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12 Things Introverts Are Best At Doing

October 11, 2019


Twelve things introverts are best at doing There’s somewhat of a negative stereotype around introverts. People say that they’re too quiet to have fun or be social.. Well that is a blatant lie. Just because introverts don’t feel comfortable walking into a room full of strangers or making friends with everyone in a room Doesn’t mean they don’t like to be fun or social Introverts have some of the best personality traits. They just usually keep to themselves Here are just some of the things introverts are great at doing. Number One: Having Thought Provoking Conversations Introverts don’t like small talk. The whole “How are you?” “Can you believe this weather?” “Did you see the game last night?” Chitchat is worthless Due to their disdain for the idle chatter, they’re seen by most as unsociable and this is not the case Introverts want to get straight down to the meat of things. They want to hear your deepest thoughts, your desires, and dreams None of that “I’m fine. How are you?” talk. Introverts know that you have a story to tell and they want to hear it. They want to know your opinions and questions and answers to questions that are infrequently spoken about because of their deep topics Introverts have a therapist guidance counselor mentality and charisma causing us to make you feel more comfortable with speaking your mind and soul. This is good for everyone around Introverts get the satisfaction of having a meaningful conversation with someone without having to fill the empty space with chit chat And you get a part-time therapist. Someone who will really listen to you and your thoughts Number Two: Being Effective Sales People I know what you’re thinking. “What? What in the world? An introvert excels at a profession that requires constant visa vie interaction.?” Yes. Introverts pay attention, care, and are comfortable in familiar situations So they can be confident in their daily jobs even as salespeople. Being highly cognitive people, introverts take time to fully understand their product, customer, and outcomes. From this, introverts are highly prepared for any unexpected events such as objections, crankiness, and touchy questions. They might not be happy with it But they can handle it effectively nonetheless. Number Three: Taking Care of Animals Introverts love to be swaddled and love and affection by those close to them especially when it’s our furry friends So they do enjoy to return the favor Introverts are professionals at taking care of animals especially when they do it alone. You need a dog sitter? No problem. You need someone to take care of your cat while you’re away? Enough said. Introverts have no problem snuggling up next to a dog, cat, bunny, or goldfish and spending a nice day together They enjoy the company of animals more than humans in most situations They sympathize with animals. Introverts can calm a troubled pet since they’re experienced with calming their own troubled minds. They have a lot of energy and want to have fun, eat, and get their belly rubbed But when all is said and done they need their rest Same, Dog. Same. Four: Being Observant Introverts aren’t quiet without a purpose. They observe. While you’re over there talking about the latest fad or your weird dream last night, they’re listening and watching They see the way your forehead wrinkles when your grandpa’s mentioned, and they notice when there’s a new painting hanging up in the office Introverts spend time watching and memorizing their surroundings and environments so they feel comfortable enough to interact with them. Who would jump into the darkness without a flashlight? Introverts prefer to analyze their surroundings rather than focus on biases so that when they finally voice out their misgivings these should be taken seriously Introverts are the first to notice anything slightly out of the ordinary And they’re also the ones to be the devil’s advocate and notice flaws in ideas and concepts Introverts usually spend a lot of time thinking about the worst possible situation and how to get of it so trust them They know what they’re talking about Five: Being Great Leaders As are many of these points, this one is notably surprising. How can someone who dislikes abundant social interaction be a great leader when a leader’s job is to lead others? A recent poll shows that not all successful leaders are extroverts Outgoing individuals use their charisma and spunk to command attention and get things done while reserved bosses lay low and observe their underlings and always know what’s best for them, the person, and the situation. They never speak just to be heard or because they’re the boss. They speak to assist and help others because introverts imagine themselves in quite every situation just to be prepared. They’re careful and attentive, humble and prepared, and they’re comfortable working alone, showing that good leadership isn’t always flashy. So if you ever have a boss that is more on the shy or reserved side This doesn’t mean that he or she dislikes you or thinks they’re better than you It could be that they’re an introvert as well and don’t have anything to say about your performance since you’re doing a good job without them. Six: Being Great Workers Alongside being great leaders, introverts also know very well when to take a step back and get the work done. They’re attentive, wholehearted, determined, and motivated to always do their very best. Since introverts usually don’t use their words a quick wit to talk them out of sticky situations They use their intellectual prowess to provide an answer rather than an excuse. Hand them an extended project, let them work alone in a comfortable environment, and you’ll get incredible results. Introverts need a little supervision because they’re always triple checking themselves, seeing the flaws in everything and preparing every argument that could be made against their work, and working around it to avoid said confrontation. These qualities make them effective followers as well, being dedicated to the completion of their responsibility, provided their solitude is undisturbed. Seven: Listening To Your Troubles Have you ever needed to vent, confided in a close friend and felt like they weren’t really even listening to you? That’s the opposite of an introvert Since introverts know how hard it is for them to express their emotions verbally, if a loved one expresses feelings to them, they will listen hard and well. Introverts are perfect for when you need a shoulder to cry on or just someone to hear your story. As said earlier, introverts hate small talk, so if you go straight to the meaty deep talk, they’ll provide an impeccable set of ears and even some incredible advice for you to follow. Introverts are sensitive to pain, their own and others. They can tell when you’re really upset or when you need to get something off your chest. If a reserved friend asks you if everything’s all right, there’s no need to hide behind another “I’m fine. I’m just tired.” Go ahead and tell them what’s bothering you. There’s no better support than that of an introverted friend Eight: Counseling In addition to listening, introverts excel at helping you cope with your worries. They can easily read people. While others are just listening, an introvert analyzes and interprets the speaker’s thoughts, actions, choice of words, and preconceptions. They can notice little body expressions you don’t even realize you’re doing. They can help you pin down exactly what’s bothering you and even suggest how to resolve it Unfortunately, many introverts are familiar with pain and suffering, so they’re quite experienced on how to alleviate any emotional pain you’re going through. Furthermore, calming someone down isn’t all about talking. It’s about understanding and making deep relationships built on trust. Being empathetic is what introverts do Having someone there, listening and supporting you in a time of need, is just as comforting as a nice warm hug which many introverts may often initiate in moments like these. Nine: Thinking Before Acting Introverts don’t speak quite often, so when they do, every single word was chosen very carefully ahead of time. Sometimes, due to this, introverts may take a while to get a sentence out, since they’re mentally preparing and rehearsing each word before they say it. Since introverts take a while to express themselves, many extroverts just ignore them and talk over them. This can cause introverts to become even more shy so that they don’t get ignored again, as this is traumatic and embarrassing. So if you’re introverted friend speaks up, pay close attention, because what he or she has to say is probably important Ten: Knowing Themselves We all know that quiet persons have the loudest minds Introverts spend a lot of time in their own heads. From this, they know themselves pretty well. Aside from being silent critics, introverts are constantly having inner monologues, evaluating themselves and their choices in everyday situations Thus they rarely have any existential crises and can easily figure out their strengths and weaknesses. They know who they are, what they want, and what is important to them. They might just not tell you all of that information. You could say that they’re silent, but confident. Eleven: Being A Source Of Wisdom By nature, introverts love information, learning, and discovering new things. They might not be the first to go mountain climbing But they’ll definitely be all over a new NASA discovery. Their minds are constantly urging for more facts and things to ponder over in the silence of their daily lives. Not only that, but they use these interesting facts and information to share with others when the time is relevant. So you never know when your small voiced friend might know the exact answer to your problems after reading about a similar situation months ago. Twelve: Being A Loyal Friend Introvert friends will not betray you. They have no reason to. They would never talk about you behind your back or lie to you in a harmful way Every secret desire or dream you’ve ever shared with them will always be safe whether or not the friendship lasts. Introverts cherish friendships and no matter the circumstances would never betray someone who once confided in them They value relationships and try hard to keep them, which makes them some of the best friends you will ever have. Introverts have quite a lot of skills in those quiet little bodies. If you’re an extrovert, don’t be hesitant to communicate with silent peers. You’ll be surprised at what they’re capable of and if you’re an introvert, be proud. You have nothing to feel inferior about, since behind that shyness lies a storm of talents And that’s all from us at Psych2Go. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more.

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  • Reply Psych2Go April 9, 2018 at 6:07 pm

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  • Reply Let Me Talk September 28, 2019 at 9:26 am

    I like chitchat and deep topic what am i

  • Reply Tino Chan September 28, 2019 at 12:37 pm

    I can go to the park and socialize… with the ducks & squirrels & stuff, but I'm just silent with people unless they talk to me first.

  • Reply Jen Nel September 28, 2019 at 2:11 pm

    So true.

  • Reply Dev Sha September 28, 2019 at 4:33 pm

    Good same like my situation…😊

  • Reply Captain Batman September 28, 2019 at 6:02 pm

    Worst part of being an introvert is that you’re always there for others but their never there for you

  • Reply Alice Parroccini September 28, 2019 at 7:33 pm

    I'm an introvert this is sooo true! And it actually made me feel so good and proud to be an introvert

  • Reply Vanga Delia Cristina September 28, 2019 at 10:08 pm

    This is totally true! I'm an introvert. 🙂

  • Reply Farissa Yasmin September 29, 2019 at 4:29 am

    i'm introvert and my friends always says "why u so quiet? do u wanna say something?" to me when we spending time together. i just don't know what to say guys. i'm just listening to every word they say and thinking about it but i can't say what i wanna say.
    (sorry for my bad english, i'm indonesian)

  • Reply mrdolfinn September 29, 2019 at 4:46 am

    Movie Theater Worker: Enjoy the movie
    Introvert: YOU TOO!

  • Reply Livingthe Life September 29, 2019 at 5:32 am

    Introverted me: Hey Dad

    Extroverted dad: yeah?

    Introverted me: don't you know that our galaxy is very very tiny compared to the whole universe and the fact that people think aliens don't exist is pretty stupid and the fact that we humans are 20× as tiny when compa-

    Extroverted dad: d-daughter I'm literally taking my shit

  • Reply Jennet the wølf Valender September 29, 2019 at 5:44 am

    I'm an introvert >:3

  • Reply Neha Sharma September 29, 2019 at 7:24 am

    Kinda feeling great after watching this video…… Great job guys 😄 👍

  • Reply l i l y September 29, 2019 at 8:50 am

    i'm not a big talker, but it actually depends on the topic😉

  • Reply 『 peachan 』 September 29, 2019 at 12:32 pm

    Can u be diagnosed as an introvert?

  • Reply kaitlyn jung September 29, 2019 at 12:49 pm

    “silent but confident”
    i live by “quiet confidence”

  • Reply Draggy 200 September 29, 2019 at 4:29 pm

    My furry friend is biting my leg right now… this hurts a lot

  • Reply Just we September 29, 2019 at 5:56 pm

    Introverts are loud in social medias

  • Reply Kristopher Montemayor September 30, 2019 at 12:40 am

    SOOOOO ACCURATE

  • Reply IAmCrowfeather September 30, 2019 at 1:08 am

    I feel like I’d be a great leader once I finally get comfortable with telling people what to do and just talking to people in general.

  • Reply That Yeeted GirlYT September 30, 2019 at 1:15 am

    As an introvert,this is relatable.💗

  • Reply Miku Kyut September 30, 2019 at 1:20 am

    This whole video yells: ME

  • Reply Miku Kyut September 30, 2019 at 1:33 am

    I, an introvert, in my first year of secondary school I had no friends, so I made an effort and started talking to a girl and stick to her so she wouldn't leave me alone.. 4 years later and she's my best friend 💜☺️

  • Reply Faten Zul-Husni September 30, 2019 at 5:41 am

    Im an ambivert. Come here bcos most of the time im introvert.

  • Reply Distorted ToeNail September 30, 2019 at 5:57 am

    I'm an introvert, and my girlfriend tells me often that I have a fantastic personality. Oh yeah by the way if you're curious about how I got a girlfriend with being an introvert. I had to try to get the guts to talk to her for 3 weeks. It wasn't easy.

  • Reply Paper Boy September 30, 2019 at 7:02 am

    This is true. I live alone and enjoy my own company. I even talk to myself in sign language. I guess I'm pretty weird.

  • Reply liaadventurine September 30, 2019 at 10:04 am

    1. Comparing themselves to social norms

  • Reply Vimal A V September 30, 2019 at 12:05 pm

    🤩

  • Reply the PaulTurf September 30, 2019 at 12:34 pm

    And fuck load of jerking off

  • Reply Love Yourself September 30, 2019 at 12:54 pm

    Introverts are best at…
    avoiding people yall have it

  • Reply DarkDragon Master September 30, 2019 at 2:49 pm

    As an introvert… you did not mention being shy In real life but crazy in the media. And also this video is,Y E S

  • Reply Metev September 30, 2019 at 3:15 pm

    O título e em português! Mas o vídeo e em inglês,qual e o sentido disso???

  • Reply Cynthia September 30, 2019 at 6:02 pm

    In this cruel world, being comfortable working alone means unable to work in a team and that becomes a problem for introvert people. They just can't leave u alone

  • Reply Anirudh Vijayakumar September 30, 2019 at 6:21 pm

    I didn't want to be an introvert. I can't love party' like my gf do. She loves me a lot. How do I get out from this. Somebody please help me

  • Reply Ivy Navarro September 30, 2019 at 6:33 pm

    Also introverts has a tendency to listen to conversations that aren't theirs but not called as eavesdropping coz even though they focus on their own thing, when the ear is vacant, they hear everything around them.

  • Reply aicargaM September 30, 2019 at 8:31 pm

    Introvert can turn from being a 'shy', timid and quiet individual to a loud, bubbly person who suddenly likes heavy metal and rock once you get to know them
    I should know since I have four intrivert friends who behaves more outgoingly than most of my extrovert friends

  • Reply Elena L September 30, 2019 at 9:43 pm

    I am the only one who can spend days thinking about a book and not being able to sleep or think about anything else?

  • Reply Meoshyi Taylor October 1, 2019 at 12:20 am

    This is So True when it comes to me.And know I’m thinking that why I don’t really get along with my Hubby most of the time.My mate is more of an extrovert

  • Reply MİA October 1, 2019 at 1:15 am

    I'm introvert and I love it ♡

  • Reply Velvet Dusk October 1, 2019 at 2:27 am

    My dad tells me to smile and talk to people and I might show him this.

  • Reply Itsme Thealfah October 1, 2019 at 4:15 am

    Introvert feel more confident and comfort when alone . Just like me🙂

  • Reply Nobody October 1, 2019 at 9:20 am

    When u only have friend that only be your friend for fukinh homework and project and you alrdy know that what they are like so you dont have any friend annoying matha faka am mad at my hs life

  • Reply aesthetic Talks October 1, 2019 at 12:41 pm

    I’m very shy at first when I encounter someone, but get to know
    Me I am pretty funny and do crazy sht on an impulse. Some people skip out on me before they get to know the REAL me. It’s not my problem it’s theirs. I always thought something was wrong with me but reading through the comments I see many are similar to me.

  • Reply Rose D October 1, 2019 at 3:39 pm

    introverts are the best at doing everything… excluding making human interactions

  • Reply shivani makode October 1, 2019 at 6:46 pm

    Why m I not this type of an introvert

  • Reply Carly Firestone October 1, 2019 at 7:03 pm

    That painting on the wall at 3:20 immediately reminded me of bold and brash from spongebob, anyone else see it?

  • Reply Mika Ella Romero October 2, 2019 at 1:09 am

    I like to be alone but without making someone feel that I don't want to be with him/her.

  • Reply Kyoko Chan October 2, 2019 at 6:39 am

    Okay so im definitely an introvert. Alot of these very surprisingly match me hahha you read my mind or something!

  • Reply refinnov darkly October 2, 2019 at 9:42 am

    You're right about being a loyal friend and how we value relationship especially romantic relationship since we rarely find it, we are having difficulties finding it.

  • Reply Addy October 2, 2019 at 10:37 am

    I’m a introvert and a lot of these I HATE. Except deep talks

  • Reply Leloree Boe October 2, 2019 at 11:38 am

    Someone I knew ❤

  • Reply Kayla Zohal October 2, 2019 at 12:42 pm

    My boyfie is an introvert but I love the way he is❤

  • Reply Tobias Ryd October 2, 2019 at 1:47 pm

    Now i know i am a Introvert

  • Reply eldz dalmazo October 2, 2019 at 2:39 pm

    gosshhh!! now i understand more about him ,,

  • Reply Wolfie Xox October 2, 2019 at 8:46 pm

    Introvert is me their really talking to close friends

  • Reply SxRG- October 3, 2019 at 12:00 am

    Never thought a video would precisely describe my personality.

  • Reply Lola Mercado October 3, 2019 at 2:14 am

    I feel more confident now, even though this was like a year ago ><

  • Reply Iamaturtle 20 October 3, 2019 at 2:27 am

    I've Got depression and apparently am an Introvert

  • Reply Sam the Lamb XD October 3, 2019 at 3:21 am

    Im an introvert and i DONT CARE ABOUT WHAT ANYBODYS THINKS OR FEELS 😑

  • Reply Yunus Thai October 3, 2019 at 3:33 am

    Us introverts should collaborate and make a book using the random fantasies we're always dreaming about, give some ideas cus who knows if this turns out real…

  • Reply Anna Fishbein October 3, 2019 at 3:34 am

    This was a nice little booster for my self esteem

  • Reply MJNerd c: October 3, 2019 at 5:51 am

    Me: *attempting to speak for once in my life*
    Friend: *interrupts me to bring the attention to them*
    Me: *sighs* guess I don't need to speak

  • Reply lali :p October 3, 2019 at 11:04 am

    My problem is that I'm not quiet with people I trust I talk all the time but when I'm with others I just can't or don't want to talk

  • Reply valval X3 October 3, 2019 at 12:39 pm

    Its like the 6th video about introvert I watch today. Wow having a introvert crush is hard.

  • Reply Blue_14 October 3, 2019 at 2:24 pm

    I am an introvert and this is a very accurate video

  • Reply kihachi October 3, 2019 at 7:07 pm

    13. We are silent just hoping that a person know all of this traits so they know how trustworthy and how to talk to us…

  • Reply kihachi October 3, 2019 at 7:17 pm

    It's harder When you're an
    Introvert
    Loner
    Lonewolf
    Emo
    yes i am a friend that wants to understand a emotion of a person and make them better but since i'm a emo i'm kind of punk-ish person also so i successfully make them a happy person but i can't be happy myself i only have my thoughts and imaginations.

  • Reply Alero17 October 3, 2019 at 8:05 pm

    Friend:Hey, how ar-
    Me:Stay the fuck away from me.

  • Reply Kenna Henry October 4, 2019 at 5:25 am

    Motivated! Hard workers!

    Me: an introvert Well depression you have stopped me from yet again from being a normal living being

  • Reply skinbae shop October 4, 2019 at 10:23 am

    I'm an introvert and i'm jealous to someone who can get along with everyone they met

  • Reply Querkidi Alone October 4, 2019 at 12:37 pm

    I’m an introvert, many of my friends ignore me when I’m quiet and that makes me even more shy to every people that I am not close to

    I am loyal to them but they were not they just go to their another friends and that makes me not to go around with my friends and with their another friends

    But most of the people in my room needs something to me so ye

  • Reply Ediwow Wow October 4, 2019 at 2:03 pm

    I`m an introvert and I hate noisy people.

  • Reply AN_ ARMY October 4, 2019 at 2:29 pm

    I hate crowds, loud places and walking alone…

    but I do think a lot is it only me that I think abt any probably situation of apocalypse and how should I escape if it happens or what should I do when there is a disaster?

    And I am loud and crazy if I am with the one I know better 😂

  • Reply Ankit The Introverted Traveler October 4, 2019 at 10:03 pm

    Please subscribe and share https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCAZ0DqXKQHP9A49IZyJeMHg

  • Reply ItzNevaeh October 5, 2019 at 7:12 am

    Its 1 am and I'm watching this than dreaming. Cuz this is epic.

  • Reply Marta Miñano October 5, 2019 at 1:23 pm

    Number 13: doing absolutely nothing…
    Number 14: having the Big sad.

  • Reply JASSON REYES October 5, 2019 at 2:31 pm

    0:57 LoL that face, 😂.
    That guys looks just like me.

  • Reply green shrek October 5, 2019 at 5:26 pm

    wait.. people are actually confident in going into a room full of people and making friends? oh…

  • Reply Softunicorn October 5, 2019 at 7:34 pm

    Almost all of them fit in on me. It’s anoying when everyone asume that I am shy and tell me to talk more. The worst thing for me is small talk. I never know what to say or do.

  • Reply Martell Tha Cool October 5, 2019 at 11:26 pm

    I'm a disabled introvert and it's very difficult for me to make and meet friends. despite doing everything i can do for my friends. it seems that they never take time out for me or return the favor.

    i live alone in sadness and sometimes I wish i wasn't alive than to live another day without no friends. i don't know how to be acting fake or pretend to be something i'm not.

  • Reply Laura B. October 5, 2019 at 11:48 pm

    why are all of those things true

  • Reply Greene the cute girl October 6, 2019 at 4:38 am

    I'm even freak out when I see unknown call I won't even attend the call

  • Reply H S October 6, 2019 at 12:13 pm

    Being an introvert is great. I soak up knowledge, I observe and I constantly learn. I just do not see the usefulness of chit chatting for 2 hours about nothing. Extroverts needs us more than what we need them.

  • Reply Sparklewatermelon October 7, 2019 at 12:17 am

    Who else is watching because they wanna be good at something

  • Reply hehe boi October 7, 2019 at 2:27 am

    Ok, not even gonna lie these are relatable and scary Asf

  • Reply Knee Ger October 7, 2019 at 3:38 am

    Introverts don't feel the need to express theyselves but once they get accepted in a group and feel comfortable around them they finna turn into the clown of the group.

  • Reply Dan W October 7, 2019 at 1:11 pm

    I can talk to horses with my body language and although I have to work at it the horses seem to understand me. I can talk to people using English and they don't understand a damn thing.

  • Reply C moi October 7, 2019 at 8:15 pm

    1. Being a furry

  • Reply Ultimatescumbag 4ever October 7, 2019 at 10:27 pm

    Hey fellow introverts wanna sex?

  • Reply 5ped 0f s0und October 7, 2019 at 11:23 pm

    personally, I can stay calm very well. But sometimes I seriously need alone time to recharge and become calm again after a stressful day,. So for the love of FUCKING god, if someone doesn't want to be talked to, if someone seems upset, do NOT try and confront them. You will get a nuclear blast of anger.

  • Reply The Roar Within October 8, 2019 at 7:32 am

    Definitely number 3!

  • Reply Fleek N Fly October 8, 2019 at 4:40 pm

    I have my own rules of life 🤷‍♀️

  • Reply kirisaki catsune October 9, 2019 at 2:45 am

    Me: I’m tired of being ignored
    People: if you want someone to hear you then just speak up it’s not that hard
    Me:…ok
    ~~~~~~~later~~~~~~
    Me: speaks up
    No one noticed
    Me: speaks louder
    No one noticed
    Me: yells in your ear
    Person: jeez shut up! Your so loud you talk to much!
    Me: ok I’m sorry….
    Sneaks off to a corner and no one notices

  • Reply Irsan Baktiar October 9, 2019 at 11:27 am

    Introvert = NPC in real life.

  • Reply Alma Holten October 9, 2019 at 1:01 pm

    Omg 10 is so true for me

  • Reply Sitaram Mandal October 10, 2019 at 9:39 am

    Sandeep maheshwari (12mil + subs) is also an introvert.

  • Reply Yaveton October 10, 2019 at 4:12 pm

    okay so I'm not an introvert I'm just retarded

  • Reply Viktoria Angelova October 10, 2019 at 4:13 pm

    I know that most of the people watching this video are introverts, because most extroverts won`t bother to watch a video about introverts AND because introverts often try to learn something new about themselfs and their serroundings (This is why I watched this). I LOVE FACTS!

  • Reply green_brick October 10, 2019 at 5:41 pm

    The video is realy trying to make us feel meaningful(thanks for that, appreciate this), but we all do understand reality and the image of the introvert youve just presented doesnt match with it. This video is about someone you could only see in a movie or tv series but in reality this doesnt realy work. For example I consider myself really introverted person, but time to time i doubt it. I am so confused at this point of my life i cant even describe it. Almost all of my friends are positive minded extroverts and sometimes i feel strong pressure from their side. For example, new cafeteria opened in my college and i hated it. I started to criticize its design(its awful, believe me) and my extroverted friend said to « those who dont do anything(she was talking about some off college artsy activities[she considers herself as a person of art, so she is doing some « artsy » stuff]) have no right to criticize ». Its some kind of a sibling of toxic masculinity, toxic self-development or smth. And I think I am losing myself in all this. Everyone wants me to be someone, and not who i am. Honestly, i dont even have a personality, because all of my preferences and patterns were developed because i had(still have) a huge crush on a girl from kindergarden. I have really low gpa, disgusting body and selfhatred. Everything i ever wanted is acceptance from someone. « I love you for who you are ». Thats it. But world doesnt work like that. Suicidal thoughts became a routine. I had no day when i wouldnt think to myself « this would be great, to jump from this building ». Sometimes i dont even have a reason to think about it but i still do, its some kind of a ritual for me. I feel tired of social interactions when i have them and i feel depressed when i dont have them. I have no idea what to do with my future, i have no motivation to study my major(i hate it so much). And my crush is killing me. I created myself, every inch of my personality for her and still she treat me like garbage. I am trying to be there for her in her hard situations, trying to help her in every way i possibly can and still i feel this underappreciation. And yeah, i hate myself so much. I hate my traits, my health, my appearance, my ignorance and i am just hoping to die some day. I dont even know why i am writing it. Maybe because i think that everyone kinda tired of this shit. I know that this video supposed to make people like me feel appreciated but still it looks to me like some kind of joke. One of many. Well life is one perverted comedian, isnt it?

  • Reply Tokime October 10, 2019 at 11:18 pm

    As it turns out. I'm not an introvert I just suck at communicating.

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