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9 Tips to be a Better Leader – Leadership and Management Skills and Qualities

August 15, 2019


hey guys practically psychology here and today i’m going to be teaching you some tips on how to be a great leader so one of the biggest misconceptions about leadership is that it is something that is innate many people think that leaders are born this way and they don’t have to spend time and effort to develop their leadership capabilities this cannot be any further from the truth by implementing the 90 words of leadership into your life you’ll be able to develop your potential as a leader earn more money in your career and earn even more respect from your peers and be more fulfilled in your personal life so here are nine tips on how to be a better leader tip number one integrity integrity is the foundation of all leadership people are not willing to follow someone whose actions are unethical or unjust imagine you are working for a boss who despite your great efforts and sacrifices for the company gives the job promotion to employee that has been slacking off why would you follow such a leader on the other hand when we operate from integrity regain the trust of the people we work closely with trust amongst team members is one of the most accurate predictors of success and it all starts with the leaders integrity then the team members can reciprocate the behavior of the leader and create a favorable atmosphere so that everyone can benefit that number two is that actions speak louder than words a great leader should lead by example not delegate something to his followers not willing to do himself during World War one general george s patton led his troops by walking in front of the tanks despite the risk of being easily shot by the enemies martin luther king jr mahatma gandhi were all great leaders who stood up and led by example you’re not a true leader if you are not brave enough to take the first leap practice doing three small things were afraid of every day to get familiar with being uncomfortable when the time comes to take charge you’ll have built the resilience and confidence abilities your friends or classmates will then see you as a powerful gifted leader while you are enjoying the fruits of your labor tip number 3 be persuasive the third secret to making people follow you as a leader is to become more persuasive persuasion is too broad of a topic to cover in a single point so you should definitely spend a lot of time studying it because it will skyrocket your success one powerful thing you can do to 10 times your persuasion when you ask someone to do something for you is to frame it so that they see the benefit they get from doing a particular thing if you can persuade your buddy to come work out with you it would be wiser to show him what he will get increased confidence longer life and girls looking at him right you’ve been saying that you feel bored or unmotivated to go to the gym alone and you need a partner tip number four is to make people feel important the billionaire Mary Kay ashes secret to building your empire would imagine that every person she met had a sign on their forehead that said make me feel important leadership is not about the leader it’s about the followers according to her this is a secret to succeed in life but how do i make people feel important genuinely ask them questions about their interests passions concerns and other things don’t forget to praise and thank them on the smallest achievement never condemn offer constructive feedback and that will help them improve their number five is depraved in public and correct and private one of the worst thing the leader can do is to condemn someone for a mistake in front of his or her colleagues now you’ve ever had friends over and your parents got mad at you for something you probably felt like this not only will violate the make people feel important tool but you will lose your respect and credibility as a leader of course we can all agree that mistake should be paid attention to and corrected in order to not be repeated but here’s a framework on how to give proper criticism so the person that you were criticizing two things that they do well before criticizing them and then one after the criticism this is called sandwich approach let’s say that your colleague or business partner is 20 minutes late every morning first you talk to him in private and start with the praise then you include the criticism and again finishers of praise James the customer service you provide for our client is really outstanding the fact that you’re late for work every morning is a problem for us because our team and clients need your exceptional skills and knowledge at that time of day just like that the number six is to take responsibility for your mistakes leader is not supposed to be perfect or not make any mistakes making mistakes is completely normal unless you try to cover them up deny them or make somebody else responsible for them a great leader earns respect by admitting his or her mistakes and learning the lesson vulnerability is a sign of leadership strength it is mistakenly viewed as a weakness at number seven is a have a clear goal or a vision successful companies reach consensus on all of the common goals from top to the bottom of the hierarchy even the most brilliant strategy will fail if such consensus has not received after you have set a clear achievable and yet at the same time challenging goal as a leader and communicated them a call Emily to all of your followers were bound to achieve them despite the University another tip to achieve goals be it for yourself for the organization you’re in is to write them on paper people with written goals are 51-percent more likely to achieve the goals then without yet only three out of a hundred volts actually write their goals down according to a study in the UK number eight is to be knowledgeable so this was the first tip and how to think like dr. house being knowledgeable as a leader is crucial in order to feel confident and gain the respect of your followers saying that you don’t know how to do something and asking for advice is fine but when this happens regularly you start to lose your leadership credibility you still have to have that technical information always seek out new information and try to better yourself as a person this will inevitably make you a better leader and more valuable as a person that number nine is to surround yourself with great people there’s a saying that you were the sum average of the five people you spend most of your time with no matter how great the leader is he or she will always be limited by the potential of his employees let go of the old friends or relatives that are holding a batter has a whole bunch of negativity in their life it’s ok to help them but if they keep dragging down you should probably let them go surround yourself with epic people that will challenge you to make a stronger version of yourself Andrew Carnegie attributed his success to being surrounded with people way smarter than he was in putting the brainpower to youth become one of the wealthiest men in the world i was Thomas Edison able to invent the light bulb without formal education he simply use the brand of highly educated physicist and people that excelled academically in combination with his perseverance he was able to add more than 1,000 patents to his name I hope you guys enjoyed this video and learn something and if there was just one gold nugget you got out of this video leave a like below if you want more videos like this subscribe thanks for watching

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100 Comments

  • Reply Chase Goodfellow January 26, 2017 at 8:05 pm

    Make a how to be persuasive video

  • Reply Roi Lion January 26, 2017 at 10:30 pm

    Awesome

  • Reply Sadiq Ali January 27, 2017 at 1:54 am

    wont work in real life

  • Reply Dallin B January 27, 2017 at 2:33 am

    The background noise is actually painful to my ears. I couldn't finish the video. Please don't use it again.

  • Reply Colton Maguran January 27, 2017 at 3:09 am

    🙁 I miss the old music

  • Reply Randika Peiris January 27, 2017 at 4:39 am

    Awesome video, please try to decrease the speed of your talk because the people who are not fluent in English can't understand. I'm sharing ismonoff & your video with other friends who are not coming from English speaking countries.

  • Reply LAITH January 27, 2017 at 8:46 am

    talk fast and drowing fast wish u slowdown thanks

  • Reply Tiago Campany January 28, 2017 at 1:22 am

    well, the sandwich effect is not as effective as this video claims to be. usually what happens is that the person only pays attention to the compliments and "turns off" when receiving the warning.

  • Reply KAJensen January 29, 2017 at 6:01 pm

    The idea of using the compliment-Condemn-Compliment sandwich goes against what I remember learning from "How to win friends and Influence people". (Am I not remembering Carnegie's teaching correctly?)
    However, keep up the good work, and I will keep watching with anticipation!

  • Reply Alfie Nicholson January 30, 2017 at 11:07 am

    When someone says, like a boss it would actually mean just paying someone else to do it

  • Reply Alfie Nicholson January 30, 2017 at 11:09 am

    How about how to get noticed, like in school I'm the guy that just feels invisible

  • Reply Rasmus D January 30, 2017 at 3:37 pm

    Please change the music back to what it was. This is very unsoothing.

  • Reply Johan Khadafi Muazd January 31, 2017 at 7:41 am

    you speak to fast!

  • Reply RonHaVHCM January 31, 2017 at 1:03 pm

    To add to the make people feel important point, becoming friends with your subordinates allows you to better judge who is best equipped to handle specific jobs while being able to improve their mediocre points and avoiding their weaknesses.Also helps you make your subordinates better making your life easier while adding value to them. Everyone wins!

    Really being a leader is just about being able to bring out the best in others, just with more people while trying to achieve a common goal. We all have friends, and we all have ones we make better. We all also have goals. Leadership is just about combining these two.

  • Reply Sem Maricau February 1, 2017 at 8:17 am

    patton was WW2

  • Reply TheEnizeo February 1, 2017 at 10:41 pm

    Awesome video, thank you! 🙂

  • Reply Nahuel Medina February 2, 2017 at 3:53 am

    Pleasee, add subtitles! I could not understand it at all. Your videos are awesome. Greetings from Argentina.

  • Reply AfganasLT February 2, 2017 at 10:10 pm

    Did Thomas Edison actually invented something??

  • Reply Casper Kersten February 3, 2017 at 5:07 pm

    9 Tips (with timestamps):
    0:31 Integrity
    0:51 Actions speak louder than words
    1:42 Be persuasive
    2:15 Make people feel important
    2:45 Praise in public, correct in private
    3:43 Take responibility for your mistakes
    4:04 Have a clear goal
    4:43 Be knowledgeable
    5:10 Sourround yourself with great people

  • Reply Lim Jin En February 15, 2017 at 11:37 am

    Great video done! It's super useful for me!! 🙂

  • Reply JustinQ7 March 1, 2017 at 11:40 am

    Ive got to say, I love these videos. The only part that I dislike in this video would be the new music. I feel like the regular music really defines practical psychology, he's used it so much and linked so many of my emotions with the music through all the useful tips given 🙂

  • Reply Eduardo Yasuda March 8, 2017 at 2:17 pm

    ,

  • Reply Hayru Fetu March 9, 2017 at 8:29 pm

    I personaly dont like this sountrack

  • Reply Darrick Ayers March 14, 2017 at 1:56 am

    Edison stole from ppl but that another topic. Good video!! man I really learned a lot I will apply them at my job thanks ?

  • Reply Forever Loyal Bond-Slave Of Christ March 26, 2017 at 6:10 pm

    Slow down. Why do you speak as though you have to rush through this all. I hate when people speak like they wanna hurry up and be done talking. It's like your saying you dont really wanna talk to us. Like your heart's not really in it. Slow down. The world's not going anywhere.

  • Reply Maureen O’Connell April 4, 2017 at 9:28 am

    These are some really nice tips that a person can keep in mind in order to be an effective leader.

  • Reply Hassan Mujeeb April 21, 2017 at 5:15 pm

    Where is Quaid-E-AZAM!

  • Reply Uros Milasinovic SPD May 24, 2017 at 5:39 pm

    The Edison thing is called stealing…

  • Reply Amber-Louise Hennessy May 25, 2017 at 12:40 pm

    very good

  • Reply Cumvers June 4, 2017 at 3:18 pm

    I was a cellist section leader, and being in a position is horrible.

  • Reply Victor Ali June 27, 2017 at 1:30 pm

    Very general and practical advice. but thanks for the video lol

  • Reply Victor Rodriguez July 23, 2017 at 8:35 pm

    another doodle video sigh

  • Reply mason salt August 11, 2017 at 6:23 am

    I am a leader and I am on way up. The most important thing in the WAREHOUSING industry is "SURROUND YOURSELF WITH GREAT PEOPLE". Do no befriend shit workers or fuckers with bad attitudes. After I did that, I have excelled. I am 32 and being a productive warehouseman is not enough. Sometimes you have to go through difficult bridge burning with old compadres. It's worth it; who is number one? YOU.

  • Reply Elisaí Otero-Figueroa August 30, 2017 at 8:02 am

    I like the sandwich lol

  • Reply YouTubeer U September 12, 2017 at 10:06 am

    un très excellent vidéo, c'est très utile. merci à toi.

  • Reply balabomma ashok October 9, 2017 at 11:04 am

    thanks again

  • Reply Siddharth Kulkarni October 22, 2017 at 4:58 am

    Some good tips. But I would be wary of sugar-coated feedback. If it's 1-1 then it's OK to be direct and honest.

  • Reply Mike Hunt November 6, 2017 at 11:45 pm

    Patton did that in WW2.

  • Reply Kelvin Alvin November 7, 2017 at 10:43 am

    Thanks sso

  • Reply Yoyo Lee December 17, 2017 at 7:07 pm

    Thomas Edison used slaves to help reintroduce (not invent) ancient technology from Egypt. don't take my word for it, do your research

  • Reply Gerardo Sotelo January 9, 2018 at 7:09 am

    Actually Martin Luther king jr. Declined going on freedom rides

  • Reply Chidanand DBA January 24, 2018 at 3:20 pm

    spr

  • Reply Rafynow 73 February 20, 2018 at 2:56 pm

    Great video don’t stop ?

  • Reply Explainer Videos By Lauren March 4, 2018 at 10:12 pm

    Great video, very engaging

  • Reply chyeahmusic March 6, 2018 at 7:12 pm

    Very male-centric content, not impressed with the examples.

  • Reply Whittney Price March 8, 2018 at 12:54 am

    Great video. Thanks ?

  • Reply Purpose Creates Impact March 16, 2018 at 2:13 am

    Making people feel important is necessary because talented people will leave if you don't.

  • Reply IN CK March 27, 2018 at 2:37 am

    I absolutely loved this and found it helpful.

  • Reply David Mauney April 6, 2018 at 2:57 am

    You care about your troops more than yourself, snowflake.

  • Reply David Mauney April 6, 2018 at 2:58 am

    Mary Kay doesn't care about you. What a crappy example.

  • Reply Genevieve Barclay April 24, 2018 at 3:59 am

    sloowww down… team leadership is about communicatio skills. Hard to absorb info at a 100x rate lol

  • Reply Baby Grinch May 3, 2018 at 9:47 pm

    I hope this helps, I'm working towards a promotion

  • Reply Mohamad Omar ALBosaty May 16, 2018 at 12:42 am

    Luv it guys, shall watch u continously…be awesomely helpful to me guys….

  • Reply Koenig6611 May 16, 2018 at 11:26 am

    Almost like you’re reading right out of ‘How to Win Friends and Influence People’ by Dale Carnegie

  • Reply Legion Elite May 16, 2018 at 3:47 pm

    I was a DI in the AirForce auxillary for 4yrs and had to train 54+ cadets and teach them how to be a good leader..

    I learned that I wasn't such a great leader but my followers were teaching me how to meet their needs and it ultimately led to uniformity of the whole group…

  • Reply Eddie Chung May 17, 2018 at 4:01 am

    Great Video, love it!!!!

  • Reply Marius Van Niekerk May 23, 2018 at 8:48 am

    Very informative. Thank you

  • Reply Finding Medicine June 3, 2018 at 6:54 pm

    Thank you for taking the time to do this.

  • Reply Itz Fluid June 6, 2018 at 6:32 am

    XD the sad part is I’m here to learn how to lead a gaming team…. fml

  • Reply Krio Boys July 2, 2018 at 2:25 am

    Success starts with one Succ

  • Reply Brandy Watford July 24, 2018 at 12:04 pm

    I love this video!

  • Reply Demarcus Faulkner July 30, 2018 at 11:25 pm

    World war 2

  • Reply Demarcus Faulkner July 30, 2018 at 11:26 pm

    Patton lead that way in world war 2.

  • Reply Ruth Torrenegra August 10, 2018 at 1:51 pm

    Hi!! Thanks a lot for the tips! They’re simply outstanding. However, your voice pace is quite fast so it turns a bit annoying. Thus the great content in it loses its shine.

  • Reply Headhunter HRStrategyvn Cheryl Nguyen August 18, 2018 at 9:38 am

    Good tips

  • Reply Farah Ahmad August 20, 2018 at 9:52 pm

    I am autistic-is there hope for me?

  • Reply Raul Valenzuela Fregoso August 31, 2018 at 2:22 am

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  • Reply strategy show September 12, 2018 at 8:10 pm

    Our guest, Erich Schönleitner, puts it like this: First you need to follow, then you can lead. If you have not learned how to follow, then you are not a good leader. – If you're interested in what else he has to say about how to become a great leader or business advice, check out the link – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z4QtwBxaP1o&t=1s
    happy day!

  • Reply Dr. Sharon Johnson September 24, 2018 at 12:29 am

    Excellent information here. I love to talk about leadership as I believe that everything rise and fall with leadership. Subscribe to my channel for morehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_PH5rEsHIVc

  • Reply Entitled Thomas September 25, 2018 at 2:51 pm

    I am 14, I had read many leadership books, I already knew everything taught in this video, but this is really good, thanks for making it to help people out.

  • Reply Amber Jones September 26, 2018 at 4:00 pm

    This is an excellent video. I use most of these on a daily basis. I also found a couple I can't wait to try out!

  • Reply Bruce Rushenas September 30, 2018 at 11:35 pm

    Loved the short video

  • Reply MarLAnd October 5, 2018 at 7:18 pm

    Lol your born a leader im a leaders all my friends and my parent's say i am so yeah

  • Reply Dima Ryshkevich October 14, 2018 at 2:56 pm

    I never comment on videos but I like your educational and entertaining videos. I watch something educational every morning as I eat my breakfast and I love your channel

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  • Reply Jitsu Blue October 23, 2018 at 8:17 pm

    Great Video… Please research The Edison portion though. He is NOT a good example of a leader. Davy, Warren de la Rue, Swan's work on the light-bulb all predate Edison by years. He may have made improvements (or did some of the scientist working for him…) but Edison=bad example as a leader or inventor (and if integrity is your #1 topic… then that even makes the case for the removal of Edison stronger)

  • Reply HiFive Jo November 7, 2018 at 4:21 am

    I like the "Sandwich Approach" terminology. I always just thought Kiss, Slap, Kiss. Hey good job on this and that but this one thing is very lacking. Here's why it's important to fix it and how I think you'll be able to. Also, I'm here to help. Keep up the great work on this and that and let me know if you continue to struggle with what we've discussed, I have faith in you, now go out there and show me what you can really do!

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    Can anyone please recommend me a book or two on leadership / management?

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  • Reply Rachel Lee January 12, 2019 at 8:07 pm

    That is essentially important…. Providing positive feedback when being a critec.

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    Yes Lord, toxic friends, aqaintances and family are being kicked out this year!!!!!!!!

  • Reply blah blah January 16, 2019 at 8:18 pm

    This is golden condensed information. Several of these I was already aware of. It's unfortunate that even though we've known a lot of these for a long time very few leaders follow them because they think they know better and constantly fail. The key is "influencing" them to consider the idea that they might be wrong and then directing them to this video with an open mind. Very very difficult with most so-called leadership.

  • Reply Rossy's January 21, 2019 at 8:08 am

    you lost me when you praised thomas edison…what a douchebag

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    this is very help full thank you for the video please make more if you can

  • Reply Dee Monroe February 7, 2019 at 4:04 pm

    Did you notice that men were portrayed as leaders 2:1 when compared to women in this presentation? Just an observation of the obstacles women face in leadership bias and its subtle discrimination.

  • Reply SSvoncrackfox February 20, 2019 at 8:20 am

    What I took away from this video. Good leaders give hi-fives

  • Reply GitfiddleMike February 23, 2019 at 1:06 am

    Very idealistic. Completely inaccurate and unrealistic.

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  • Reply Christian Dale San Diego March 6, 2019 at 5:39 am

    This helps a whole lot. Thank you.

  • Reply Kim Martin May 7, 2019 at 5:37 pm

    The speaker is talking way to fast in this video. Slow it down so the topic can be absorbed

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    How to practice these

  • Reply Jerid58 May 23, 2019 at 12:44 am

    Nice vid. Quick but informative.

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  • Reply Tim Stating the Obvious July 9, 2019 at 8:47 pm

    Great point in Tip 5: Praise in public – correct in private. All too often leaders forget to check their own emotions and feeling and lack EQ and damage their character by punishing or correcting someone in public instead of private. Its ok to disagree but definitely need to ensure private matters are kept private. I liked the video.

  • Reply Cyber Mixologist August 2, 2019 at 6:12 pm

    This 9 steps to manipulation lol .Kid go back to the drawing boarding

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