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10 Differences Between Good Friends and Toxic Friends

October 10, 2019


We all know the phrase a friend in need is [a] friend indeed But did you know the difference between good friends and toxic friends? Well? We all have that one friend Who’s bad-tempered a little jealous and somewhat conceited? Do you think he or she is a true friend [to] you? Let’s see today We’ve got 10 major differences between good friends and toxic friends that you should consider and don’t forget to hit that [thumbs] up button Because it’s important for us number 1 good friends celebrate your success They’re really happy with your promotion at work your new relationships or even your new shiny car They’ll be the first to call you and say hey well done Congratulations. Let’s go out and celebrate. They’re always very proud of you toxic friends get jealous of your achievements even your smallest Achievements enrage them they cannot put up with the idea that someone’s [business] is going well They can like your photos on Instagram, but when you meet them in person. It’s easy to notice. They’re jealous of you It’s literally written on their faces number two good friends know the importance of your alone time Sometimes we all can’t stand the hustle and bustle of big cities, so we need our private time spend this time on meditating thinking reading good books or walking our true friends understand this and Never get offended even if we cancel weekend plans with them Toxic friends try to occupy all your time. They’re like spiders They literally need all your time and attention They easily get offended when you want to spend some time alone and complain about you to others You always feel guilty when [you] say no to them Number three good friends are caring and empathetic [they] say wow you look great even if you have bed hair and are wearing a [rubble] t-shirt They never judge your appearance, and they always know how to cheer you up toxic friends judge and criticize you oh Where’d you get that weird hat you look terrible they never miss an opportunity [to] point out your shortcomings even the smallest ones They hide behind the phrase I just want to help you, but they don’t help at all. They make you feel awkward And uncomfortable number four good friends respect you and value your friendship You’re a very important person for them So they know how to argue without being personal also, if something goes wrong when you travel together, they’ll just laugh at all the troubles Toxic friends lose their tempers easily they can even shout at you in front of other friends or in public If something goes wrong or not according to their plan they lose their temper very quickly and become a monster number five good friends enjoy exchanging opinions [they’re] interested in your opinion and always listen [to] you if they disagree with you. I’ll express it in the mildest form toxic friends only want to win an argument They hardly reckon with your opinion because they think that only they are right and they try to prove it by any means number six good friends believe your words well of course They won’t believe you if you say you’re moving to mars next weekend But they usually believe all your stories when you tell them something interesting for instance from documentaries. They believe every word Toxic friends doubt everything you say, they’re like Are you sure? I think it’s better than ask google. No matter what you say they always want to double-check Number seven good friends, call you because they miss you. How was your day is everything okay? If you miss your class or work, they’ll be the first to call to ask whether you’re [alright] They miss you, and they worry about you Toxic friends find you only when they need your help hey, can you pick me up right now? Help me with my work walk. My dog. No come on world friends Numberings good friends except you the way you are Even if you wear all bright colors together sing on the streets or spend all your weekends riding a canoe They appreciate your wings They don’t care they love you Toxic friends try to change and control you they always say something like what’s better for you is or you have to try this They find it hard to reconcile themselves with your lifestyle. Let’s be honest their advice is so Number nine good friends know that everyone has their friends, and they won’t judge you for that They might even become good friends with your other friends if you introduce them to each other if not They’ll still respect the fact that you like to spend time with your other friends and colleagues Toxic friends don’t like your other friends remember they’re like spiders They don’t want to share you with other people and even with your family. They always want to be the center of your life number 10 good friends know how to keep a secret If you tell them please don’t tell anyone they’ll take it seriously don’t worry your secrets won’t fly around the world Toxic friends say things they shouldn’t say and they always add I shouldn’t have told you this if your friend tells you other secrets it means he or she would spread your secrets as well Just avoid their company gossip is not the best pastime so Have you recognized some of your friends? Share this video [with] those who you consider your best friend ever and if you’re visiting our channel for the first time click subscribe to stay on the Bright side of life

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100 Comments

  • Reply SETHYKA 22 August 12, 2019 at 4:47 am

    I got FAKE FRIENDS!!! NOO WHAT?

  • Reply iiInkTeaii August 12, 2019 at 5:15 am

    I only have 2 mistakes so I think ima good friend?

  • Reply Blackpink Biased August 13, 2019 at 12:03 pm

    does that mean i am supposed to break my toxic friendship? why do i have only toxic friends in my life?

  • Reply Sive ;-; August 13, 2019 at 11:16 pm

    So… all of my friends are toxic…?

  • Reply Josiah Soto August 14, 2019 at 12:53 am

    Josiahsoto

  • Reply AwkwardGeekTalk August 14, 2019 at 10:13 am

    I always shout at my friends and they shout back

    No we’re not toxic

    We’re screaming because we’re having fun and need to let out a lot of energy we can’t get out anywhere else

  • Reply Cynthia Abubakar August 14, 2019 at 1:05 pm

    You made me sad because now I know I have a toxic friend
    She was only my friend
    I don’t have a true friend 😭😭😭

  • Reply Julia Pan August 15, 2019 at 12:40 am

    Oh my god I relate so much my ex best friend is like that.

  • Reply HRleigh August 15, 2019 at 3:43 am

    OMG I JUST FOUND OUT I HAVE A GOOD FRIEND IM CRYING

  • Reply Sai Anupama August 15, 2019 at 6:27 am

    You know my BFF is having all the quality of toxic friends
    Then why is she my BFF 😂

  • Reply ZARIANA BINTI ZARIM - August 17, 2019 at 1:42 pm

    It's a good thing no wone like me

  • Reply Black Wolf August 19, 2019 at 6:10 am

    Good , & true friends don't tell you what you want to hear.. They tell you the truth. Who wants a friend who b/s you? Only a desperate person would want that.

  • Reply Prafulla Kumar August 19, 2019 at 10:42 am

    I don’t have a toxic friend but my used- to – be best friend does have one. She stopped spending time with me because of that toxic friend . I am really worried about her.

  • Reply Cole Dace August 19, 2019 at 3:11 pm

    Omg my friends are all toxic

  • Reply Jacquie Deshazo August 20, 2019 at 3:24 am

    You: ugh. I look terrible today
    Friends: nooo you don’t!
    Best friends: same lololololol

  • Reply Kickass August 20, 2019 at 8:27 am

    My friends are snakes 🐍 😑

  • Reply Algorax Mago August 20, 2019 at 7:37 pm

    My presence here is not casual: today i broke my relationship with 2 of my friends that i knew for a very, very long time. I swear to god they are guilty of all the things a bad friends is said to be in this video. They were my best friends, i guess that tells exactly the nature of my relatioships…

  • Reply Fathima Irshad August 21, 2019 at 8:32 am

    I always try to be a good friend

    1. I say they look nice even if they don't
    2. I help them even when I am extremely busy

  • Reply legend mythic August 21, 2019 at 10:58 am

    Heck so im a good friend.

  • Reply Vin August 21, 2019 at 12:16 pm

    It seems a lot of us r lone wolves

  • Reply Brett Mitchell August 22, 2019 at 4:12 am

    I have toxic friends.

    Well I used to anyway.

  • Reply Parām Sāntim das August 22, 2019 at 9:32 am

    I'm suffering with toxic "people like this". Actually they will be always around unfortunately. Particularly if you have to live or work with them. TOLERANCE!!

  • Reply Vandana Pathak August 23, 2019 at 8:06 am

    I don't believe in friendship as I was also having a friend but she just leave me alone

  • Reply jxke August 24, 2019 at 10:06 am

    I only have toxic friends that has some of this good things. I always try to have good friends but some things they do are toxic. Its so mixed up they are old ones. I cannot find good friends at all.

  • Reply Talking Ginger Cutey Ginger August 24, 2019 at 10:08 am

    I actually have true friends

    But they are all for transient😢😢😭😭😭

  • Reply K Priyanka August 25, 2019 at 11:56 am

    Actually i think some of toxic qualities I have I shld change them…..tq for this video

  • Reply 다시드가 August 25, 2019 at 3:16 pm

    man…the thumbnail triggered me from the start…reminds me of so many people around me who keep in touch only when they need me to do favors for them

  • Reply Ieva Andri August 27, 2019 at 10:21 am

    I don,t have friends

  • Reply Peach Plastic August 28, 2019 at 1:32 am

    Ugh. All of this sorta depends on communication. It's probably a good guideline to see how you hanging out with different people makes you feel and whether it's productive or enriching in any way. But this is a checklist to judge and label people by, and, uh, doing that…. seems a little toxic.

  • Reply Gachastrawberry _12 August 28, 2019 at 10:05 am

    Hmm… Which of this is related to my friend?? ALL

  • Reply KJK August 28, 2019 at 4:13 pm

    why is this video all girls? what about toxic MALE friends?

  • Reply 에리스elise August 30, 2019 at 6:25 am

    ok this probably has nothing to do with this video, but when i was like ten, i was at a pool party thing with my four friends (including my friends lil sis so its five) and all of us were on three floaties (huge flamingo, big cupcake, donut-looking one).. except for me.

    i had to connect the three floaties, and its like 90 kg on each one (bc we each weighed abt 30 kg) and i only had two crummy arms..

    I FELT LIKE POPEYE.

    yeah ok and then one of my friends (lets call her riley even tho thats not her real name) told me to hold her goggles while she went on a floatie. okay, easy enough, right?

    RIGHT?

    an hour passed by, and riley asked me,

    “sorry d00d but where did u put ma goggles?”
    “oh im holding them why?”

    I.
    WILL.
    NEVER.
    FORGET.
    WHAT.
    SHE.
    TOLD.
    ME.

    “omg i will trust you the most from now on how were you still holding them for an hour-”

    btw, i was in the top 3 people she hated. i was the third one.

    edit: also my friends dont allow me to have other friends.

    LIKE, IM PRETTY SURE THAT OLDER PEOPLE KNOW A BIT MORE THAN YOUNGSTERS, CORRECT?

    IM THE OLDEST OUT OF ALL FIVE OF THEM AND THEY ACT LIKE BOSSES WHO ARE LIKE TEN YEARS OLDER THAN ME

    IM SUPPOSED TO HAVE OTHER FRIENDS, NOT JUST THE SAME FOUR FOR THREE YEARS!

  • Reply DEATH LORD August 30, 2019 at 8:28 am

    😯Even I'm always trying to be a good friend!!! But now I know my friends are pure toxic waste😱!!! I just had 1 true friend in life & other are cousins!!! I think I want some good , very good friends to make my life better!!!
    Life is better with Good-hearted friends😄

  • Reply Thomas August 30, 2019 at 10:31 am

    I got rid of people today and so far my life has been good

  • Reply Yana Erodias August 30, 2019 at 11:08 am

    My friend is so annoying when she said give her some chocolate but I have no chocolate pls. Help me how your friend will so nervous when they know what they doing trust your self and be your self .if you want to dislike that's ok if you want to like you are now my new friendship 😂😁😁😁😄😄😀😀😉

  • Reply DatYoutuberWhatsHisName September 1, 2019 at 3:02 pm

    The dislikes are fake friends who got exposed C:

  • Reply dakter basar taso September 1, 2019 at 3:13 pm

    I knew she is toxic😶

  • Reply CornKob September 1, 2019 at 9:44 pm

    Why is the narrator so breathy

  • Reply Rara Nazir September 2, 2019 at 4:28 pm

    I wondered why do they became in that way , do they have their own reasons?. I mean" toxic people" are just useless n give other problem

  • Reply FNAF Plush Master September 3, 2019 at 7:11 am

    The dislikes are the toxic friends….

  • Reply WACCENTguy27 September 3, 2019 at 2:01 pm

    Friend.. a guy in school that i belived as my only friend, I really don't have many friends due to my disability to speak german well amd because I am not fully but somewhere around introvert and I try to have good friends with good influence over my life.. So that I can make them happy too, and that toxic friend was in class and looked at my clothes and shoes noticeable, and then quickly popped out a question that he held back moments before finishing it ,,Why do you have so much cheap stu— I mean I got more expen-'' Then he stopped looked at me and continued our typical conversation, at that point I knew it was time to cut friendship with him. So what you have to learn:

    Stay safe, don't hesitate to double check who you are becomimg friends with, amd without bein toxic, back off from those who are bad and generally waste you mentally and physiclaly, and your time.
    Have a nice day! ☺

  • Reply zulfiqar husain September 4, 2019 at 2:43 pm

    Anyone who was comparing someone while watching

  • Reply VijaPerfect September 5, 2019 at 4:08 pm

    I felt like a toxic friend because

    I told my one friend that you need to brush your hair a bit better because you will cry the next day when you try to brush it. And I said that because I seen her every week like that and he hair was brushed but the center of the head is very very sticked in to one big ball of hair. I said that because I had my hair like that before.

    Next is I don't like being with all my friends at the time I want only with one friend who came over. I think I'm scared she will run away and leave me and I will be used like a toy (I'm scared because I was left too many times by that one friend who I'm friends with. Why? I don't know why tho.) They we're trashing about me behind my back)I'm scared to lose a friend that's why I always want to be with only one at that day…I only believe my BFF because she never leaves me..

    I'm ashamed of my self…

  • Reply Sunil Sarkar September 5, 2019 at 5:26 pm

    These toxic are always trying to bring the good friends to their side

  • Reply Hashibuzzaman Hashibuzzaman September 6, 2019 at 11:04 am

    Well I m good friend and my friends are all toxic to me except my imaginary one

  • Reply JASSIM ALMERAIKHI September 6, 2019 at 3:39 pm

    I guess all my friends are toxic

  • Reply OrangeTime Express September 6, 2019 at 7:41 pm

    I remember I was sick and almost missed helloween, I was not in school for days, my friend did not call me, when I called him, he asked if I am coming or not

  • Reply Mac Ellim September 7, 2019 at 11:04 pm

    Yung friend mong ang galing mangutang pero kapag siningil mo sila pa galit. Ako na lang nahihiyang maningil.

  • Reply Newt - September 9, 2019 at 2:22 pm

    Well.
    My best friend isn't really my friend.

  • Reply سيستين _ فيبل _ SISTINE _ FIBEL September 9, 2019 at 10:23 pm

    1000000000000000000/100 kids
    1/100 adults

  • Reply Twrecks September 10, 2019 at 1:17 pm

    I aint got no friends =(

  • Reply Mussab Az September 11, 2019 at 11:13 pm

    Do not agree… Sorry

  • Reply Leslie King September 12, 2019 at 12:57 am

    Thank you Bright Side for this.

  • Reply Cute Little devil September 12, 2019 at 1:02 pm

    My friend is fake….
    I didn’t think that…

  • Reply Elyk September 12, 2019 at 3:51 pm

    I have some of these, but i want to be genuine, i honestly want to change, but ive got no clue how cus my emotions are weird

  • Reply Kumkum Mukjarjee September 12, 2019 at 8:17 pm

    I have 99℅ toxic frnd

  • Reply darpan gujjar September 13, 2019 at 4:15 am

    3.9 dislike done by bright side toxic friends

  • Reply brahamdutt harit September 13, 2019 at 3:55 pm

    thanks bro now i m going to end my friend from my life

  • Reply Amar Retimi September 14, 2019 at 4:03 pm

    TY soo much for THIS it hellped me alot Ty

  • Reply meme killer September 14, 2019 at 7:33 pm

    Isay one thing i have no friend's, andthat'snok

  • Reply AP Gachan September 16, 2019 at 12:01 pm

    I know you felt the same I did,When you knew that you're a good friend and not a toxic one uwu

  • Reply Yasser Gamer KSA September 16, 2019 at 1:25 pm

    My friend is good friend and im good friend

  • Reply Freddy Freddy September 16, 2019 at 2:03 pm

    thank you BRIHT SIDE realy thank you for making this video

  • Reply r laze September 16, 2019 at 4:32 pm

    The thumbnail…. some one asking to be picked up may be too broke to own a car. Does that make them a toxic friend?

  • Reply King Rai September 18, 2019 at 11:54 pm

    My cousin has all this personality !! what should I do?

  • Reply VijayKumar Lokanadam September 20, 2019 at 10:32 am

    is is a true friend great or best friend great

  • Reply Andreea Bianca September 20, 2019 at 9:10 pm

    plot twist: you are the toxic friend

  • Reply The Undercover Conservative September 20, 2019 at 11:42 pm

    All the people watching this video saying they have toxic friends but never even considering that they may be the toxic one

  • Reply Tae Eun Joanne Sung September 21, 2019 at 5:40 am

    Oh thank goodness my best friend is a true friend

  • Reply Jamie Lynn September 21, 2019 at 7:16 am

    What if they say they’re busy and then two hours later they’re with someone else

  • Reply Kaleb Valdez September 22, 2019 at 1:18 am

    What if you’re a true, loyal, enthusiastic, passionate, respectful, loving friend, fully surrounded by toxic people…?

  • Reply MATTHEW PERRIN September 22, 2019 at 8:40 am

    I have started my life over, and severed my toxic friends. If your friends ignore you on purpose, let them go forever!!!

  • Reply Raine Yt channel September 22, 2019 at 1:01 pm

    Well i have 2 friends, im really a good friend but one of my friend is a Toxic friend but other one is a good friend

  • Reply Matt Stamps September 22, 2019 at 10:09 pm

    This is a pretty bad analysis

  • Reply Ender Wiggin September 24, 2019 at 11:19 pm

    Triple like!

  • Reply Mrs. Kitty September 26, 2019 at 12:55 am

    Well, I have a really toxic friends she has a very toxic personality.

  • Reply Andrew Bradley September 27, 2019 at 11:20 pm

    I came here to clarify some doubts about my only supposed friend, I can't deny that I haven't had good times with him, we have things in common and he is really my only friend, the reason why I have no more friends or I can't make new friends is because of my Agoraphobia and some other conditions. I don't like to push my friend and make him feel that he must always comply with me but sometimes I feel that I'm only a leftover to him when he has nothing to do or with whom to speak, when I share something that it went well for me or I'm excited about something and I want his support he just makes fun of it and everything is a great joke with zero importance but when it's about him, I'm always there to listen to him, support him and try to always be aware of the evolution of his events.
    There was a moment in which I thought that he was moving away from me because of my way of being or how I live my life, I tried to change, to include myself in his likes and other friendships but it turned out badly, he began to share things that I had told him in secret and he simply didn't care and he tried to protect himself by saying that he told them just because I started talking about it, which never happened. My problems and experiences that I've had in my life made me get used to loneliness but I think that we will always want a friend to talk to and not feel excluded, judged or ignored and for what I watched in this video I officially don't have a true friend, I hope nobody is going through the same thing as me, also this comment is not to make you feel sorry for me or to be the center of attention, I just share it because if you have a friend in the same situation please try to help him and be faithful and not pretend, we don't want 30 friends or 1.000 friends, we only want a true friend, even if it's only one.

  • Reply Karen Hervey September 28, 2019 at 12:46 am

    I always be a good friend to others but at time seriously I wonder!

  • Reply PastelTulips September 28, 2019 at 4:48 am

    Why are you comparing toxic friends with spiders.. poor spiders

  • Reply KurdiTalk September 29, 2019 at 5:11 pm

    I used to be a very toxic friend but thank God now I am not

  • Reply Lil potatochip :3 September 30, 2019 at 3:27 am

    Ya i felt this way how many friends well maybe all of them like if u understand or maybe comment a hello Bai have a wonder day night or afternoon morning wherever look somewhere positive

  • Reply Lil potatochip :3 September 30, 2019 at 3:38 am

    Dont worry! I feel the same way i call two of my "friends" and not even one " hows your day" all i get is " why wernt u at school ewww i dontvlike your bun (hair) why are u so skinny" and of course for my life i always get a " WHY DO U DO THAT ANNYOING BABY VOICE" I have another friend who does the same thing do they do anything know I dont know what o do but im SICK of it

  • Reply Ramones Nestor Jr September 30, 2019 at 7:04 am

    im a good friend but they always leave me

  • Reply mohamad fadlin September 30, 2019 at 2:08 pm

    Aftermath. im toxic. I have toxic friends. I have no friends.

  • Reply default October 2, 2019 at 3:17 am

    Friend makes fun of the way I nod my head and the clothes I wear so I’m trying to cut him off

  • Reply Babyishliex N.W.T October 3, 2019 at 4:09 pm

    Can't get a good friend 🙁

  • Reply Reuben Coughlin October 5, 2019 at 8:17 am

    Why was I shown this in citizenship

  • Reply Ranu Mazumdar October 5, 2019 at 1:15 pm

    When u are waiting for your phone for full charge and its 99% and it takes forrreeeevvveerrr

  • Reply Victor Crayman October 5, 2019 at 2:08 pm

    I'm just tired being friends with people, they will all end up looking down on me, ignoring me, talking behind my back, or make fun of my appearance.

  • Reply Valeria Lopez October 5, 2019 at 2:10 pm

    Well actually good friends are more likely to say whats wrong with your outfit the will N O T let you go out looking like that making other people judge you

  • Reply Sherali Vega October 5, 2019 at 2:13 pm

    I've been a good friend to my friends but everytime I share my stories they're doubting is that what you also call toxic friends?

  • Reply mynaturaltea October 5, 2019 at 6:40 pm

    She’s nice but she always makes me feel sad and I don’t know if she actually likes me at this point. It’s my best friend. I moved schools so it’s fine but …

  • Reply unknown October 5, 2019 at 11:16 pm

    I have decided to finally put God and loving myself first. I've lived my life worrying and caring about others first. Now it's time for God and loving me for first time

  • Reply Gabbyplayz October 6, 2019 at 7:02 am

    I’m half toxic and good LOL

  • Reply Neftali Rivera Jr October 6, 2019 at 10:35 pm

    This friendship (good friends) is rare, it's out there but it's rare! More Toxic Friends out there than anyone! That's why I'm a loner an not complaining so much,👍👍

  • Reply Butters Stotch October 8, 2019 at 5:19 am

    I kicked out all the toxic people , I got no friends lol , well I got a few friends . But they are living their own life’s .

  • Reply Francisco Ramon C. Pardinez, Jr. October 8, 2019 at 11:47 am

    my best friend is the opposite of most of this. which I am actually grateful for

  • Reply GoFundme October 9, 2019 at 11:58 am

    I’ve got this one ‘friend’ who I’m starting to think is toxic but my other good friends worship him. if i try distance myself from him I’ll end up losing my other friends

  • Reply Salazar Girls October 10, 2019 at 5:53 am

    I have had a toxic friend she got mad when I had to go to the pool and she was like “ UGH YOU ALWAYS GO TO THE POOL” That was my first time 😑

  • Reply Debbie Mclean October 10, 2019 at 9:25 am

    Who the he'll cares what they think I know who I am in don't even need friends I just need to make sure I follows God's manual talk to people when I can help when I can and that's it

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