest about the problems in their life. It makes them think they can trust you more … or have more to hold over your head if need be. 😒😒😒

  • Reply Cyn Ho August 19, 2019 at 1:12 am

    You’re shallow

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  • Reply aoitennyo August 22, 2019 at 6:45 am

    My ENTJ cousin and I get along SUPER well. I’m not sure if I could handle someone like that romantically, however. I think he’d get fed up with my lack of “doing” and I’d be a bit ???? about how out of touch he is with his emotions (and how damned quickly he makes assumptions/judgements about people he’s just met). Not that everything is ~feelings~, but sometimes ya gotta chill with the punching everything in the face with Te.

  • Reply Millions ofMusings August 23, 2019 at 12:58 am

    Yes she’ll win

  • Reply Alicia B August 23, 2019 at 9:00 pm

    I tested as an entj. I was like this test seems inefficient, can't be right because I'm an empath. Then I watched this video. Shit. Is it possible to be an entj then feel the pain of all the people you conquered? Talk about cursed…

  • Reply ricky martinez August 24, 2019 at 11:55 pm

    Sounds kinky

  • Reply Therecis Owl August 25, 2019 at 3:15 pm

    ENTJ here but there is a difference between being argumentative and enjoying debate

  • Reply Therecis Owl August 25, 2019 at 3:19 pm

    Interview portion is on point

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  • Reply synthetictomorrow August 28, 2019 at 11:33 am

    The mbti community w/ the other personalities: I love you. So gorgeous. You gorgeous person

    The mbti community with entj: YOU FUCKING DONKEY

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