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6 Reasons ENFP and INFJ Fall In Love.

October 17, 2019

6 Reasons Why ENFP and INFJ Fall In Love. Why do ENFPs like INFJs? According to David Keirsey, author of “Please
Understand Me”, Rationals and Idealists get along well due to their shared preference
for intuition. By Keirsey’s estimation, fellow intuitives
get along because there is better understanding and communication between them. As idealists, the INFJ and ENFP are on the
same wavelength in terms of their mutual fondness for new possibilities and quest for fulfillment. They share many similarities but also a number
of distinct differences. These contrasting qualities help draw INFJ
and ENFP together and make them alluring in each other’s eyes. These two types have a good chance at hitting
it off and can potentially form a relationship that is long lasting and satisfying. Here are 6 reasons why ENFP and INFJ are good
for each other. 1. INFJs Are Great Listeners. INFJs are attentive and they love the way
the ENFP mind works. They are a great audience to the ENFP who
almost always has something amusing and humorous to say. ENFPs can be chatty but they aren’t glib
and also have the capacity to enthrall their INFJ partner with surprisingly deep and poignant
observations about life. INFJs tend to be more quietly observant, internalizing
their perceptions rather than verbalizing them the way ENFPs do. It is not always easy for INFJs to articulate
with words what they think or feel and so they appreciate that ENFPs are able to express
themselves so openly and without reservation.. 2. INFJ and ENFP Both Prize Deep Emotional Connection. INFJ people can often feel a sense of loneliness. Not for lack of friendships and social interaction
but because they feel “out of place” and not truly understood by the people around
them. Although INFJs are warm and friendly with
almost everyone, there is a significant portion of themselves that is withheld and they desperately
hold out for the special person with whom they can share it with. At the same time, INFJ’s intuitive insight
into people make it relatively easy for them to understand others and they tend to see
the best in the people they love (faults and all). INFJ likely appreciates the interest and effort
ENFP shows in trying to understand and decode the INFJ enigma. ENFPs have the ability and willingness to
‘read’ and comprehend the INFJ like few can and this makes INFJs feel more comfortable
and in sync as a couple. ENFP also values the sense of unconditional
love, support and acceptance they receive from INFJ. 3. Both INFJ and ENFP Have Rich Fantasy Lives. As idealist types, both the INFJ and ENFP
are predisposed to harboring an inner world that has a life of it’s own. Their wandering minds are prone to flights
of fancy where they glimpse visions of the life they’d like to live or the future they’d
like to create. They are both hopeless romantics with a tendency
to idealize and idolize the people they become enamored with. Coming together to create the ENFP and INFJ
love story, these two will no doubt find in each other a possible soulmate with whom they
can indulge and live out some of their most passionate fantasies. 4. INFJ and ENFP Complement Each Other. INFJs and ENFPs are complementary opposites. They share the same cognitive preferences
but of opposite attitudes. This is primarily why they are able to relate
to one another so well. However, while the INFJ favors structure and
orderliness in how they engage with the outside world, the ENFP prefers spontaneity and variety. This Judging, Perceiving dynamic in addition
to the extrovert and introvert dynamic is likely to prove beneficial in balancing out
each other’s strengths and weaknesses. INFJ and ENFP can learn a lot from each other. ENFP’s lack of interest in organization
is bound to create a deficit in their lives that an INFJ may be able to fill. INFJs are conscientious and tend to be better
than ENFPs at keeping schedules and following day-to-day routines. They don’t mind helping scatterbrained ENFP
with chores and time management. So long as they know ENFP appreciates them
for it, INFJ likely won’t be bitter or feel taken for granted. They take pleasure in being of service to
people they love and this often comes in the form of advice and constructive criticism. ENFPs on the other hand have a light-hearted
and laid back perspective. They can help the INFJ to loosen up, laugh
and not take themselves so seriously. ENFPs can also get the INFJ to think more
boldly and introduce fun ideas the INFJ would normally not consider. 5. ENFP and INFJ Communication. Communication is vital to any relationship,
be it with friends, family or significant others. Fortunately, the ENFP INFJ couple shares a
similar language which makes understanding one another very smooth and organic. This is not to say that they won’t have
their share of disagreements, and misunderstandings, but when there is an issue, it can typically
be resolved because both the ENFP and INFJ have the ability to accommodate and consider
each other’s perspective in order to reach a happy medium. When ENFP and INFJ interact, they are attune
to each other’s shifting moods and feelings and both the ENFP and INFJ have the ability
to detect when something is upsetting their partner. As feeling types, they are able to provide
the type of consolation that is preferred by feeling types – a compassionate ear and
a shoulder to cry on. ENFP INFJ conversation will likely be characterized
by their mutual focus on realizing their dreams and ideals interspersed with episodes of nutty
humor. 6. INFJs and ENFPs Are Both Ambiverted. While INFJs are predominantly introverted
and ENFPs extraverted, both personality types are somewhat fluid in their attitude preference
and they straddle the line between their inner and outer worlds. When ENFPs are in a pensive and contemplative
mood they can appear subdued and introverted and when an INFJ is in a position where they
must deal with people, they can appear very natural and sociable like an extravert. The ENFP INFJ pairing is like a union of two
chameleons who are able to adapt and adjust themselves to the people around them. In a relationship this means they will have
reasonable understanding of both introverted and extraverted needs in their partner. ENFPs will likely understand when for instance
an INFJ occasionally needs space and wants to withdraw for a bit. The INFJ for their part will likely be able
to show tolerance for the ENFP’s penchant for being very friendly with a lot of people
and attracting too much attention from admirers. INFJs can operate in that world as well and
don’t have to feel threatened by ENFP’s popularity. Thanks for watching! Please like this video and subscribe to this
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  • Reply Potion Recipes July 3, 2018 at 12:26 pm

    Thank you for the video! This is pretty much my relationship in a nutshell. <3

  • Reply Sergio Blanco August 9, 2018 at 4:58 am

    Y always with the robots voice

  • Reply Juliano Greco August 18, 2018 at 1:28 am

    Maried with infj 17 years… we broken…six months later found a new infj… never make the dá-me mistakes.. .. today i know about me enfp and my perfect match Life infj
    Im a Lucky happy man

  • Reply Abdalla Gamal September 8, 2018 at 10:23 pm

    This vid made me know why my relationship is bad how hard i tried to keep here
    She isn't my type
    Thanks for making me see the ugly truth
    form lonely happy INFJ

  • Reply Mella Lya September 19, 2018 at 1:01 pm

    Thé music is Way too loud

  • Reply Sofia Meléndez Leiva October 7, 2018 at 7:01 am

    my bestfriend is a ENFP and I'm an INFJ so this makes me happy

  • Reply Umme Habiba October 8, 2018 at 4:43 pm

    Where is my infj! ?

  • Reply Amy HoopLovin October 14, 2018 at 9:01 pm

    Awesome video! Thanks x

  • Reply Shiro Nami October 24, 2018 at 7:29 pm

    I think my Infj is hiding somewhere, I will find you!!! Wherever you are!!!!!

  • Reply Elise Ives November 5, 2018 at 11:25 am

    I have this perfect relationship in my life! I love my ENFP. – INFJ

  • Reply Hana Me November 12, 2018 at 9:39 pm

    super truth

  • Reply EMILY F November 28, 2018 at 9:33 pm

    My old soul sister best friend was an infj so yeaa

  • Reply Christina Fuller December 17, 2018 at 1:12 am

    I finally met my INFJ and didn’t know until he had me take the test lol funny how God works

  • Reply Majin Vegito December 21, 2018 at 9:50 am

    Enfj I Will find U one day trust me I'm coming ?

  • Reply Magical Mahnoor January 3, 2019 at 5:48 pm

    Gonna ask my crush if he is an ENFP. Wish that he is; 'cause it seems so…

  • Reply Arsheila Kang January 12, 2019 at 8:13 pm

    I am an ENFP and I found my first INFJ 2 months ago ? it was an instant connection and now we are bestfriend ^^

  • Reply Henrik Andréason January 14, 2019 at 2:46 pm

    ENFP here ?. Now, where is my little mystical INFJ unicorn ???

  • Reply Amber McQuiston January 21, 2019 at 6:02 am

    I'm an ENFP and my first love is an INFJ. I still pine for him. I've never found that blend of masculinity and emotional availability with anyone else. Now that I know they are the rarest type, I doubt I ever will.

  • Reply Anne January 24, 2019 at 3:40 pm

    Is my perfect INFJ here?❤️

  • Reply Oishi Chan January 27, 2019 at 12:18 pm

    Damn.. I now understand why I fall in love with INFJ more daily

  • Reply Futur3b0und x January 28, 2019 at 9:52 pm

    I need an INFJ
    What if I never find one?
    What if I can never get everything in my mind out?

    Life is too short man..

  • Reply Anh자나 January 30, 2019 at 12:10 pm

    No wonder why my close friend is an ENFP.

  • Reply Chris Lisk February 11, 2019 at 9:54 pm

    Looking for ENFP =D

  • Reply Daisy H February 14, 2019 at 12:28 pm

    Now the question is, where on earth do I find myself a cute INFJ guy?

  • Reply Shuhadha AJ February 15, 2019 at 8:06 am

    This video totally explains about what i feel about me and the guy that i like. At first i didn’t know about the mbti and now, i know why…

  • Reply ARMY_ GIRL February 17, 2019 at 10:37 pm

    Im an INFJ-A and my true love kim taehyung is an ENFP .
    No more explanations

  • Reply Hardcore_Underscore February 25, 2019 at 12:14 am

    I just recently discovered that my boyfriend is an enfp. This makes me so happy

  • Reply Anto THFC February 25, 2019 at 8:22 pm

    I'm an INFJ and honestly, I'm emotionally tired almost everyday. I think I must find an ENFP friend from now (to cheer me up) ?

  • Reply Save March 10, 2019 at 5:40 am

    I´m an INFJ-T from Germany 😀

  • Reply Rayna Kay March 10, 2019 at 5:12 pm

    This is me and my fiancé to a T! Didn't realize how unique his personality really is. So glad I didn't pass up something as priceless as this relationship. ?????✨

  • Reply Esther P. March 26, 2019 at 3:54 pm

    I found my ENFP ❤ hopefully we'll end up together. I never loved anyone like the way I love her ❤

  • Reply Nouha El-mansori March 30, 2019 at 1:09 pm

    i'm an INFJ & I finally met my loveliest ENFP! we forming together the ideal example of soul mates!

  • Reply Marta Sloane April 2, 2019 at 8:25 am

    Where does anyone find INFJ's..? As far as I know, I have no clue just where that may be. I truly feel like a fish out of water, I only feel at home with fellow creatives, and even then, only some of them..And yes, I am an ENFP..

  • Reply Ikey Sokol April 4, 2019 at 4:37 am

    Why is this so freakishly accurate. Life really is a science, there’s no fluff

  • Reply Yukiramoon April 19, 2019 at 7:37 am

    i'm enfp and my boyfriend is infj… 😀

  • Reply Gwendolyn O. April 27, 2019 at 7:36 pm

    I'm ENFP and three of my dearest friends are INFJs

  • Reply Nico Bernaola May 1, 2019 at 9:57 am

    Did someone see that every comment is an ENFP searching for some INFJ, lol this is so accurate

  • Reply Andrew Colin May 3, 2019 at 9:54 pm

    I only know one ENFP, and that’s my brother, finding ENFPs is hard!!!! I’ve found more INFJs like myself and other types as well, but damn, I think ENFPs are the extroverted unicorns ?

  • Reply Marta Sloane May 8, 2019 at 12:19 am

    The music sounds like it comes from the beginning of a Jamie Cullum song.

  • Reply Sugainfires May 14, 2019 at 11:03 am

    Namjoon from BTS is an ENFP and im an INFJ lol

  • Reply Tian Shan June 13, 2019 at 4:17 pm

    Still looking for my ENFP

    ~ INFJ

  • Reply P AMMT June 18, 2019 at 11:17 am

    INFJ here looking for an ENFP. I wonder if this match actually works in real life ?

  • Reply Theresa Caprasecca June 20, 2019 at 5:42 am

    I'm an infj and looking.

  • Reply Ignacia Vergara June 29, 2019 at 11:57 pm

    heyyy im an enfp…

  • Reply HeartofaWarriorX June 30, 2019 at 10:58 am

    single (in mid 20s) INFJ female here! ?
    Any ENFP males out there?

  • Reply Cosmic Gem July 4, 2019 at 6:02 pm

    Idk..i'm an ENFP and I think I'm talking to an INFJ, and I don't think he likes me lol but I made it obvious I like him ? my ex INTP is still trying to figure out our break up that he did lol but I moved on.

  • Reply D Stano July 5, 2019 at 2:52 pm

    Single tall dark handsome INFJ, where are the SINGLE ENFP QUEENS?

  • Reply Mary Lovera July 8, 2019 at 3:32 am

    This is actually true? I hope that one day I can't find someone prefect for me. But so afraid of what the universe will plan for me.

  • Reply pinky cocoon July 9, 2019 at 11:35 am

    ?? I need Infjs in my life

  • Reply Shiroe Spiral July 16, 2019 at 9:11 am

    Still hiding from the enfps. They always end up finding me ._.

  • Reply Jenny pad July 16, 2019 at 3:08 pm

    I'm an INFJ (totally) and my boyfriend is ENFP ?

  • Reply Amera Agao July 20, 2019 at 2:29 am

    maybe its easier to spot ENFP..INFJ can observe and read you..??

  • Reply Melissa Rivera July 21, 2019 at 1:02 pm

    If you’re a cute infj message me

    Cuz I’m a enfp ??

  • Reply akhtar salim July 22, 2019 at 5:14 am

    If it’s actual I wish I could find an enfp friend.

  • Reply frankinsane and myrrh July 22, 2019 at 7:03 am

    any INFJs out there for this ENFP?

  • Reply Adonis Auriferi July 24, 2019 at 7:35 am

    I'm an ENFP and I met this girl at work. I'm not even entirely sure what it is about her that I'm crazy about, but crazy I am. I wandered off looking for another job and am thankful I get to text with her. It often feels very difficult to get a conversation going, she had said that I do talk a bit too much; but on the occasions when I do hear from her, I know that she's the one I want. Turns out she is an INFJ. I haven't known her very long and she hasn't agreed to date yet but hasn't rejected me either. I'm hoping I don't chase her away. Are there any INFJ girls out there who could shed some insight???

  • Reply Healing Wisdom July 29, 2019 at 11:15 am

    I'm a female INFJ and my crush Abel Tesfaye, is said to be an ENFP… just need to meet him when he splits from Bella ?

  • Reply prince•ss August 11, 2019 at 2:29 pm

    Where is my enfp ?❤

  • Reply Voldemort September 2, 2019 at 12:02 am

    Lol I’m an INTP, wth am I doing here ?.

  • Reply Saffira V September 3, 2019 at 10:34 am

    Waiting for my ENFP to find me.

  • Reply Prava September 10, 2019 at 11:36 am

    I'm an INFJ and my boyfriend is ENFP?

  • Reply Pets & Animals [ VINAY ] September 14, 2019 at 5:40 pm

    The music was simply distracting the whole video

  • Reply Jaimee Coleen Aguelo September 15, 2019 at 4:30 pm

    Now, I feel like crying because I have never met an ENFP yet. What if I never find you?

    "and when at last I find you
    your song will fill the air
    sing it loud so I can hear you
    make it easy to be near you
    for the things you('ll) do (will) endear you to me
    oh you know I will"

  • Reply Deanna Gonzalez September 20, 2019 at 1:33 am

    I’m an ENFP (F,22) , looking for a male INFJ roughly similar age. HMU ☺️?

  • Reply Anirban Ghosh September 23, 2019 at 1:04 pm

    I am an single infj

  • Reply Kirk Jones September 30, 2019 at 2:43 am

    Ok now I’m curious, soooo let’s have fun with this, shall we? I’m an INFJ-A, and I’m sending out that ENFP signal beacon. Will she detect the blip? Let’s see what transpires 😉 The flow of recent events has actually inspired me.

  • Reply Park Ha October 4, 2019 at 6:25 pm

    I'm ENFP
    And my sister is INFJ lol?

  • Reply Gemstone Warrior October 11, 2019 at 6:45 am

    ya god can work in werd and awesome ways

  • Reply Catherine Jean October 13, 2019 at 3:57 am

    INFJ here!!

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